I am going to show tonight MIGHT run into ol girl.

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The girl that dumped me and i became better from it, I just wonder what would yall do if you have a want her/hate her in your head and dilemma about it because you know why she dumped you but became better from it and you kinda conflicted. Would yall give it a try if she would do whatever for you?
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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I wouldn't.
You've become better and improved yourself, why go back to the low hanging fruit?
Aim high.
 
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Yeah I saw her and man it was just i dont even know. I said just wanted to say hey she did not care at all just said how you doin I said good and walked off. I mean man it really hurts inside so ****ing bad and I dont know why it has been internally hurting me ALL WEEKEND and this is not a big deal I KNOW she doesnt give a **** because she didnt say jack to me pretty much so why does it bother me? And how do I get over it. I guess I just wanted more then that.
 

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Only you know that. Her opinion of you effects your self esteem because you're emotionally invested? Were you happier when you were with her than you are now?
 
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Well I guess when she dumped me and I was very upset I got into the gym and her dumping me put me in the gym and motivated me more and getting in shape. And I dont know everyone says i looked good but she just said "how you doing" like no you look good wow or anything so yeah I was upset about that. I should say I am happier but the thing is her not caring made me REALLY hurting inside this weekend for some reason. I am more confident and get women on POF talking to me so its not like I cant get women and I am about to see this one girl probably sleep with her. But, yeah I was emotionally connected to this girl and was into her she isn't really THAT attractive IMO but i connected with her emotionally and we had similar interests.
 
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i doubt it for real if she cared she would of said more then how you doing? seriously. Im not gonna lie I was crying on the way home and had lot of pain last night and today and I went to mediation lounge and it helped a little she said my emotional center needs to be worked on.
 
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