I am addicted to Sosuave

[ethnomethodologist]

Sopranos spurred me into knowing why though, I want to be happy.

1
Does anybody out there have any advice, on how I can still visit this site on a regular basis,and not forget what my problems are when I visit?

2
Can anybody else tell me why they visit Sosuave?

3
Do you enjoy learning about "seduction" as much as I do?

4
Have you noticed me being a real **** lately, and why?

 

[THe O Magic]

1
Perhaps you need to write down your problems so you can see where it needs fixing. And then look for your "fix"
eg. lack of confidence: look up ways of increasing confidence and put action into it. keep the momentum going.

2
Because it has some good advice on women, health and improving your life.

3
Since you have over 314 posts in 12 days... I think you like it more or you are up to something else..
But yeah it is cool to learn about seduction and to have your beliefs questioned about how things are going around in the world.

4
Yes, but I cant quite put my finger on what it is exactly. Perhaps you are trying to organize the confusion (Googled your name)

anyway, hope it helps...

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Originally posted by THe O Magic
1
Perhaps you need to write down your problems so you can see where it needs fixing. And then look for your "fix"
eg. lack of confidence: look up ways of increasing confidence and put action into it. keep the momentum going.
2
Because it has some good advice on women, health and improving your life.
3
Since you have over 314 posts in 12 days... I think you like it more or you are up to something else..
But yeah it is cool to learn about seduction and to have your beliefs questioned about how things are going around in the world.
4
Yes, but I cant quite put my finger on what it is exactly. Perhaps you are trying to organise the confusion (Googled your name)

anyway, hope it helps...

Helps tons, lots of questions, and I can answer some of the stuff that was wrong about me. Don't want to brag, ever though, people respect me in my real life for not doing so.

1--I write down my problems on this website(will answer this on #3) and I try and fix it right than and there after mentioning it.

2--agreed

3--314 posts in 10 days actually, 32.6 posts per day just goes to show how many problems I think I do have. I'm letting my confidence carry me through, trying to understand the problems, and than getting an answer, that I believe is true, is definitely giving me some killer uppers What is it that you think I am up to? I am not trying to lie about anything, that was one of my main new years resolutions, and I don't want to back down on that anymore, I get depressed when I know I am lying to myself or others now, and I fight to make sure they know Seduction is the key word, still looking for more information before I make a post in tips about it

4--organize the confusion? I am definitely trying to do just that! What else did you learn after googling my name?

 

[THe O Magic]

I googled and found this link:
http://www.hewett.norfolk.sch.uk/curric/soc/ethno/intro.htm

After reading it I thought to myself: Cool

It seems everybody around me is using it.
For example: a few weeks ago I was out with a buddy of mine.
We both look at this girl as she walks by.
And he smiles at her. she looks in a certain way and he says to me, she must not find me attractive.
At that point I thought how can you say that. My train of thought was different than his about the situation, can't remember what it was ( but it was much more positive than his)

We are always interpreting thing from a frame of reference.
And I'm guessing this has to do with experience and confidence.
so if you get your frame of reference right there should be no problems... right?

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Originally posted by THe O Magic
I googled and found this link:
http://www.hewett.norfolk.sch.uk/curric/soc/ethno/intro.htm

After reading it I thought to myself: Cool

It seems everybody around me is using it.
For example: a few weeks ago I was out with a buddy of mine.
We both look at this girl as she walks by.
And he smiles at her. she looks in a certain way and he says to me, she must not find me attractive.
At that point I thought how can you say that. My train of thought was different than his about the situation, can't remember what it was ( but it was much more positive than his)

We are always interpreting thing from a frame of reference.
And I'm guessing this has to do with experience and confidence.
so if you get your frame of reference right there should be no problems... right?

Well, of course I am going to be running game on you. Gotta get the practice from everybody I want to understand people, so I can understand what they have been trying to teach me. I am looking at the science as a means to an end, I haven't lied or tried to hide what I am doing. Of course I had to say I wasn't a troll when I first started posting, but it's because of the form of my message, that people saw me in the wrong light. So I was in fact telling the truth. That was the last time I lied. Every post I have sent, at the time, I knew it to be true, to the best of my knowledge

No problems, no. I will provoke people though, always will, it's not normal to be able to provoke somebody. If they do get annoyed though, than they are giving me permission by confirming I am provoking them.

I have that exact same page in my favourites, I remember those weird faces. It's buried now though, and I couldn't bring it up unless I put a lot of boring time, just to say, "see?" and that would just be showing off.

You were absolutely right in your post though, 100%. I don't know who you are, my real name is Jay Mahoney, what's yours?

 

[THe O Magic]

Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
Well, of course I am going to be running game on you. Gotta get the practice from everybody I want to understand people, so I can understand what they have been trying to teach me. I am looking at the science as a means to an end, I haven't lied or tried to hide what I am doing. Of course I had to say I wasn't a troll when I first started posting, but it's because of the form of my message, that people saw me in the wrong light. So I was in fact telling the truth. That was the last time I lied. Every post I have sent, at the time, I knew it to be true, to the best of my knowledge

No problems, no. I will provoke people though, always will, it's not normal to be able to provoke somebody. If they do get annoyed though, than they are giving me permission by confirming I am provoking them.

I have that exact same page in my favourites, I remember those weird faces. It's buried now though, and I couldn't bring it up unless I put a lot of boring time, just to say, "see?" and that would just be showing off.

You were absolutely right in your post though, 100%. I don't know who you are, my real name is Jay Mahoney, what's yours?

Haha Jay I like you already.
Run all the game you want..

My real name is Oene (which i sent to you in a pm with a question btw.)
and I'm from Nederland (europe)

Do you really want to understand all people?
At the present time I can't see how that would work since everyone is operating from their own frame. And everyone thinks that what he or she is doing is the right thing.

But understanding the frame thing was a real eye opener, I now understand where and why things went wrong with my ex-gf.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Originally posted by THe O Magic
Do you really want to understand all people?

At the present time I can't see how that would work since everyone is operating from their own frame.

And everyone thinks that what he or she is doing is the right thing.

But understanding the frame thing was a real eye opener

I now understand where and why things went wrong with my ex-gf.

I hope you realize you answered your own question there. I'll reiterate though, since I've never tried to answer that question before.

I REALLY DO want to understand everybody. Why? I was born nice, well to be nice to myself, everybody has been so nice to me, so I try and do what I can. 22 years I convinced myself to be nice, than it hit me, 10 days ago, that I was wrong.

My first thread I started, the one where I said "this is new o_0 I am scared" that was my frist thread, I tried hard not to lie in the thread, while still trying to get the best answer possible, it was Shiz Nizzle, who answered the most out of this world response. He was right, Shezzler called me stupid for it, I defended myself from the call, and against the "troll" call, until he understood. Since than people have been freaked out why I am afraid to talk to her. I haven't told her why I was scared, she knows what happened anyways, and I never lied to her, I just avoided her. Big thing, I know now, I won't do it again, I ****ed up, and LIED a lot that night. I think I was right in protecting my family from the truth, I don't want them to look back at me and see me as being a bad person ever. They see it all the time though, damage control I think it's called. Well since than, she's told me she wants me, she's grabbed my balls in front of all my friends, she's grabbed me by the belt and tried to make me dance with her. I am scared of her, I don't understand why I get drunk, I don't understand why girls get drunk, I don't understand whyshe wants to sleep with me now that I think I disrespected her that bad. I know she can't be pregnant, she's had to have self aborted the child with alcohol by now, I saw how drunk she's been, I've been out every night, and she gets drunk before I leave when she shows up.

Those are some of the reasons, some of the shades of thinking, I want to wrap my head around. Anything I say after this is going to be gibberish, except for the next paragraph.

You seem cool too, nice questions. The pook question was a big surprise, I hope you understand, and respect that I hate seeing people hide. I would respect if you talked about it in the open now. Thanks for liking me, I don't want to get complacent, so I'm going to say now, I don't deserve it yet, at least I don't think so. I see myself as pathetic, many many people do, seems like they have all my life, and they think I am too weak to want to know.

G'night, that is where the gibberish starts. I can't go to sleep until I get the call from my supervisor that I can miss work today for staying awake all night. I'm not going to be useful to them today.

 

[THe O Magic]

As far as i know I didn't answer my question.
I should have worded it different: after realizing there are different kinds of frames I now understand my ex-gf's frame better.
I can now understand her frame because she sent me an e-mail about how she saw "us" in the future.

If you really want to understand all people you're up for one helluva job because everyone has their own agenda with wants and needs.

If you can please enlighten me on how you want to accomplish that

My first thread I started, the one where I said "this is new o_0 I am scared" that was my frist thread, I tried hard not to lie in the thread, while still trying to get the best answer possible, it was Shiz Nizzle, who answered the most out of this world response. He was right, Shezzler called me stupid for it, I defended myself from the call, and against the "troll" call, until he understood. Since than people have been freaked out why I am afraid to talk to her. I haven't told her why I was scared, she knows what happened anyways, and I never lied to her, I just avoided her. Big thing, I know now, I won't do it again, I ****ed up, and LIED a lot that night. I think I was right in protecting my family from the truth, I don't want them to look back at me and see me as being a bad person ever. They see it all the time though, damage control I think it's called. Well since than, she's told me she wants me, she's grabbed my balls in front of all my friends, she's grabbed me by the belt and tried to make me dance with her. I am scared of her, I don't understand why I get drunk, I don't understand why girls get drunk, I don't understand whyshe wants to sleep with me now that I think I disrespected her that bad. I know she can't be pregnant, she's had to have self aborted the child with alcohol by now, I saw how drunk she's been, I've been out every night, and she gets drunk before I leave when she shows up.

Perhaps you tapped into one of her (subconscious) fantasies and now she knows you are for real.
Perhaps by getting drunk she wants to relive the fantasy??
Who knows..

 

[Cesare Cardinali]

Have you noticed me being a real **** lately, and why?

All the time actually. I don't recall reading one post where you weren't a d*ck.

Cesare Cardinali

 

[wavejams007]

Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
All the time actually. I don't recall reading one post where you weren't a d*ck.

Cesare Cardinali

Blunt answer, and some could view you as being a bit unprofessional by posting this Cesare. But this is just an objective coment. I personally reserve judgement.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

HAHA 16% that's got to be a coincidence, it's one of my old favourite numbers... I'm going to spend some more time on this topic before I decide on what to do...

Here are a few of the most important polls imo current results. Sadly, I could only search for the word poll not all the actual polls.

True: Are you here to learn the game, or are you here to bring the others up to speed?
I'm still learning, but want to help to raise those that are beneath me to my level. 62.16%
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False: Is it hard for you to approach women? Are you a procrastinator?
I am a procrastinator and I rarely/never approach women. 19 59.38% I procrastinate but approach often.
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False:Why I havent gotten laid lately.
I am too afraid to go out and approach girls. 19 27.14% I feel my time is better spent on other things.
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True: I treat working out more like a...
Hobby 63.16%
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...Joekerr31 made a wild rush about his thoughts on marriage...
False: women not married by 30 most likely...
are mentally unstable 36.84% they have not found the right guy said 45%
People who responded to the male view of marriage at 35% as it being a deathtrap, 45% said hold out no matter how long for the perfect woman.
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True: is happiness dependent on having a woman?
hell NO! you gotta learn to be happy on your own 58.54%
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Just plain funny: According to the situation below - which comm. method would you use? (asked about geogrphically impossible method of breaking up)
Phone 100.00%
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True: [OfficialDJB] Poll for making the Bible easier to navigate
Yes 80.00%
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True: Which Statement Best Supports Your Opinion?
Moderators are just posters who happen to enforce some of the site's rules. I enjoy some of their joking around and don't see anything particularly wrong with it. In fact, I might even be interested in seeing MORE joking by moderators, even if those jokes insult others in a funny way. 66.13%
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Very True: ...rememeber we are asleep for like 30-40% of our lives
Successful life when you are awake but a lifetime of nightmares 85.71%
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True: Do you have a girlfriend/do you want one?
No, but I would like to have one sometime in the future. 31.94%
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Funny: Scenario: Incredible HB9+ you meet wants to hook up with you. Fvck, or not? WWDJD?
I'd fvck that pvssy all night long. 94.94%
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Where ya at BlueLemond?
expect nothing?: Are you getting laid tonight?
50% sure. On the prowl. See how it goes. 2.44%
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Idea for new poll:
Dating AW's(and other girls) poll
Should the search function be made MORE advanced?(ie search for more polls)
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