I am a PRINCESS, I always get my way.

[SoldMySoul]

Today I had to get a haircut for an upcoming job interview. I went to the usually location and there are only two women than I will allow near my hair. Which sucked today because they were both there. I did not want to appear like an a$$ because I like either one of them to do it. So I said we will do it with a coin toss.

There was a hot HB8 doing nothing so she took my number to get my information. Then out of the blue she said, "Sold, you ready for me to cut my hair?" I thought, "WHAT?" This girl basically stepping all over the two I will allow to do it. She thought just because she is HOT and way hotter than the other two, I was going to let her cut my shyt!

I told her NO WAY!!!! Only those two cut my hair!!!

I am sure there are some dudes that would risk a bad haircut just to be near a hot women. NOT THIS GUY!!! First, it was rude of her to try and take away $$$ from the ones I wanted. Second, she did not get her way.

She looked awfully surprised when I denied her and did it in a cold way. I am so tired of the princess mentality!!! I bet she felt like a fool the rest of the day and probably thought I was a d i c k.

When you put these princess types in their well deserved place, it screws with their self image and that I LOVE!!!

Cheers Gents!

 

[synergy1]

there are crybaby spoiled dudes out there too. But ya, either way those people are chodes.

 

[speed dawg]

Good job. Now fvck her and cvm all over her face, and come back to the salon shop and laugh at her with the other two girls.

Well, don't go that far.

 

[SoldMySoul]

Good job. Now fvck her and cvm all over her face, and come back to the salon shop and laugh at her with the other two girls.

Well, don't go that far.

She is hot and qualified for this I am sure, no doubt! But in the famous words of Rory, on lock stock and smoking barrels, "I am not the kind of pvssy to drink the milk when it goes sour."

I mean she pouted!!! It made her look bad in front of her co-workers and I in the car biz, she would be viewed as a snake! Not good at All for a harmonious work environment.

 

[Trader]

Girls are free to have that princess mentality - but once they enter my world, they are quickly put in their place

I wouldn't let their princess attitude get to you, just be prepared to put them in their place

 

[vivek59234]

Good job. Now fvck her and cvm all over her face, and come back to the salon shop and laugh at her with the other two girls.

Well, don't go that far.

Awesome.... Loved it... ha ha ha... can't stop laughing...

 

[tinctrar]

Good job bro. Keep it up.

 

[iqqi]

I told her NO WAY!!!! Only those two cut my hair!!!!

OMG! No you didn't! Did you put your hand on your hip, too? Did you really deliver all of those exclamation marks so handsomely and suave like?

I wasn't going to say anything, but... screw it. You blew your cool on this one.

No matter how much you have something against hot chicks with entitlement attitude, getting all huffy with your panties in a bunch isn't going to help you win any youresosuave awards.

You should have smirked at her, and said something along the lines of "Sorry Princess, I only let proven professionals touch these locks." And if it even fits, you can add: "How about you make us some coffee?"

See, the problem with so much negativity and holding grudges against the evil hot entitled chicks of the world, is that you end up coming across as not suave at all, but instead, a burnt jaded and hurt victim on the border of being a loser. The minute a stranger can get to you and even change your emotional state and cause such a hissy reation, with such a small and typical annoyance such as a hot girl acting like a princess, you have failed.

Do not wear your heart, nor your past, on your sleeve.

 

[SoldMySoul]

OMG! No you didn't! Did you put your hand on your hip, too? Did you really deliver all of those exclamation marks so handsomely and suave like?

I wasn't going to say anything, but... screw it. You blew your cool on this one.

No matter how much you have something against hot chicks with entitlement attitude, getting all huffy with your panties in a bunch isn't going to help you win any youresosuave awards.

You should have smirked at her, and said something along the lines of "Sorry Princess, I only let proven professionals touch these locks." And if it even fits, you can add: "How about you make us some coffee?"

See, the problem with so much negativity and holding grudges against the evil hot entitled chicks of the world, is that you end up coming across as not suave at all, but instead, a burnt jaded and hurt victim on the border of being a loser. The minute a stranger can get to you and even change your emotional state and cause such a hissy reation, with such a small and typical annoyance such as a hot girl acting like a princess, you have failed.

Do not wear your heart, nor your past, on your sleeve.

Well that was me typing what I felt inside. I did not yell or scream or raise my voice, but I did say only those in a normal tone. If I would have done what you suggested, I would have for sure failed, absolutely.

I do agree with what you said and your come back was much better than mine.

Out in public, I treat people like I want to be treated. But I see your point and I have to work on some things, that I concede. A bigger failure would have been to capitulate and give in. It was ostensibly wrong for her to try and hijack other coworkers lively hood.

 

[iqqi]

Well that was me typing what I felt inside. I did not yell or scream or raise my voice, but I did say only those in a normal tone. If I would have done what you suggested, I would have for sure failed, absolutely.

I do agree with what you said and your come back was much better than mine.

Out in public, I treat people like I want to be treated. But I see your point and I have to work on some things, that I concede. A bigger failure would have been to capitulate and give in. It was ostensibly wrong for her to try and hijack other coworkers lively hood.

Understood.

My main point is, on the inside you got really worked up over this. That tends to happen with a lot of guys who just really take it personally, that some women are vapid airheads. They start to generalize, see the wrong in minor occurances, pick up on every single dumb chick move until it's all they see, and it goes on from there. They start posting every day minor encounters with airheads on seduction sites, or news articles that prove women are dumb cvnts, ect. ect. I mean, who knows it could even lead to them making an entire site based on how women are evil, and before you know it they are spending half of their waking lives sending out newsletters on how to "put a woman in her place", or a link to a recent news article about a woman deserving to be beaten to death for being a dumb fvck and choosing "the bad boy", it just spirals out of control! I ask you, is this really any way for a man to live?

If you can see the bigger picture, and remove your emotions from someone else's silly actions, then you yourself will be less likely to suffer a silly reaction. Even if it is held inside. Then you can focus on more worthy things.

I think that many men make the mistake of really churning the pot when it comes to "realizing the evils of women", to the point where they miss out on everything else or/and it taints everything. There is better things to do with your time, like improving yourself. Do you think James Bond or any other legendary DJ really would waste any of their time or brain power talking sh!t about women who are basic dumbfvcks?

And this isn't saying you are WRONG, it is just saying maybe you should focus on something more worthwhile than the negative aspects of some random human's nature. :yes:

 

[SoldMySoul]

Thanks for posting the thread.

It's ALWAYS best to be a gentleman and treat the ladies with respect...ALL ladies...especially the ones who feel that they're entitled!

When a man goes after what he wants, he's confident; but when a woman does it, she's "entitled"...so what?

In this particular situation, she wasn't disrespecting you...yet you took it so personally!

Actually, the young lady was simply going after what she wanted...she may have even actually been signaling an IOI...

Yes, she feels entitled...so what's the problem? Does her confidence intimidate you? Her actions didn't harm you whatsoever......the young lady was simply a go-getter! THAT is the kind of person I want working for me!!! A GO GETTER...someone who goes after what she wants.

I admire the young lady for asserting herself.

I see where you are coming from and I did think maybe she wants to cut my hair because she was "feelin" me. If the other two were not there, I would have given a chance and it would have been a nice experience....just not sure how good of a job she would have done. If she was trying to get near me, which is possible, I am not hard on the eyes then I could have missed out.

I was looking from an angle she was stepping on toes. I am all for getting yours from hard work. In sales, if you are independent you can be a hustler, but it is her fate that awaits for trying to cut in on established customers.

This girl I grew up with has been cutting hair for over 20 years and begged me to allow her to cut my hair and it was bad! It took several haircuts thereafter to get it right again. So, yeah, I am quite funny about it.

My main problem is the last several women I have dealt with left me a little bitter and that is something I MUST work on. That is my own shortcomings and I certainly should not hold against ever woman walking on the face of this earth.

My looks are there, but my game is rusty as hell and I got to get it right. I do appreciate an assertive woman as long is she is doing it for the right reasons. Thanks guys!!

 

[synergy1]

but once they enter my world, they are quickly put in their place

I am sure you let gods pimp hand do all the work for you.

 

[jophil28]

When a man goes after what he wants, he's confident; but when a woman does it, she's "entitled"...so what?

This is a doubtful comparison given the circumstances .

The way I read Sold's story was that he was miffed because Miss Entitled pushed herself at him in a way that said that she had no respect for what HE wanted even though he had already flipped with the other two stylists for his hair job.
She also showed no respect for their income by attempting to poach the job for herself.
Then she pouted when he did not bow down to her wishes.
IF I were Sold, I would be mighty unimpressed with her behavior too.

Going after what you want is admirable BUT doing it in ways that deny others their equal rights to make a fair living, or trying to climb over others is not ever going to win you Employee of the Month.

 

[SoldMySoul]

This is a doubtful comparison given the circumstances .

The way I read Sold's story was that he was miffed because Miss Entitled pushed herself at him in a way that said that she had no respect for what HE wanted even though he had already flipped with the other two stylists for his hair job.
She also showed no respect for their income by attempting to poach the job for herself.
Then she pouted when he did not bow down to her wishes.
IF I were Sold, I would be mighty unimpressed with her behavior too.

Going after what you want is admirable BUT doing it in ways that deny others their equal rights to make a fair living, or trying to climb over others is not ever going to win you Employee of the Month.

Sir, you read my original intent spot on. You explained it in more of an eloquent fashion than I. When you are paying money you want what you want. First negative thought was she is trying to undercut the two I like. Then later, I thought about her "Princess mentality."

Being with a woman for 10 years, then divorcing her and dealing with a few after that has clouded my vision. I need to start being more of a spinning plates kind of guy, which I never was.... but that is where I have failed. I have always been a pretty easy going dude and shall remain, but spinning more will give me a chance to decide what I want instead of putting up with garbage.

I started rambling... just trying to get squared away.

 

[thefonz]

Iqqi is dead on I think,

You're doing a lot of mind reading here it seems. I doubt she was walking around the place going, "Wow, that snazzy fellow sure put me in my place with that 'No way!' remark Perhaps I should reconsider how I do things and learn to see myself as an equal in society rather than try to and manipulate men to my advantage. It stops today!"

It really is a miniscule experience IMO.

Don't try to get back at all the hot women who rejected and used you back in the day, this attitude just reinforces all the **** that really doesn't matter.

Why can't a girl act like princess? Are you man enough to handle that without getting all hot and bothered? If anything she won because you're the one still analyzing the situation while she's probably out manipulating another guy. It happens, just worry about your own crap.

 

[Trader]

You guys just don't get it.

There's nothing wrong with a girl having a princess mentality but when a girl starts to impose herself on you, that's when she needs to shut up.

The OP was deciding between 2 hairstylists, he didn't ask the HB for her opinion, he didn't give any indication he was willing to consider having someone else cut his hair.

Take gender out of the equation, and take this more pointed example.

You are at a restaurant, and you decide to order wings. But then the waiter comes in and keeps insisting: 'Oh no, you should order salad instead.'

I would look at him like: 'Who the hell are you telling me what to do?'

 

[Trader]

It's ALWAYS best to be a gentleman and treat the ladies with respect...ALL ladies...especially the ones who feel that they're entitled!

The OP WAS respectful to the girl, he simply said: 'NO!'

When a man goes after what he wants, he's confident; but when a woman does it, she's "entitled"...so what? In this particular situation, she wasn't disrespecting you...yet you took it so personally! Actually, the young lady was simply going after what she wanted...she may have even actually been signaling an IOI...

She wasn't disrespecting the OP - she was being damn annoying. The OP decides who gets to cut his hair, he didn't ask for her advice, she gave it unsolicited - she deserves to get shot down.

Yes, she feels entitled...so what's the problem? Does her confidence intimidate you?

No her confidence does not intimidate me, but rather her impudence makes me want to crush her to pieces

Her actions didn't harm you whatsoever......the young lady was simply a go-getter! THAT is the kind of person I want working for me!!! A GO GETTER...someone who goes after what she wants.

Yes I want her working for me. I don't want to DATE those types though.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

When men go after what they want, they generally understand that at least a degree of work and/or sacrifice is necessary to get it.

I don't see the same thought process in women, they think it should be given to them because they want it, and if they don't get it, YOU'RE the one who's effed up.

 

[boomerick]

Jophil & Trader nailed it.

Chicky-poo over stepped her bounds right on the toes/ dollars of her co-workers. She probably gets away with this alot with afc types who pedistalize her for her looks and miss the lack of character her behaviour demonstraits.

I know MANY hairdresser chicks and beleive me they know guys will become regular customers, and tip stupidly, a good looking chick regardless of how bad their cut/style turns out.

They all joke about it amongst themselves giving the girls with the high tipping guy customers crap about which dudes are fawning all over them.

I've seen it personally.

If you find one who does a good job stay with her. Tip her well but not too much so you don't look like a desperate schmoe.

Over and Out

 

[Nutz]

I did like the "princess" and "how about you make us some coffee" lines Iqqi came up with. See, even a blind squirrel finds a nut from time to time.