I’m back at least 5 years later lol

Thechamp

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I mean I have had a few things happen in a good 5 years but I’ll be honest now ai is out I’m keen to see what combinations, with books information and people’s experience have worked the best for them, I have had a barge time been working hard some one last in the family but I’m still happy , any way books to read or combine ?
 

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Generative AI is the Spawn of Satan and spits out horribly docile, idealistic, bluepilled advice like it's been possessed by the spirit of Guanyin herself; it is of no use for real seduction advice. What exactly is your background and what goal have you returned here to accomplish? Have you already had a relationship or sex before or have you spent five years unsuccessfully trying to have your first?
 

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How to approach a woman that is standing at the bar. Front the back? Front the side? And what to say to her as an opener?
Approaching a woman at the bar can be done smoothly with the right body language and opener. Here’s how you can do it:

Approach Strategy

  1. From the Side (Best Option)
    • Approaching from the side feels more natural and non-intrusive. It allows her to see you coming without feeling startled.
    • Position yourself at an angle, not directly facing her, which keeps it casual and relaxed.
  2. From the Front (If She Sees You First)
    • If you make eye contact before approaching, a friendly smile and direct approach can work.
    • Just be mindful not to block her space or make her feel trapped.
  3. From the Back (Worst Option)
    • Avoid approaching from behind, as it can startle her and feel uncomfortable.
    • If you must, make sure to slightly move to her side before starting the conversation.
What to Say – Openers That Work

  • Casual Observation:
    "That bartender is working like a magician tonight. What’s your go-to drink?"
    (Works well if she’s waiting to order or just got a drink.)
  • Playful Question:
    "I need an expert opinion—what’s the best ****tail here?"
    (This invites her to share something rather than feeling interrogated.)
  • Compliment + Question:
    "That’s a great drink choice—do you always go for that, or is it a special occasion?"
    (Gives her a chance to talk about herself.)
  • Situational Humor:
    (If the bar is busy) "I think we should start a support group for people waiting too long for drinks."
  • Direct but Playful:
    "I saw you over here, and I had to come say hi. I’m [your name]. What’s your name?"

The key is confidence, a friendly tone, and reading her body language to see if she’s open to the conversation. If she engages back, great! If not, be polite, smile, and move on.
 
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