Hugs?

[tamales]

Please don't say I told you so... Or anything else negative. I just really could use a hug right now.. I made a decision and well, frankly, it hurts. Especially, when they call. It's only been two days! My gosh, but still while I am confident of my decision, I am in a little pain. Nothing time won't heal ( not another guy or relacement but real time) someone on here said that to me and it makes sense. Oh well, lame post. But I am really blue right now and have about 200 products to make and well just wanted to hear some cheers from the crowd?

Silly as that may be

Thanks
Tamales

 

[DJ Logic]

bwahahahahaaaaahaaahahaaaa!

Tamales you are sooooo pathetic! WE all told you so!!!

Just kidding, c'mere girl hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmnnnnhhhhhhhh!!

You deserve that for finally growing some balls...uh metaphorically speaking of course. I hope that this post marks the end of this lonnggg chapter of yours. If I were you I would do something fun to get my mind off things. Hang with da girls. Go to the amusement park. Reward yourself for not being a doormat! Take heart in the fact that you have inspired me to kick my ex-one-itis to the curb. Man the sex wasnt even that good...I dunno why I was sweating her. Stupid obsession! Well, if you can do it, so can I!

Bless you tamales, some may sneer but many of us cheer for you!

 

[shyguy208]

Hey there, know exactly how you are feeling.

I just decided to end my friendship with a former one-itis (well I say former but I would still bang her if given the chance). She was taking advantage of my residual feelings for her and using me etc... Then cutting contact when I was of no use anymore and then repeating the cycle when she thought that I may be useful in some way in the near future. I told her a couple of days ago that we were finished as friends because it wasn't real.

I am weak and feel that if she were to call me then I would go crawling back to her! But I know that she won't call because she is a selfish cow that will not call until she needs me for something. Sometimes it would be just to get me to think we are friends just so that she looks good when we are in our common group of friends / work mates - can you believe that!!!

Here have a hug from me. [Hug + peck on cheek]. OK Tamales! Enough mushy stuff! Let's be strong and get through this!!! Come on! Bring it on! We take take it!

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by tamales
Please don't say I told you so... Or anything else negative. I just really could use a hug right now.. I made a decision and well, frankly, it hurts. Especially, when they call. It's only been two days! My gosh, but still while I am confident of my decision, I am in a little pain. Nothing time won't heal ( not another guy or relacement but real time) someone on here said that to me and it makes sense. Oh well, lame post. But I am really blue right now and have about 200 products to make and well just wanted to hear some cheers from the crowd?

Silly as that may be

Thanks
Tamales

gurl, u really like to vent

(id say a lil too much, but hey your a girl

 

[Reto]

Sorry to hear tomales. Time heals all wounds...

Shyguy, that's sounds identical to my story. It's now been 8 mnths for me and I think of her daily. Don't give in and call her. I've run into my oneitis 5 times since and ignored her every time. It's gonna take time...You can do it...

 

[shyguy208]

Thanks Reto. Thing is that I will have to see her at least once a month due to meetings at work. We work for the same organisation.

My other friends/work mates also would like us to meet up more often than just for the meetings. I wouldn't like to have to shun them as well just to avoid that silly girl. I'll just have to make sure that I don't get into a situation where we are left alone together. The others don't know anything about us so she can't try to sweet talk me in front of them. It's only been a few days (two I think). I'm going on holiday abroad tomorrow so she will not be able to contact me for two weeks at least! Going to try my best to get through this one!

 

[DJ Logic]

Mannnnnn, it's almost like this bytch can read my mind! she just called me to say she misses me. So tired of her double signals! I just hung up on her and now she is blowing up my cellie. That's it fools, I am done on this one!

Stay strong everyone, I know we are turning this thread is turning into a Relationships Anonymous meeting, but fukkit. We are here to support each other right?

*group hug*

*Sob* *sniff*

I love you guys!

 

[GirlCrazy]

*Big bear hugs for Tamales*

 

[shyguy208]

DJ Logic. Switch the cellie off.

Do not pick up or all the guys (and the few girls) from sosuave.com will come round and slap you silly!

Be strong!!! Go have a wank now!

 

[Reto]

You shouldn't have to turn off the phone because of her. I kept my oneitis' number in my phone so I could tell if she called.

Just don't pick it up...

 

[DJ Logic]

I turned it off just because the constant ring is killing my battery. Why is it that when you finally turn your back on a bytch, she gets all needy? This is on some stalker levels here. The sick part is that I still want to talk to her. I miss just hanging out becasue she is actually really great person.. But fukk this sh!t..Like I said, I am D-O-N-E!! thanks 4 the support guys

 

[Reto]

She's an attention Ho. You cut off what she's craving...

 

[Slickster]

Forget the Hugs Tamales.

Do you want a Back Rub?

 

[PEACEDJ]

Focus on what is there for you. You're probably a gifted and talented person. Don't worry about the past, move on. Worry more about the future, oh and for the hug.. ehh i can settle for a high five? or if you really want one get one from your mom

 

[Don Ron]

damn, you need to resort to virtual hugs to make you feel better??

What are you..some kind of hermit spinster?

I thought I had problems, but between the hermit chick bawling for attention and the dudes giving each other group hugs, this thread made me feel alot better about my situation.

Thanks guys!

 

[Bonhomme]

Sheesh, you women are so-o-o emotional...

Just kidding!!!

It is said the first few days of withdrawal are the worst. Hang in there, Tamales.

((((hug))))

 

[tamales]

"damn, you need to resort to virtual hugs to make you feel better?"

No but it sure helps, and thanks for the hugs. I will be just fine... haven't we all been here. Geesh!

What are you..some kind of hermit spinster?
Nope. Not in the least. But, whatever, nice verbage. Made me LOL!

"I thought I had problems, but between the hermit chick bawling for attention and the dudes giving each other group hugs, this thread made me feel alot better about my situation."

Good for you! Although, I bet you are the biggest deeb of all. Not to be cruel but if you have it all together than why bother coming here and bashing me for wanting some "hugs". Whatever, I wish you luck but from what I can see... you ain't all that.

And Geesh, you make ME feel better. Big bear hug to myself!

 

[Don Ron]

HAHAHA!! I will take a good laugh over a hug any day! So I guess this is a win-win situation. Wouldn't you agree, my kino-starved friend?

 

[Don Ron]

btw, i dont know how sophisticated your sense of humor is, but I would be honored if you would participate in my Fart Poll

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31547

It will be refreshing to get a female perspective!

 

[tamales]

Your poll is retarded dude. I mean, as a lady, WTF! (LOL!) as I swear, I would never ever give it up for a hot guy or a dweeb. I mean farting is not comfortable under any circumstance. Sure it happens but hey any raional adult doesn;'t go there, Sorry, dude but I have much better things to thik about. And well, I am a low maintenance ie, gas fueled kind of gal

Farts, Hell I fart maybe once every three months ifthat. So, obviously, not worthy of your poll.

But for your sake, sure I would hold it in if on a hot date. Who wouldn't and what kind of ? is that? I would exuse myself to the restroom and powder my nose.

So now, I guess you guys can really wonder what we are doing in there. If it's mexican use your imagination.