hug or shake hand

[BES]

dj i need your help
ok we are meeting in a dine so i need advice. met her in the internet so
i am going to see her the first time so
hug or shake hands introducing myself.

compliment and start convo?

please any tips at all would be appreciated.
any tips on the convo?
do and dont please.
i really need to impress this chick really bad and i want to feel i am the great catch.

 

[Mojo604]

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[DJLegion]

Originally posted by BES
dj i need your help
ok we are meeting in a dine so i need advice. met her in the internet so
i am going to see her the first time so
hug or shake hands introducing myself.

compliment and start convo?

please any tips at all would be appreciated.
any tips on the convo?
do and dont please.
i really need to impress this chick really bad and i want to feel i am the great catch.

If she does look exactly like the picture she sent you then you can start the convo off by saying your grateful that she looks like her picture; that you've met too many people who send you pictures when they were 30 lbs less, blah blah blah.

 

[octane_orphan]

I wouldnt start off with a hand shake :s ... far to formal ... just smile say hi and take the convo from there... a hug goodbye aint really my thing, a kiss goodbye is more manly, if you ask me.

 

[sfalexi]

met her in the internet so
i am going to see her the first time

Bad idea. Any decent looking girl has no problem giving you their picture ahead of time. Get ready for a cow.

Happened to me six days ago.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68839

Alexi

 

[MetalFortress]

ASSUMING HER LOOK IS TRUE TO HER PICTURE:

Hug at the beginning, and kiss at the end of the date.

 

[Climax]

My 2c...

This isnt a big deal.. I say trake command, and if u like what u see, then hug her! Then start the convo with her... the more kino u get going with her right from the start, the more comfortable she will feel around you, and the quicker she will GET to being comfortable around you... so yes, i say that a hug IS prefferable (if u like what u see)


Laterz...

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Look her up and down. If you like what you see, go for a hug. If you don't, go for a handshake and cut the date short.

Never EVER go for a handshake with a girl you like and are attracted to.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by BES
i really need to impress this chick really bad and i want to feel i am the great catch.

Oxymoron.

DJLegion had a good idea, although I wouldn't recommend telling her that you've met a lot of people off of the internet. Some people, even though they're doing it themselves, still think it's slightly "weird"...

 

[Mojo604]

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
Look her up and down. If you like what you see..

lol thats the main determining factor in deciding what to do... i agree.

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

You guys are acting like this is a freggin Job Interview.

Regardless if she is a fat pig, HB 10 or has the looks that reminds you of your mother...

HAVE FUN WITH IT.

All this over analyzing is stupid and worthless. Its like you're plotting war. You've got one senerio if she's fat, another if she's ugly, another if she's fat and ugly, another is she's cute, and kinda fat, and YET another if she's cute, ugly, kinda fat, kinda cute...wtf?

I guarantee this...if you are C/F, light hearted, and keep the date fun and interesting FOR BOTH OF YOU....it really won't matter what she looks like. YOU ARE THE ONE IN CONTROL OF THE DATE. And you are just being the DJ you would be to ANY woman.

Worse case senerio is that you don't dig her. Big whoop. But, if you had fun on the date, that stuff will not matter. Why?

Because you can use this opportunity to field test all this BS everyone on this board is saying to you. KINO, C/F, confidence -- you become even MORE sharper...even if it means you practice on a 5. Trust me, when that 10 comes along, you'll thank that experience you had DJing that 5.

So stop over analyzing. There must have been something more than just her looks to have you want to meet her and her meet you. Maybe a good joke you guys told, maybe you both love horror movies, maybe you enjoy roller blading....regardless, go out, have fun, and enjoy this woman's company.

Its not marriage...its just a freggin DATE

SO HAVE FUN!