How would you feel about being a househusband?

[MatureDJ]

These articles got me thinking ...

www.nytimes.com/2013/12/08/us/wall-street-mothers-stay-home-fathers.html

ideas.time.com/2013/12/09/the-househusbands-of-wall-street

I think that if I were in this position, I'd have a hard time getting an erection. :nervous:

I would probably demand that we get domestic help to do the cleaning, something that I think is women's work. I wouldn't have a problem with handling the lawn. I wouldn't have a problem organizing the family's finances, and possibly even buying the groceries & cooking (once I got trained in how to cook something other than steak & baked potatoes.) Of course, handling issues with the kids would be OK as well, although probably the folks I would be dealing with wouldn't want to deal with someone with my attitude.

 

[Big Nuts]

Househusbands are always trumped by hypergamy and always will be despite the pathetic delusions of the sex and the city cvnts!

 

[Bible_Belt]

Sign me up. Work is for suckas

I've had a woman pay most of the bills several times. It's fine with me. I never did clean very much, but I'm a much better cook than any woman I've ever been with.

 

[Mike32ct]

If she had a LOT of money AND F-ed like a rabbit, maybe. But generally no.

 

[LiveFreeX]

I prefer to do the cleaning, use to help my mother around the house.. I find it super relaxing especially after I get riled up over something, changes my mood instantly. Sometimes I let my wife do it, but I would prefer her to organize drawers and clothing and stuff. Eh... also want to be able to raise my kids the way I want, I think I'd like that position... I currently pay all the bills for both of us (even though she works), it would be nice to be able to stay home and just do whatever all day long, I'd play even MORE xbox. Plus, if your woman gets uppity, you have plenty of time to go and game other girls.

 

[smooth_as_silk]

I currently pay all the bills for both of us (even though she works)

If I remember well, you're the one praising the Chinese brides. Well, you obviously get rewarded with good behaviour when you're the one spending while she is saving money for herself and her family.
I will be curious to see what happens if you were to ask her to do 50/50 like it is common practice in the West.
Remember guys, for most of the people in foreign countries (and I travelled extensively), White man = walking ATM. Here's another example, don't suscribe to the foreign bride myth...

 

[simimatt]

Nice articles, if i would be a househusband, I just keep a hot maid to do the house hold work and a hot babysitter to handle my kids lolz

 

[dasein]

Wouldn't have a problem with it, work from home as it is, nor with household work, which I consider easy, almost "nonwork," quality exercise and good for the soul. The problem would come if you ended up with one of the many "why can't I be taken care of for once?" haveitall shrews who made career path choices their whole life, took advantage of discriminatory school and work handouts over the last 20-40 years to end up with a high six figure undeserved pay rate they didn't really earn, and then suddenly expect to have the benefit of that -together with- a man paying for all her stuff also. Have run into quite a few of those, ironically they tend to be the ones who make higher incomes and have outrageous lifestyle expectations (mansion/yacht or they act like they are slumming it and dating down when dating a man who makes the same or a bit more than them lawlz) . They are hard to out on the front end, the facade starts to crack around 3 months in.

 

[VladPatton]

My friend is one. I cannot see him in the same light as when he was working. He is at the mercy of the woman and can be homeless in a matter of 24 hrs. It's pathetic.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Hmmm you could be right about that. I will go 50/50 starting tommorow, if its a deal breaker for her, then this just might be my ticket out of China.

Thanks Smooth as silk, good ideas!

My mother basically did this for my father after he had his heart problems and he became an ungreatful SOB in return. I'm just following in my mother's footsteps. (She was the main breadwinner) My dad later became a lazy fvck and complained non-stop while she was working 60 hours a week....

 

[LiveFreeX]

I was expecting some form of resistance or something interesting to write about. Asked her last night, she said "ok, no problem", when I woke up this morning I found, 2.5 months rent on the table besides a bowl of cereal and some toast.

So... I don't know man, I kinda don't think all white men are just atm's to them. I kind of feel like an ass now for even alluding to the 'stay at home thing'... Lol, I woke her up last night just to tell her that and she went to work at 8:00.

 

[FairShake]

Doubt I could totally be a house husband. I like my job too much. I am a nurse ("murse") and it is one of the most important jobs in the world. If I'm not doing it I feel like important work is not getting done.

That said I could significantly scale back my work schedule for kids. A fulltime or near fulltime parent is such an advantage for kids. They start out way ahead with that kind of attention. If I was married to a woman who makes more money than me then the only intelligent and logical decision is to have the one who makes more money win the bread. Anything else is pure emotion.

 

[Married Buried]

Remember guys, for most of the people in foreign countries (and I travelled extensively), White man = walking ATM. Here's another example, don't suscribe to the foreign bride myth...

I am living the foreign bride myth. She actually had more money than me when I met her. After we married it got put into my name. Doesn't matter, she moved into my place so it's all good. Anyway it is no "myth" buddy. Foreign brides are GREAT women. I found mine in the USA too.

I love when people like you bust on foreign brides, when you probably have no experience with foreign women. You just want to hate what you don't understand.

 

[SecondHalf]

Let the fat cow bring home the bacon.

Go bring the rug rats to the park and enjoy all the lonely house wives. Better yet, bang crap out of the Filipino nannies that run ramped in North America.
When I did far more parenting than my ex did, I was hit on by every other mom in the park. It would have been sooooo easy!!!
Had I been a "red pill" guy then ...

The key is to see them as the "cash", then do what the f*** you want ... discretely.

SH

 

[Married Buried]

As a man you have to make money somehow. If you just sit on your ass and rely on her, she will lose respect.

 

[SecondHalf]

As a man you have to make money somehow. If you just sit on your ass and rely on her, she will lose respect.

So what!
If you're the "hole" in this hypothetical marriage and you are the primary caregiver to the child(ren), then let the cow lose respect. Let her file for divorce. Do to others as you would have them do to you (haha, sorry, a moment of biblical clarity ) ... that would be rape them financially and let it augment your life earnings while you got your sh1t together (career, body, game ... whatever for the next alpha skank or "chapter" in your life).

I would only judge one of these "men" only if they ended up victims.

SH

 

[SmooveMooves]

I believe financial dependency on a woman leads to an unbalanced relationship in her favor. Power in a relationship is based off two things,
1. Who cares less ( could do without the other)
2.Who provides
Men are providers just the way it is. she'll start taking you for granted if she starts playing a mans role.

 

[( . )( . )]

To me it just seems like a "trendy" talking point for progtards. As big nuts already touched on, real life application (proven btw) eventually sees her hypergamic instincts take over and the male homemaker will become despised as the interloper who stole her rightful role. Despite what moustached femcunts say. Women don't want to be soul sapped corporate drones negotiating the rat race every morning and afternoon. It ages the phuck out of them and turns them into bitter little half men, they're not built for it. Women instinctively know this.

She'll be constantly reminded that not only was she not alluring enough to lockdown a traditional right thinking alpha who would never be faggy enough to confuse the gender roles but now she also has this herby cvnt at home playing the role she secretly wishes she was lucky enough to be living.

 

[SecondHalf]

Again, so what!

Truth be told, it's a dark night, and I'm thinking feck 'em.
I'm arguing this particular thread because many (if not most) have been stung by the calculating female.

If I was to be a woman's ... hoe, I would certainly go there with the intention of getting what I can. A twisted hypergamy if you will. If she kept my interest with gifts and game and security (no per-nupt!), OK, I would play (the role at least, 'cause this entitled cun1 is going to ball the CEO guaranteed). While she was still boinkable, where is the loss? Do your duty at home, do what works when you're raising Timmy (I'm referring to lonely other mom thing).

It's irreverent talking about frame, or respect in this case, you're an a55hole sitting on the sidelines waiting for the femcun1 to make a divorce worthy decision (settlement and ... freedom !!!).

In short, the role of the mangina, should be not to retain control, but to capitalize on the lack of it!

Don't retort statistics here, as they wouldn't apply. The mangina would be the victom gina!

SH

 

[sharkbeat]

I can't even be an office man, how could I be someone that sits in the house all day?