How where you live affects your game

[Dman101]

Fellas, I've really noticed that where you live has a huge effect on the level of cooperation you get from women. This year, I've done more traveling than I have in my life, and its really opened my eyes to a lot. I live in New Jersey, and over here the guys really roll out the carpet for women, so despite looking good, being 6'4 , dressing well, and driving a nice car, its been hard even meeting women who were really down, they always say oh I have a boyfriend or some other excuse in the clubs, and it usually takes me months between the time a girl leaves to find a new one.

When I went to vegas, I swear, girls were coming up to me telling me I'm sexy, beautiful women were staring at me everywhere I went, I had sex with 3 women, got a hand job in a taxi from another, got 30 numbers, and had 2 others in my room that I couldve ****ed but didnt. Alot of these women were very sexy, and a lot were from california, so they're vibe was just waaay different.

I went to washington DC for a weekend recently and I got like 23 phone numbers, got approached by a cute girl in the mall who asked for my number, and the game was just so much easier over there.

The following week I went to Atlanta and got like 15 numbers and got a hand job w a chick because she was on her period.

Now that I'm back home for a month, I havent even had sex once lol. It goes to show that your game can be a lot better if you lived in a different city or state.

 

[bigneil]

I've been to 40 states and probably 100 cities and I've noticed the exact same thing.

I love Dallas, Portland, Cedar Rapids IA and Hampton, MA - and hated Orlando, FL. Did ok in Princeton, NJ and Eatontown NJ but not like other cities.

Plus, a big part of it seems to be that women can smell or sense somehow that you are not from around there or something (which is a turn on for them it seems).

The moral is: TRAVEL!

 

[marmel75]

Being from New York, I have noticed when I go places out of state and start talking to women they get almost giddy when you tell them you are from New York(doesn't matter what part, they automatically assume its NYC or you live near NYC) and it just seems a hell of a lot easier...

 

[Dman101]

so true, when I open my mouth around girls from other cities they hear the ny accent and are very interested right away.. Im about to be 28 and havent gotten the tyoe of results I should because of where I live.. Im really really feel that I need to move to a diff place such as houston, dallas, dc, vegas, atlanta, somewhere where my looks, height, and game stands out.

I need some advice about this. Have any of you just left everything to move somewhere far away.. I have a good job that isnt stressful, get to work at home 2 days a week,so thats the only thing holding me here.My hearts telling me to leave asap, but its not easy to find jobs out there.. I really want to have an internet business and move making money doing that.

 

[Toast123]

I'm British.

Hypothetically how would my game fair in the US?

 

[MisterD]

This is an interesting theory. I defintely noticed better results when I went to cali. A car with two hot chicks honked and smiled at me and my bro as we were walking down Sunset Blvd.

And I'm talking to a girl from cali now, she's absolutely swooning over me. She said if I lived in Cali I would be swimming in dates.

New York is a tough place to find a date sometimes

 

[Scars]

I loved the part about Vegas, because it's so damn true. Nearly everyone you run into is a tourist looking to have some fun. If you really want to get laid, you can probably make it happen there.

Traveling is great. Had I not expanded my zones my number would be far less than what it is now. I'm lucky to be somewhere that is surrounded by many other towns and cities.

California is great too. The woman are a different breed out there.

I've also had an experience with a mid-western girl that I banged while in Illinois. Being out there was a culture shock. The people (including woman) are always different everywhere you go. I love it. I'd like to travel more.

-Scars

 

[ScottMustaine]

Cultural differences are huge even at 50km distances. From one city to another you can notice how people got different standards...

 

[In10se]

Glad you brought this up, I'm from NY as well, but have traveled around this country as well as in Italy/Mexico...

People can argue this, but NY/Long Island and northeast in general is the hardest place to game...the girls are self entitled, spoiled brats who are brought up believing they are princesses because their daddy's checkbook allows them to be

At the same time if you get really good up here, you will be an allstar anywhere else...I am going into my last semester in college in NYC so after that I am looking to move...Cali/Florida are gold mines, but from a business perspective you can't beat NY

 

[pdx1138]

I'm British.

Hypothetically how would my game fair in the US?

A lot of women are turned on by that accent.

and the opposite is true, when I was in the UK summer of '91 I had
a few women say they were really turned on by my "accent."

I joked with them saying I had no accent and it was they who had the accent.

 

[Dman101]

Exactly its so.hard up here. Women are so high on the pedestool up here, guys are so desperate and ***** whipped its insane. Is it practical to leave family and friends and a good paying easy job to live like a king. Im imagining a scenario 5 yrs later of not getting this player stage handled, and having to settle for whstever I can get, or wanting to cheat on a wife .. Its a real tough decision

 

[Dman101]

But some of the women I attract in other cities are so sexy and I really want to have that experience, just want to evaluate this and how practical it is

 

[Fenix94]

I'd expect colleges would be easy gaming spots as well, no matter where, as long as you aren't too old.

 

[Mike32ct]

Glad you brought this up, I'm from NY as well, but have traveled around this country as well as in Italy/Mexico...

People can argue this, but NY/Long Island and northeast in general is the hardest place to game...the girls are self entitled, spoiled brats who are brought up believing they are princesses because their daddy's checkbook allows them to be

At the same time if you get really good up here, you will be an allstar anywhere else...I am going into my last semester in college in NYC so after that I am looking to move...Cali/Florida are gold mines, but from a business perspective you can't beat NY

Yep. The northeast is a sarger's worst nightmare.

If you aren't highly connected via a social circle, just cut your peen off and donate it to science. You won't be needing it lol.

I'm only here because of a job.

 

[doctorj]

I like girls with funny accents

 

[Burroughs]

Yep. The northeast is a sarger's worst nightmare.

If you aren't highly connected via a social circle, just cut your peen off and donate it to science. You won't be needing it lol.

I'm only here because of a job.

Why do you think that is?

too many m*******s, the weathers too cold? too much latent old british/wasp culture and the university climate?

Boston and New York always struck me as tougher than they needed to be as far as biatches unless you had cash to throw down on magnum bottles and table service and were willing to do so. I find the greatest proportions of delusional arrogant girls who are hb6s who think they are 9s in the northeast....its gotta be something in the water...or maybe the college culture of AFC dudes inflating biatches and their perceived value. even wellesley college...oh man! a few cuties....but mostly feminist battle axe cvnts looking to grind men into dust and these biatches are spending daddies freaking trust fund to hate men!! the fvck!

LA is amazing...so many hot actress chicks with low self esteem who are out of work...its like fish in a barrel

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Keep in mind, fellas: a lot of these results are due the the fact that you're an out-of-towner. Women love having stories about that one guy they decided to get wild with while he was on vacation because she knew she'd never see him again.

With that said: I've LIVED in various cities during my adulthood (Philly, Richmond, Atlanta, D.C. and now Los Angeles) and I've found L.A. girls to be more open to letting you hit it. In fact, as a southern guy who grew up in Virginia and was taught to "respect women" and "find one to commit to," it was shocking to move here and see just how many girls are more willing to have one-night stands and/or do the whole "friends with benefits" thing. Definitely have slept with more girls out here than in any other city...

...but to be fair, by the time I moved here I wasn't an AFC any more either. I DO believe you can get action any place you are if you're confident and have at least a small ounce of game. At the very least, you can always just lie and tell 'em you're on vacation

 

[Dman101]

The reason the northeast is so hard is that the guys out here are sooo thirsty, so desperate, they tell women how good they look, how sexy they are, rolling out the red carpet. A lot of the dudes out here do all of this **** on facebook and dating sites, blowing these women's heads up, taking women out on dates A few years ago, the girls out here were pretty cool, but the past 5 years its really gone down hill.

Now honestly it seems like for black guys only the thugs with dreadlocks and tattoos can get women, and for white guys its all about them jersey shore looking roided up dudes. If you're a good looking guy with your stuff together, it really doesn't matter these days out here.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Now honestly it seems like for black guys only the thugs with dreadlocks and tattoos can get women...

This is definitely NOT true. I keep my hair cut short and don't have a single tattoo or piercing on me, yet have still managed to hook up with a wide variety of girls in my 3 years (and counting) in Cali.

Meanwhile, I've seen guys with the aforementioned characteristics bomb at getting girls. And these are dudes who also had cars, high-paying jobs and their own places; meanwhile, I was banging a half-asian/half-black lawyer chick for 4 months straight while living on someone's couch.

So it ain't about the look or your life position, it's about the confidence in yourself, your belief that you have the ability to get a girl regardless of what the situation is.

 

[floydb25]

You know whats funny? Where I used to live, I had alot of (fake) friends, was Mr Popular, had chicks all over, getting hotties was no problem, very social and out-going... what most people seem to want. But I left for the beta life, because I couldn't deal with the shallow / fake lifestyle. So, its not always about getting teh hot chix and being Mr kewl. Theres a lot of bull**** that comes with that. Namely, wanting to murder everyone in your circle. A lot of people into this stuff are ****ed up. You end up caught in the middle of it. But most people on here are ****ed up anyway, so it works out.:crackup:

But yea, women up north, in the city, were FAR more promiscuous , aggressive , independent , and sexually available than down here. Theres definitely a big change - even as far as social groups, parties, bars, and things like that. To want the exciting, sex-filled single life, I would never recommend the rural south. But you kind of have to be a certain way to fit in up north. Pretty boys, bad boys, douchebags, and status kings seem to get the most action. Players are highly sought after, and rule the scene. Drama is rampant. People arent all that nice, and respond more favorably to sarcasm, c&f, negging, etc. Its all about status and being better than the next person, so it ends up quite superficial and materialistic. Theres a lot of competition - even in the same circles. A lot of people are fake, and try to be something theyre not just to be accepted by other fake people. And so on.

Even still, the northern cities are best for those looking for action - as long as youre able and willing to fit a certain mold. I dont think its worth it, though.