How was your summer?

es_mer8

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It may seem early but I'm leaving here soon and a school district near me is starting next monday. Summer in terms of vacations are winding down and it looks like its time to get back to school. I leave on the 20th but its a good time to talk about what has happened.

Late May

I graduated. I've been on this site a couple weeks before that and I began to see this HB8. I felt like I mastered the DJ game in such a short time. Boy, I was dead wrong. I was beginning to drop a few pounds and my confidence began to shoot up. A good time because it was like DJing was so simple yet so amazing of an experience.

First 1/2 of June

Started off great. I got a raise at my job, I actually got some for the first time in my life, but I still felt empty. My friends were starting to become squares for little to no reason. I spent a lot of nights going to female heavy places to get phone numbers. Eventually I grew tired of this boring game. It all capped off well :rolleyes: when at a party of my friend's, the girl I went with gave my friend her phone number. He didn't know we were going out and he said he felt bad for accepting it. I dropped her ass without looking back.

Last 1/2 of June

I felt so good as I dropped around 15 pounds. I was beginning to notice that my arms were getting bigger from weightlifting, I was losing fat, and getting better in shape. I also fooled around with a girl that I lost interest in. I dropped her after I couldn't get it up. I began to slowly realize that DJing this way wasn't all that was cracked up to be. After getting pissed at how nobody would reply to my threads on this board, I left. I felt that the only way for me to succeed was to learn this sh1t on my own. A journey that seemed long and utterly pointless.

First 1/2 of July

I sold off my video game consoles because I thought that the life of women would kick ass. Other than 1-2 nights a week, I was all alone. I got pissed at how my friends didn't do jack; well, they are too busy with their girlfriends following them around like little lap dogs awaiting for treats. I bought my Xbox back (I sold it in May) and realized that I had a long way to go until I was a true DJ. For true DJs should have enough interests to not really resort to gaming. At this time I began to really slack off with my eating and wound up going from 230-235 to almost 255. In such a short time too which shocked me.

Last 1/2 of July

After seeing that giant 255 on the weighscale, I realized that I was not truly serious about my life. I completely got rid of my third girlfriend (pretty but dumb as a post) and went for another one and wanted to try something different. That difference was that I wouldn't rely on cold DJ calculations but more of the new revelation MOTU found. I began to watch my weight again and came back to the site. I realized that if people didn't want to read and reply to my stuff, its their loss.

August

Dear Lord, my social life, with girlfriend intact, is still as low as it was. I expected this summer to be so great and so kick-ass but it was nearly the opposite. Sex is no longer that big of a deal to me. My friends are so anti social now because of their gf clinging that I have almost forgot about them. One or two of them have tried to contact me but whenever I'd set something up, they always had something to do with their girl. I realized that this summer was a good beginning but next summer, I have to make sh1t happen. I got a long ways to go until I'm a true DJ.

I give my summer 2 out of 5 stars
 

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Originally posted by es_mer8
I expected this summer to be so great and so kick-ass but it was nearly the opposite. I realized that this summer was a good beginning but next summer, I have to make sh1t happen. I got a long ways to go until I'm a true DJ.[/B]
That sums up my sumer right here also, 'cept I didn't even get a job so I spent most of the summer at home exercising or getting in the field but not approaching.

Good luck to you
 

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DUDE i hear you to the FULLEST FUKKING EXTENT.

I graduated, with the notion that this summer would be glorious. It was actually the complete opposite. I burned many bridges, and alot of people burned their bridges with me.

Friends moved, interests changed, people went their seperate paths. I started smoking mad weed again this summer to escape reality, didnt really have alot fo female action until just like a month ago when i started hitting up these clubs.

Im trying to gain weight instead of losing it like you so we are similar there.

But hey man, theres NO SHAME IN PLAYING A GAME! Im going to sell my PS2 just because i dont like it and dont use it, but do what YOU enjoy. If you want to play a game then play, ya know.

Basically my summer has sucked balls and im awaiting my 18th b-day so i can get my life started. I need some more motivation and inspiration.
 

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I've had one crazy summer so far. It began a little earlier than expected though. :D

Beginning of June

We're about two weeks from exams, I've put up with a year of BS from a principal on my ass for dealing, and it's last period of Tuesday, meaning I have my free that period. We get one period every day with no class to use as a study period, lucky for me it was last period so that meant we could get high. Down to the tracks we went, lit a few up, and we see the security guard through the woods spying on us. We went back up to the school, and get called into the office right away. Expelled for drug usage with two weeks to go to exams, DAMN. So out of school I was, with an early summer to boot.

I spent the next few weeks hanging out with a buddy of mine who had been kicked out earlier in the year, playing basketball like mad. I've been playing for a little over two months and I've already noticed a HUGE improvement in my game since playing everyday pretty much. I'd spend the occasional day with the girlfriend, and life was otherwise good.

Official Start of Summer - 1st half of July

Once everyone got out of school, the fun began. First up was a party down in the woods by a lake, so a few of us went to check it out. Get there early, there were only four chicks we knew (one of them a girl I had been with earlier this year). Eventually a LOT of people showed up, including some hotties for our school. Turns out I ended up getting smashed and going swimming in my underwear with some chick. Good times.

Next up, the concert on the hill. Finger Eleven, Nickleback, Default and a few other rock bands came to Citadel Hill and put on a sweet ass concert. I wasn't even planning on going, but my neighbour and a couple other friends of his were going, and he offered me a ride if I wanted to go. I got a ticket, and it turns out they all had backstage passes. We get to the hill, and the good times start right away as a security guard threatens to throw me out as I joke about having a 9mm on me while he's patting me down. We eventually get on the hill, and bust our tenbag out. Smoked a few g's, and realized we needed a bong. Ten bucks were chucked down by all, and a runner was sent to Mary Jane's (smoke shop) to buy the bong.

We settled in to watch the concert, and a group of people shows up behind sitting down. We turn around and they're all drinking or drunk. Was pretty comical, one of them got up in front of us, downed his liquor, and started doing backflips down the hill, yelling "New Orleans!!! Yeah!!". He lost his glasses and everything, I've never laughed so hard. Our bongrunner misses this sight, but he shows up with our bong anyway :)D) so we're all siked. We start hitting our bong until 5:30 rolls around, and it's time for them to head backstage. My neighbour's buddy asks the guy letting them in though if I can go with them, and he says I'm good to go. SIKED. We got to meet Finger Eleven, we chilled with them for like twenty minutes in their trailor, it was mint. Got my ticket autographed, pics taken, all that good stuff. We chilled for a while, chatted with some chicks from school, and by the time it was dark, Nickleback was ready to hit the stage. We rolled up the rest of our gear and headed into the crowd in front of the stage. Smoked j after j standing down in there, was a bomb time. Needless to say, more good times were had as the concert ended.

Second half of July

Things started getting interesting around this time. I went to a female friends house to get high with her, and she brings up a THREESOME topic with me, her and my girlfriend. I've already got a post on that though, so check that out if your interested in you+chick+chick.

I went out to Truro for a day to paint my grandmothers deck, finished early and went to a park in the neighbourhood. Ended up getting jumped by three guys, banged out and left with a sprained ankle. I spent a week high as hell everyday so I could keep on the move without feeling anything.

And as always, throughout the month of July, I'd spend a couple days a week with my girlfriend.

August

And now here we are in August. I got this job at McDonalds, which isn't too great, but it's money and it's hilarious working there. The guy that trained me is a real d*ck, and I realized it right away. Day two or three on the job and this guy comes up to me and asks if I want to join the "We Hate Richard Club" at work. Ah, good times.

The other night, five of us hit up some old guy's weed crops. We each made off with a plant, only two had bud on them. Mine and another guy's. SIKED AGAIN. We dried it out and the past few days have been smoke filled to say the least.

And just today, I had my first day off all week. Spent it with the woman, got laid, got high afterwards and made some progress on this threesome idea.

However, notice one thing? 90% of the experiences I posted, HAD ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH GOING AFTER GIRLS OR LETTING A GIRL OR EMOTIONS GET IN THE WAY OF ENJOYING MY EVERY DAY LIFE!. I spend a couple days a week with my girlfriend, the rest of the time I'm either working, playing basketball or going out and having experiences like those posted above.

And you know what the best part is? I still have pretty much the whole month of August! We've got camping trips planned, making our movie ("SmokeFest 2003") and plans to follow through on. I'll be one busy mofo. And then I still have to find some time for my girlfriend on top of all that! Should be a crazy month.

Those of you saying your not enjoying your summer, GET OUT THERE AND LIVE A LITTLE. Read the new bible, read BBB's posts, ENJOY YOUR LIVES. These are the best years we have, we should be living them up. Try new things. Go out by yourself if need be. Meet new people. Go to parties. Get wasted once in a while. Have FUN.
 

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But hey man, theres NO SHAME IN PLAYING A GAME!
I realize that now. It was just at the beginning, people recommended me to get rid of my gaming consoles. I did because I was also very strapped for cash (I had a big credit card bill to pay that has wrecked my financial life from November 2002 to June 2003) Now I had to buy it back. Good times though. I am looking forward to buying Madden 2004. Good party times ahead.

Good luck to you
Thanks. Good news for my life now. After that post, my old buddy that went to HS two years ago who now plays college football asked me to go to this party with him. Loaded with hotties. Not a HB under 7. Of course there was alcohol but my friend and I flipped a coin to decide who was the Designated Driver and I lost (or won?) So I was sober. Man, it was amazing. This one HB9.5 just started to sit on my lap and asked what our children would look like. I said maybe we should find out. She gave me a funny look. Later on, her friend (9) asked if I wanted to hook up with her because she wanted to screw me. I went up to the 9.5 and asked if she had protection (I had none but if she had birth control then it was on) but she didn't. So I had to turn her down.

I probably hit on at least 5 9+ girls there and all got amazing reactions and most of them were designated drivers as well. Then we play badminton, ate some pizza, chilled out, played volleyball (some of the girls there were volleyball players so it wasn't fair but was fun anyway), and then we went to the kid's house to play NCAA Football 2004. They were all at least buzzed so out of 5 games I played, I won 4 of them. Then my friend and I decided to go watch American Wedding. He pretty much sobered up (I was driving his SUV which made me nervous because it was a 2000 Escalade but I had no problems) and the movie was so damn funny. Definitely worth watching. After that we called it a night.

Now he asked me to go to another party Saturday night. So it looks like summer may have a few goodies in store for me yet. This time I'll make sure to hit up a store and get a few condoms (I don't have any right now...damn)

Friends moved, interests changed, people went their seperate paths
A lot of my friends were this way. Basically I found out that my core group of friends, the ones that ridiculed me in HS, have turned into the biggest AFCs ever. They used to think and almost be badasses in HS but for some reason its just as soon as I grew a c0ck (figuratively), they all grew pu$$ies. I am in contact with one because he is my lifting partner in a gym I go to. Otherwise they are all scared to do anything new. One time I got them to go to this 18+ club and they enjoyed it yet never wanted to do it again. I've basically dropped them. This summer I met someone from my work and once in a while we are working on this film. We have some good footage. Then this friend (who wasn't all that good of a friend in the first place which at first threw me off when he asked about going to a party with him) comes up and we are already hanging out two times this week. He is a DJ now. He has changed a lot from when I last seen him. Back then he was a full time DJ. I imagine college football life has turned him into a DJ.

Im trying to gain weight instead of losing it like you so we are similar there.
I was maybe 233 or something when I last weighed myself at the end of June. Then my lifting partner who was 230 but had 11% bf told me he just ate whatever he wanted because he knew he could always run it off. After getting tired of not having all that much to eat, I ate whatever I wanted but ran twice as much to make sure I shed those pounds. A bad thing I did was eat at night and eventually I stopped running as much. I gained 20 pounds in just a couple of weeks. Now I hang around the 245-250 mark. I've been trying to lose it but for some reason it seems like I can't really lose it as easily as before. Maybe thats a good thing where it comes off slow instead of too fast like before.
 

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