How to turn this awesome night into a perfect night? (FR and questions)

[squirrels]

Alright all...visited a club in B-more tonight. Started out rough...I had a flat tire right in the parking lot, so I had to swap my donut on to the back. This is where the old "squirrels" woudl've gotten bummed and wanted to go home, but the NEW squirrels took over and hit the club with reckless abandon.

I think I have FINALLY got the "I dont' give a f--k" attitude down.

Anyway, just kinda standing near the dance floor groovin' by myself, and this girl comes up to me and tells me, "See that girl over there? She wants to meet you." So I go up and try to dance with her, but she's utterly wasted and no fun, so I back off.

Later, I make EC with another girl, chat her up a little, but she says they stopped playing her music and she'll let me know when they play it again...give me a sign.Yeah, right... I ask her, "What kind of sign?" and she's like, "You'll know when you see it." So I roll...I'm not waiting.

So my ass is back on the floor groovin' my way across to the bar, when suddenly I make eye contact AGAIN, with another girl. Look away, look back, smile...definitely looking at me. So I look back, no apologies...just calling her out with my eyes. We keep glancing back, and she starts working her way over, so I reach out my long-ass hand and pull her in.

I swear, I must've grinded with this girl for at least an hour and a half...steady kissing, feeling her up, tongue-kissing, licking down her neck, her hands around my neck, running her nails through my hair...we were both sweating like fukkin monkeys...just dancing all goddam night!

Then last-call rolls around and they hit the lights, and they play some slow-dance music (N'Sync, "This I promise you...") and we're just hugged up and dancing, so I ask for her phone #, but she won't give it to me. At first she's like, "You won't call..." so I told her I would..."I'll call you....This I promise you...". Anyway, she just won't give her number up, despite my advances, and says she needs to find her friends.

So I walk out, my arm around her, and we look for her friends. Of course, she finds 'em, and they move in for the c--kbl--k.

"Go away!"
"She's got a boyfriend!"
"blah blah blah!"

So I ask her one last time to give me her number, and she's like, "I can't."

So I bail. I think some crazy ghetto motherf--kers were bustin' off shots in the air or something...I heard a bang and saw some smoke, so I kinda bailed...took off on my donut-ass wheel and got home.

The question: How do I deal with hesitation and c--kbl--kage? Or did I do all I could?

Either way, I had a kick-ass time. What we had, while we had it, was incredibly hot. I really think I am becoming the DJ I should be.

 

[white_hype]

hahah, when you said "ill call you, this i promise you" i actually laughed out loud

that has to be one of the corniest things ive ever heard, hopefully you were wasted when you said this

anyways, 1.5 hrs dancing is TOO LONG, no matter what you were doing with her

you should have been like, lets go talk over here, and get her number AND LEAVE to go talk to OTHER GIRLS

do not waste 1 night on 1 chick, ALWAYS DO THIS

also, she didnt give you her number CAUsE SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND, and then her friends saw this so she obviously wouldnt give it to you when her friends were around (theyd think she was a s lut etc)

dont worry you did fine

good work

moral- 1.5 hrs spent well on this one chick, nothing progesses or ever will, when you could have spent 30 mins on her and met 10 other girls hotter than her in that time

 

[DonJohn83]

Re: Re: How to turn this awesome night into a perfect night? (FR and questions)

Originally posted by white_hype
hahah, when you said "ill call you, this i promise you" i actually laughed out loud

that has to be one of the corniest things ive ever heard, hopefully you were wasted when you said this

That one flew right over your head White_Hype.

The song that was playing at the time was "This i promise you" by NSync. Quite a good line. Very witty.

DonJohn83

 

[squirrels]

Re: Re: Re: How to turn this awesome night into a perfect night? (FR and questions)

Originally posted by DonJohn83
That one flew right over your head White_Hype.

The song that was playing at the time was "This i promise you" by NSync. Quite a good line. Very witty.

DonJohn83

Yeah...prolly was kinda corny, but I HAD had a few drinks. And I can sing OK...I was in chamber choir in high school.

She was 19, though, and I'm 24...that was prolly a big part of it. Plus the friends, plus the boyfriend (that could've been a made-up blocking move, but I'll never know). I also had to ask her for her name after she told it to me. But she was already giving me sh*t about finding her friends and not being able to give out her number, so blah.

I know I shoulda moved around more, but I was having way too much fun with this girl, and I care more about that than getting the pu$$y, believe it or not. We danced so long I had to change my clothes when I got home...we were both sweating that bad. Besides, like I said, she wasn't the ONLY girl I talked to all night. Just the only one I got anywhere with.

 

[white_hype]

Re: Re: Re: Re: How to turn this awesome night into a perfect night? (FR and question

Originally posted by squirrels
Yeah...prolly was kinda corny, but I HAD had a few drinks. And I can sing OK...I was in chamber choir in high school.

She was 19, though, and I'm 24...that was prolly a big part of it. Plus the friends, plus the boyfriend (that could've been a made-up blocking move, but I'll never know). I also had to ask her for her name after she told it to me. But she was already giving me sh*t about finding her friends and not being able to give out her number, so blah.

I know I shoulda moved around more, but I was having way too much fun with this girl, and I care more about that than getting the pu$$y, believe it or not. We danced so long I had to change my clothes when I got home...we were both sweating that bad. Besides, like I said, she wasn't the ONLY girl I talked to all night. Just the only one I got anywhere with.

good, im glad you talked to other girls, and im glad to see that you dont only want pu$$y, i am the same way, except i want really hot girls or girls that are pretty hot and very cool, the rest i dont even notice

heres a little gem i picked up:

if you dont remember her name (youre drunk, whatever etc) do this

you: whats your name?
her: liz! how could you forget?!?!
you: no, not your first name, your last name
her: oh... its xyz..


forgetting a girls number can really piss off some girls, so try and avoid it at all costs

OR do this:

introduce you to one of your friends

be like:

you: hey meet my friend mark
HER: hi mark, im liz



also when you get her name repeat it and associate it with something (it makes me always remember)

i.e0

Her: hi im liz
you: hi liz, im white_hype

(then you think, liz the lion, liz the big tats, liz the little lady, etc)