How to treat not so attractive girls

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Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.

Or do you treat all women the same?
 

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Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.

Or do you treat all women the same?
Most guys, especially on the Internet are going to make it seem like they are screwing models left and right. To answer your question, I wouldn't treat them any different than any other girl you are attracted to.
 

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Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.

Or do you treat all women the same?
Are you kidding? Do you treat a client who has tons of funds the same as one who has very little? It's about her looks. Nothing else really matters.

Why don't guys have questions about 4/10s? Because they aren't valuable and they know exactly how to act with them. But when a girl is an 8 or 9/10, they start the get confused and get all desperate to prove their worth to the girl. It's brutal.
 

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Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.

Or do you treat all women the same?
I say treat then all the same to a point, you sure won't try to get anything from a woman you don't feel anything, but some light flirting to practice, or just to make her like you so it will make things easy for you based on her position in a busines can be helpfull, just don't go overboard and check responses.
 

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Simple. If you attract less attractive women, you're doing it right with them. Behave the same way around attractive ones. Don't treat them differently. Don't treat the attractive better, do with them as with everyone else.

So treat the less attractive ones the same way as attractive ones, because you don't treat the attractive ones better.
 

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I treat them all the same with one difference determining how aggressive I am with them: my attraction. If they are ugly, I'd still joke around with them and bust their balls a bit, I just wouldn't physically escalate like I would for a hotty.
 

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I've had problems in the past where I treated them well and they thought I was interested. Then you have to tell them know it's just friends and you get the whole woman scorned drama so they won't be friends anyway and the whole time and the whole time invested was just a waste
 

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You pocket them and screw them when your other girls aren't around.
 

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In theory you are supposed to treat them all the same... It depends on how fat they are.

If she is a fatty.. I won't escalate but I will give a plutonic conversation....

Thin but not very good looking I will escalate...

My verbal game is more on point with girls I am attracted to but I don't feel like they are "out of my league" witch rarely happens.
 

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I've had problems in the past where I treated them well and they thought I was interested. Then you have to tell them know it's just friends and you get the whole woman scorned drama so they won't be friends anyway and the whole time and the whole time invested was just a waste
Same here. Seems I just can't be friends with unattractive girls, except when the unattractiveness is mutual.

P.S.When I saw the title, I read "How to beat" instead of treat :D
 

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Good looking and attraction levels are two different things. A woman you deem unattractive may still have beauty characteristics other women notice. Women in your social circle notice how you treat people. If you are cordial with the frumpy girls(who sometimes have attractive friends) they are more likely to give you approval, and less likely to **** block.

You can use all the same things girls say on the LJBF front. I like calling them my "adopted sister". Keeps me from thinking impure thoughts in a moment of weakness. Some girls that will even make them a better ally, especially if you can hook them up with a desperate mate ...
 

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Same here. Seems I just can't be friends with unattractive girls, except when the unattractiveness is mutual.
Don't know what that last part meant, but I personally would at least try to overlook looks in a non-dating context. Not befriending nor even socializing nor working alongside the opposite sex on the grounds of looks/image/status is what females do, lets not follow their example. This is just emotional and psychological BS exclusive to them, not to mention that in work alone it is unprofessional and tactless. I can't count the occasions I have felt embarrassed or shy talking to anyone I identify as female and being myself, having got such rude treatment by previous other girls.
 

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Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.

Or do you treat all women the same?
Typically heterosexual men are attracted to women who display signs of youth, femininity and fertility. Those who have high self esteem and style savvy get extra points. Everyone else who is a woman is no less a woman, its just biology.
 
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It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Like a human being, not a cvm dumpster. They will reward genuine affection with devotion. There are lots of reasons to be attracted to someone other than good looks.

There are lots of guys on here who 'apparently' only date victorias secrets models, or hb9's. Good on you.
I have good women friends who will never be models but are kind, funny, sexually adventurous, sensual, interesting, devoted and giving. I am not going to give them some stupid HB rating.
 

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In my experience, unattractive/average girls will be grateful for the attention, and will do more things to keep you. They also will put up with more shiit from you, and are less likely to leave.
 

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In my experience, unattractive/average girls will be grateful for the attention, and will do more things to keep you. They also will put up with more shiit from you, and are less likely to leave.
They will exhibit more relationship parity and more concerned about what they can do to benefit you. There will be very low entitlement out of these types. Also the sex will flow more freely and she will more willingly submit.
 

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They will exhibit more relationship parity and more concerned about what they can do to benefit you. There will be very low entitlement out of these types. Also the sex will flow more freely and she will more willingly submit.
And she can still LOOK "hot" if she was more into fashion, makeup and kept her body tight.
 

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Treat them like you would treat attactive women to a certain extent
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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