how to tell if a chick has low selfesteem?

[Ryan Adams]

In person shes nieve and friendly. But she seems to have super low self esteem. Is this a redflag

 

[resilient]

It just means you'll have to carry extra weight in the relationship. She'll require more nurturing. Be on the look out for neediness and codependency from her...

 

[Ryan Adams]

well I've known her for years she moved and just recently came back. Shes a bar chick always getting drunk but just seems to be very unsure of herself sometimes. I dont sense neediness. but I do sense a bit of games from her, feels like she is playing the field a bit. Weve made out and messed around back in the day nothing more. nurturing her did nothing I tried that with her 2 years ago and she wouldnt have it Its almost as if she didn't like it. Very hot and cold girl. one night shes all over next I dont hear from her. She has horrible ADD she said.