How to Spot a Unicorn

[BeExcellent]

The problem is that with most people in our radical liberal society, no one is a true giver anymore. People only give because they want their egos caressed by others talking about how 'great of a person' they are. There are very few truly altruistic people. Women can temporarily be truly altruisitic simply because the live and feel in the momemt much more so than men, but what happens when that facade fades? What is a man to do when her true inspiration fades?

Also again, when do women tend to develop into these 'unicorns' that you say? And where is the best place to find them?

Read response #66 again. I already gave you my answer to that question.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

And where is the best place to find them?

Every thread ends in the same place.

Where do I find quality women?

Become a quality man, and you'll see.

Bullshyte. I don't see any quality women anywhere. Show me a picture, show me proof.

No, you need to improve your game, improve your life. Then you'll live differently. Go different places. Behave differently. Meet higher quality people.

Bullshyte. Show me. I'm already getting laid. All I see are slags. Show me a picture of this mythical unicorn.

Anybody can get laid. You need to build a life. You need to become a quality man.

Bullshyte. I've got a X figure income. I don't have any debt. I hit the gym six times a week. Look a my pecs!

You don't understand. Improve yourself. Become as high a quality man that you can. Then you'll see.

What? Why should I improve my life when the world is filled with low quality slags? Why shouldn't they improve their lives?

 

[Von]

Every thread ends in the same place.

Where do I find quality women?

Become a quality man, and you'll see.

Bullshyte. I don't see any quality women anywhere. Show me a picture, show me proof.

No, you need to improve your game, improve your life. Then you'll live differently. Go different places. Behave differently. Meet higher quality people.

Bullshyte. Show me. I'm already getting laid. All I see are slags. Show me a picture of this mythical unicorn.

Anybody can get laid. You need to build a life. You need to become a quality man.

Bullshyte. I've got a X figure income. I don't have any debt. I hit the gym six times a week. Look a my pecs!

You don't understand. Improve yourself. Become as high a quality man that you can. Then you'll see.

What? Why should I improve my life when the world is filled with low quality slags? Why shouldn't they improve their lives?

That answer Location and progress

There is no time frame for a unicorn, unicorn are eternal creatures. You'll know when you meet one....

In short, its the meeting and the escalations which ensue that makes the girl YOUR unicorn...

A unicorn for me: Challenging intellectually, Brings me emotions, Liberal in thoughts, Understand my life, understand my business, stable team player.... oh and a golden patience for my amazing humour (short for terrible), no guys during/after me (LTR)

The rest is no bother...

 

[2Rocky]

Here's my advice to you. Keep bettering Tenacity. While you continue your own self improvement look more closely at your Group B women. If you find a "cute" or "cute as hell" woman without kids (or just 1 - whatever) who has messed up finances what if she has DESIRE to be better? What if she doesn't know how? You might find an opportunity there somewhere. It's much easier to change financial habits than weight/diet habits. That's an area where you can lead her very naturally.

This is an area I'm particularly concerned with. It was financial issues that broke the camel's back in my marriage and I'm worried that it could be an issue in my next relationship.
Of course there were other things that that relationship lacked in terms of connection and support that the financial side was a symptom of I'd guess.

Seems like it is a lot easier to be in love with someone than to be organized and ambitious.

Is it worth it to scrap a relationship with mutual respect, trust and admiration, great sex, compatibility in recreation together, a relentless cheerleader for me, on that premise? .

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

@BeExcellent What do you do for work? Just curious.

For me, I'm not looking for a unicorn. I have a son and I don't want any more kids. So I'm going to have fun. Enjoy my life. Spend time with my son. Make money. and just have fun with a variety of shorties.

 

[fastlife]

Fastlife:

So you want me to cite some Guru1000 poetry, so that you feel better. I won't. You're still young enough to make a difference in your life. Once you hit the age of 35, you will be set in your ways, your eyes will close, and change becomes an intransigent feat. I was lucky enough at the tender age of 20 to be surrounded by some big players who nurtured my thinking paradigms. I wasn't born a model. I was born quite poor. But I am willing to die to be the best.

Don't wish it were easier. GET BETTER ...

Not sure exactly what you're getting at--except I'd agree that having time on my side is an enormous benefit (perhaps the single most valuable thing any of us have here). I don't write a whole lot about my personal life here--as far as day to day personal struggles or successes or accomplishments--one, because I'm not particularly interested in impressing anybody or dealing with the, "Well, if you did this/have that/whatever, PROVE it" and then, after doing so (which I wouldn't have the motivation to do in the first place), "Well, if you REALLY had this/did that/etc., why are you posting here" (as I'm sure you're familiar with) and two, because I have certain personal ambitions that my posting history here could prove pretty damning towards if a connection were ever made between this and that.

But I'm single; have enjoyed the company of a handful of beautiful women (more this past year than the rest of my life put together); I'm in good shape--and still have looks that carried me before I ever bothered to sort through a couple deep-seeded childhood issues or cultivate any sort of inner-game. Financially, I made more last month than I did in any single year of my life (having been working more or less full time since I was 19). I haven't 'made it' yet, and I hope I never do--I'm sure life still will take a few more opportunities to knock me on my ass. I hope I can always find a good struggle and never let myself fall into the illusion of comfort. I think you'll agree that the achieving is always sweeter than the achievement itself.

But a huge part of my journey has been recognizing that there's nothing external to myself--be that fvcking slvts or making x much more or driving some car or even procuring the lifelong commitment of a unicorn--that can confer anymore value on me than I value myself. I'm sure at some point I'll do 'commitment' again (as will almost everyone on this forum, regardless of how much they beat their chests)--and I'm sure I'll fvck up a few of those situations and learn from that too and have the opportunity to adapt and develop new insights. But none of my 'fvck ups' will be with some super special unicorn who I won't be able to replace or find better--and with every girl I could possibly get involved with I'll be settling, which is fine. Finding my equal, or even someone capable of recognizing what I bring to the table (which used to be what I wanted more than anything--second to one thing, which still matters to me)--isn't a priority or even a possibility.

But like I said earlier, none of those things really matter when it comes to what women find desirable (at least between the ages of 18-21). When I had the highest access to 'high quality women' (financial 1%, college-aged, one of the most desirable geographical locations in the country, renowned for the natural physical beauty of its inhabitants; very low parental divorce rate; mostly religious background; best education money could buy; almost none of them drank or smoked; most were still with their high school boyfriends who'd they'd lost their virginity to, a couple virgins)--I was at my 'most low quality'--penniless, mentally unstable, self-destructive, irresponsible, bitter, depressive, drunk 6 nights a week--I literally had these 'unicorns' (and all of these girls would be 'unicorns' by any criteria in this thread) throwing themselves at me. Of course, I was too drunk and low self-esteemed at the time to fully reciprocate most of these advances--I had major personal inhibitions about 'defiling' any of these 'unicorns' or even 'taking advantage' of confirmed 'slvts' (plus I was looking for the sort of validation that only a BPD in her idealization phase could possibly provide). But either these girls weren't unicorns due to their willingness to try to bed someone like the person I was at the time, or unicorns, as far as I'm aware, don't exist.

 

[Tenacity]

Every thread ends in the same place.

Where do I find quality women?

Become a quality man, and you'll see.

T.O., your response to the question didn't answer the question. If you were walking on the street and I asked you where was the next Gas Station, if you knew where it was then wouldn't you tell me to take a right at the light, go up a mile and there's a Sunoco on the corner? Or, would you tell me, "become a gas station and then you'll see one"?

Bullshyte. I don't see any quality women anywhere. Show me a picture, show me proof.

No, you need to improve your game, improve your life. Then you'll live differently. Go different places. Behave differently. Meet higher quality people.

Improve yourself. Become as high a quality man that you can. Then you'll see.

Okay so a guy improves his game, improves his life, lives differently, goes different places and behaves differently. All of these are within his control.....the final part of "meeting higher quality people" is NOT within his control because if there isn't a supply of higher quality people in the market, then how do you meet them?

It's like designing a new/innovative product without identifying a MARKET for it upfront. T.O., you assume if I create a new product that a market will just pop up....it's doesn't work like that. It would be much better if I knew exactly where this market was, THEN went into the "lab" to fix up my product to sell to it.

 

[Tenacity]

Way I look at it:

1 or 2
Just revolting. Morbidly obese, or something like that.

3 or 4
Unattractive, and not worth a look.

5's
Average girl. Not going to put me in a pursuit mode, but something could happen under certain specialist circumstances (drunk at a party, on a rebound, etc)

6's
Quite attractive.

7's
Attractive women. Can turn head's in the street.

8's
When I daygame, these are the girls that walk down the street and have everyone noticing it.

9 and 10
The girls that are fantastic examples of feminine beauty. Example (decent game/set too. Notice the reactions of people walking past... everyone knows what a 9 or 10 is. Hilarious to date one and see it properly ):

Give me some picture examples of these categories. Here are some of mine that I posted in another thread:

- HB 2 and lower: These women are not "cute" at all, not in the face or the body. Usually she's ugly in the face with a bad looking body.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=118630368
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=107367810

- HB 3 and 4: These women usually are "cute in the face only" which means she usually has some sort of weight issues to where she's fat (not thick). If she were to fix the weight issues, she would go to one of the higher tiers, most likely HB 5 and HB 6 tier.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=123975983
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=124925793

- HB 5 and HB 6: These women are "cute" for the most part, with a solid cute face and at least a solid body.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=113129432
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=81863379
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=103623576

- HB 7 and higher: Women here are considered top tier in terms of looks by being very cute in the face and very sexy in the body. They look good without being fixed up, but if they were to "fix themselves up" for the day, they of course would be even stellar but nonetheless, they are all in the top tier of looks.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=62224421&frommsg=1&msgid=49458250127
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=123515811
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=115054167&frommsg=1&msgid=49253466029
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=54416826
https://www.instagram.com/therealhoopz/?hl=en
https://www.instagram.com/joybeezy/?hl=en
https://www.instagram.com/paulapattonofficial/?hl=en

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Okay so a guy improves his game, improves his life, lives differently, goes different places and behaves differently. All of these are within his control.....the final part of "meeting higher quality people" is NOT within his control because if there isn't a supply of higher quality people in the market, then how do you meet them?

THE MARKET IS DIFFERENT FOR A HIGH QUALITY MALE. DIFFERENT PEOPLE. DIFFERENT PLACES. DIFFERENT SOCIAL CIRCLES.

Jesus....

But you just REFUSE to believe it. Or you want to see PROOF before you lift a finger to do any self improvement.

Do you really think if you work on self improvement over the next FIVE TO TEN YEARS you won't also see an improvement in the quality if the women that you date?

Do you REALLY BELIEVE that you if spend FIVE SOLID YEARS on self improvement, work on and resolve your DEEP PERSONAL ISSUES, you will still only be able to find the SAME LEVEL of women you find now?

If so, then just accept that your social life will NEVER GET BETTER.

Most guys believe that no matter how crappy the girls are they pull, they know that if they improve themselves, the girls they get will improve as well.

But not you.

You either think that you are the PINNACLE of the Alpha Male in EVERY WAY.

OR

You sincerely believe that no matter how much you improve yourself, you'll still only be able to pull low level women.

WHY??????

 

[Tenacity]

THE MARKET IS DIFFERENT FOR A HIGH QUALITY MALE. DIFFERENT PEOPLE. DIFFERENT PLACES. DIFFERENT SOCIAL CIRCLES.

Jesus....

But you just REFUSE to believe it. Or you want to see PROOF before you lift a finger to do any self improvement.

T.O. not only have I been doing self-improvement but I'm continually improving every single year/quarter/month/week/day. I used to be homeless, my finances are now on point. I didn't used to look so good, now women routinely call me handsome/sexy. I drive a new Camaro, live in the suburbs, and have 4 degrees. I didn't used to have any of these things, 10 years ago I didn't even have a car.

My personality is on point, I can spark of convos with anybody and I'm usually the life of the social circle/party that I attend. I can routinely pull 7 and higher women in terms of looks.

Out of a 10, I should be a solid 7 at this point.

And even being a solid 7, I'm STILL meeting women who have something majorly wrong with them. Either weight issues, financial issues, too many kids, and/or a bad personality/attitude.

So T.O. are you telling me that I have to become a 9 and then I will meet the unicorn/high quality woman?

Do you REALLY BELIEVE that you if spend FIVE SOLID YEARS on self improvement, work on and resolve your DEEP PERSONAL ISSUES, you will still only be able to find the SAME LEVEL of women you find now?

You sincerely believe that no matter how much you improve yourself, you'll still only be able to pull low level women.

WHY??????

Because unless my analysis is off, I'm a 7 out of 10 right now. 7 out of 10 is pretty damn GOOD. I should've been finding a good chunk of higher quality women at THIS POINT and I'm not finding them. If you are 7 or higher as a man or woman, you are in the TOP TIER in my opinion.

So again, unless I'm off and I'm not really a 7? But if I am a 7 I'm already in the Top Tier and should be running into these high quality women. T.O., I'm not meeting these people. And I go everywhere, from business circles, college circles, upscale places, online dating, every damn where. Every girl I meet has something majorly wrong with them. Either weight issues, financial issues, too many kids, and/or a bad personality/attitudes.

Maybe it's because I primarily date black women? Black women are known to be the worse quality of all groups of women in America based on a variety of things. I'm just more PHYSICALLY attracted to black women than any other races.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

So again, unless I'm off and I'm not really a 7?

Yes. You are overestimating your OVERALL value.

If you're not willing to accept that, then not much will ever change for you.

You mentioned before that you deepest fear is being "put down" by a group of black men(people?).

THAT is not a characteristic of an attractive man. Women can smell that.

Women are genetically programmed to sniff out a man who can handle adversity. I suspect you project an image that you cannot. I don't mean adversity in upbringing, etc. I mean adversity IN THE MOMENT, particularly in SOCIAL SITUATIONS.

You have DEEP FEAR. And women can smell it.

You are not a seven.

But if you work on your inner issues, until that FEAR is gone COMPLETELY you will be.

But not now. Not even close.

And until then, no amount of money or cars of degrees or neighborhood will compensate for that.

If you were a chick, you'd be the loyal girl who has an awesome personality, loves kids, loves to cook, but is UGLY AS FVCK.

FOR MEN, INNER GAME TRUMPS ALL.

Inner game is MUCH MORE than making people laugh, or being the life of the party. It's very easy to fake, even to oneself.

TRUE inner game is inner STRENGTH. Deep self confidence and a belief that you can handle ANYTHING that comes up.

Not being the life of the party, but being the guy people naturally turn to when sh!t goes sideways to see what to do.

One with strong inner game does not fly off the handle as you mentioned several times you are prone to do.

Strong inner game is INSANELY ATTRACTIVE.

Yours is very weak.

The sooner you acknowledge that, the sooner you can fix it.

 

[Tenacity]

Yes. You are overestimating your OVERALL value.

If you're not willing to accept that, then not much will ever change for you.

You mentioned before that you deepest fear is being "put down" by a group of black men(people?).

THAT is not a characteristic of an attractive man. Women can smell that.

Women are genetically programmed to sniff out a man who can handle adversity. I suspect you project an image that you cannot. I don't mean adversity in upbringing, etc. I mean adversity IN THE MOMENT, particularly in SOCIAL SITUATIONS.

You have DEEP FEAR. And women can smell it.

You are not a seven.

But if you work on your inner issues, until that FEAR is gone COMPLETELY you will be.

But not now. Not even close.

And until then, no amount of money or cars of degrees or neighborhood will compensate for that.

If you were a chick, you'd be the loyal girl who has an awesome personality, loves kids, loves to cook, but is UGLY AS FVCK.

FOR MEN, INNER GAME TRUMPS ALL.

Inner game is MUCH MORE than making people laugh, or being the life of the party. It's very easy to fake, even to oneself.

TRUE inner game is inner STRENGTH. Deep self confidence and a belief that you can handle ANYTHING that comes up.

Not being the life of the party, but being the guy people naturally turn to when sh!t goes sideways to see what to do.

One with strong inner game does not fly off the handle as you mentioned several times you are prone to do.

Strong inner game is INSANELY ATTRACTIVE.

Yours is very weak.

The sooner you acknowledge that, the sooner you can fix it.

No, I don't react too well in "group roasting" sessions because the shyt is annoying, and yes, I throw temper tantrums every now and then when shyt ticks me off. Yes, I have inner issues and I know it's wrong, but I'm working on my issues every day. But your theory is that these things are THAT BIG of a deal to the point to where they are stopping me from finding the high quality woman because the high quality woman can SNIFF out these issues?

That's your theory? The theory is wrong. I have no issues attracting women. I have no issues keeping women. It's ME that pushes the woman out when I either cuss her out because I can't "take it anymore", or I just stop talking to her. If your theory were correct, I wouldn't get the woman at all.

Every woman I get has a major issue with her which is either weight, finances, too many kids, or personality/attitude problems as mentioned. That has NOTHING to do with my inner issues T.O. There's no CORRELATION at all. That has everything to do with a bad market of women to CHOOSE from.

You know what I've noticed about this debate? Those of you in your mid-40's and up like T.O., Guru, BeExcellent and others believe in the high-quality woman/unicorn and that any guy can find one if they "improve themselves to a particular standard". It's those of us who are under 40 who don't believe in that shyt and you guys are calling us lazy saying we don't want to do "the work", when we are doing the work/have done the work and there's STILL no unicorns.

To T.O., Guru, BeExcellent and others, what if your "market" is different than my market? Have you ever considered that maybe I'm operating in a new dynamic?

Please understand that Tenacity's market is MAINLY black women aged 23 to 31. Do you guys understand how matriarchial the black community is? Do you understand that 70% of us were raised by single mothers? BeExcellent listed out the criteria for the Unicorn being someone who was raised by married parents, GOOD LUCK finding the 2 out of 100 black women like that because trust me, those black women are off the market if they were EVER on the market to begin with. Black chicks like that usually marry their high school sweethearts.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

No, I don't react too well in "group roasting" sessions because the shyt is annoying, and yes, I throw temper tantrums every now and then when shyt ticks me off. Yes, I have inner issues and I know it's wrong, but I'm working on my issues every day. But your theory is that these things are THAT BIG of a deal to the point to where they are stopping me from finding the high quality woman because the high quality woman can SNIFF out these issues?

My view of a "high quality woman" isn't that her fashion game is 9 or 10, but she will be reasonably attractive with a lot else going on with her, plus ontop of it she won't have terrible personality flaws as bpd or extreme self centeredness.

That's your theory? The theory is wrong. I have no issues attracting women. I have no issues keeping women. It's ME that pushes the woman out when I either cuss her out because I can't "take it anymore", or I just stop talking to her. If your theory were correct, I wouldn't get the woman at all.

You attract women in the "game" that you are participating, maybe that "game" is preventing you from having a higher quality woman.

Every woman I get has a major issue with her which is either weight, finances, too many kids, or personality/attitude problems as mentioned. That has NOTHING to do with my inner issues T.O. There's no CORRELATION at all. That has everything to do with a bad market of women to CHOOSE from.

Every one of us has some issues. Weight can be corrected. Personality/attitude, I think is ingrained. Sometimes the puzzy is good and you put up with way more $hit than you should and it makes the attitude worse.

You know what I've noticed about this debate? Those of you in your mid-40's and up like T.O., Guru, BeExcellent and others believe in the high-quality woman/unicorn and that any guy can find one if they "improve themselves to a particular standard". It's those of us who are under 40 who don't believe in that shyt and you guys are calling us lazy saying we don't want to do "the work", when we are doing the work/have done the work and there's STILL no unicorns.

The "unicorn" that we are talking about was raised that way, where your target market of 23-31 I believe were "programmed" differently. Most of your target market is watching the reality shows and thinking that's how relations are supposed to be.

To T.O., Guru, BeExcellent and others, what if your "market" is different than my market? Have you ever considered that maybe I'm operating in a new dynamic?

Please understand that Tenacity's market is MAINLY black women aged 23 to 31. Do you guys understand how matriarchial the black community is? Do you understand that 70% of us were raised by single mothers? BeExcellent listed out the criteria for the Unicorn being someone who was raised by married parents, GOOD LUCK finding the 2 out of 100 black women like that because trust me, those black women are off the market if they were EVER on the market to begin with. Black chicks like that usually marry their high school sweethearts.

That 23-31 years old market is "programmed" a certain way and I believe is the reason you are having most of the issues you are. You would have to find an oddball who was raised a certain way and the ways of the world has not worked themselves into her. Yes, you are looking for a needle in the haystack, because I personally believe your entire target market is corrupted with entitlement and wanting free handouts.

I guess I would have to ask you what are the "rules" you have to deal with to mess with that target market? Also your target market are many of the ones who "cheat like hell" and say "not a relationship" cause they are so used to guys doing that.

 

[Poonani Maker]

One of the best abilities to acquire is to think before you speak. Some people get upset when you speak slowly, but I don't care, I like to think before I say something (these days), otherwise, I'll be going off the cuff and saying nothing but silly sh!t. Playing chess may help, or crossword puzzles whatever. Women find a Thinking man attractive. You're weak (to women) when what you say means nothing. Even the "girls" (not women, per se), will see you as a father figure if you words are played out in your mind before you speak. You will be funny, though, if you lose your temper showing emotion. That brings liveliness to a relationship, as you would see in a movie, but it returns you to your juvenileness appearance and status. So I think a balance is important to achieve to seduce a female.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Read response #66 again. I already gave you my answer to that question.

Women can temporarily be truly altruisitic simply because the live and feel in the momemt much more so than men, but what happens when that facade fades? What is a man to do when her true inspiration fades?

Also again, when do women tend to develop into these 'unicorns' that you say?

You vaguely told me where to find them, you did not answer any of these however.

It's unfortunate because it doesn't seem like anyone is truly supportive of any causes over here except the chancellor and his wife. There are some athletes who do seem decent and passionate enough, probably because of their sport. The only beautiful women who seem to turn their heads at me are those who are much older, like in graduate school. I think it's the way I dress perhaps, though I'm not certain...

Strong inner game is INSANELY ATTRACTIVE.

Yours is very weak.

The sooner you acknowledge that, the sooner you can fix it.

He did admit it or else you wouldn't know about it haha. Though this is true for everyone nonetheless.

The "unicorn" that we are talking about was raised that way

Not true, BeExcellent said that they 'develop' into unicorns, that means that they dont necessarily have to be raised that way:

It's not so much that women like me have died out so much as they may not have developed yet.

You know what I've noticed about this debate? Those of you in your mid-40's and up like T.O., Guru, BeExcellent and others believe in the high-quality woman/unicorn and that any guy can find one if they "improve themselves to a particular standard". It's those of us who are under 40 who don't believe in that shyt and you guys are calling us lazy saying we don't want to do "the work", when we are doing the work/have done the work and there's STILL no unicorns.

They don't get it. Women nowadays (women of the MODERN generation) are simply not high quality. BeExcellent says that they haven't 'developed' yet though, but I don't give a crap if they haven't developed into good women yet. The only reason why they would ever 'develop' into 'unicorns' is because they know it's downhill for them because of their age going up, not because they truly want to become kinder women. And I mean ****, not to insult you BeExcellent, but I dont want to date a 47 year old when I'm 17 because she just so happens to be 'high quality', I mean honestly I think the only reason why you settled again is because your genes are telling you that you're getting old and because they're telling you that your current husband has a lot of resources that can take care of you in old age, not because you found some guy you really like.

And some of you have the audacity to say that we aren't good enough for quality women. My own mother sucks as a wife (per my dad) and isn't that great a mom either (per my dad and my siblings and I). She did get better over the years, but that simply proves my point even more that women become 'quality' because their fertility clock is ticking down.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

It's not so much that women like me have died out so much as they may not have developed yet.

This is another thing, you say that it is not your place to judge whether you are high quality or not, but here you say you are:

Am I a unicorn? Some would say so but it's not for me to determine.

This whole thread is fishy. I get the feeling that the only reason you created this wasn't to help any of us but to help validate YOUR ego like another typical woman.

"You guys say that no high quality women exist out there, but what about MMMEEEEEEEE????"

I guess it would make sense why you would talk about how 'great' you are and how 'great' the man you married is when I asked you where I can find such women. You didn't answer my first question right away, nor my other questions and you avoided all of them so that you can talk all about yourself. Is this something a high quality woman would do? Create a thread discussing about how 'great' you are and how none of us are as 'great' as you and thus don't deserve women as 'high quality' as you all under the guise of trying to give us knowledge that true high quality women exist?
"Wait, it's not that high quality women don't exist, it's just that all of YOU are LOW QUALITY. Makes total sense."

These quotes provide insight to the thought process of the female mind when a female tries to act altruistic. You can clearly see how she is using rationalization to protect her superego from any damage. - 'Something Sigmund Freud would say'.

Lol.

 

[SteR]

Every thread ends in the same place.
Where do I find quality women?

Become a quality man, and you'll see.

I'm actually writing this post to verify this is true, for me at least. I've spent my life pretty much trying to build myself up to be the best I can. I'm not saying I'm anywhere near perfect, however there is absolutely no way I can deny that the harder I work on myself, and the more I improve, the more the girls I desire seem to find their way to me. I swear they can smell it... it's probably just subconscious signals we give off that draw their attention but there's no denying it's true.

If you're not seeing the results then I think TO's correct: You're not as high quality as you think you are. Keep working on it..

 

[Tenacity]

They don't get it. Women nowadays (women of the MODERN generation) are simply not high quality. BeExcellent says that they haven't 'developed' yet though, but I don't give a crap if they haven't developed into good women yet. The only reason why they would ever 'develop' into 'unicorns' is because they know it's downhill for them because of their age going up, not because they truly want to become kinder women.

This is gospel! Man let me tell you something lol, I see a pattern with a number of chicks that once they start pushing 30 or get over 30, you can notice attitude changes within them. I'm talking about chicks who used to be total bytches, stuck up attitudes, ghetto, ratchet, etc...... now all of a sudden this chick is quoting bible scriptures every hour on Facebook, reposting "upbeat/positivity" messages, and even when you speak with her she's actually more nicer/happier around people.

It's complete and utter bullshyt lol. The chick has made this flip because she knows she's hitting that age wall and is trying to change her ways to attract a "good man". This same chick posting bible scriptures every hour on Facebook with her "positivity" bullshyt, is the same CHICK 1 - 2 years ago who was fvcking every thug, criminal, and dope dealer in town, and reposting how hood/ratchet she was, and how nobody "betta not test her gangsta"!

If you're not seeing the results then I think TO's correct: You're not as high quality as you think you are. Keep working on it..

T.O. is preaching law of attraction stuff, while I'm preaching supply and demand. To really get a good overview of the difference between what T.O. is saying and what I'm saying, let's look at the following example.

Let's say you major in a particular area in college, but in the 4 years it takes you to graduate with a bachelor's degree, you come out of school and realize there are no more jobs in that area.

- T.O.'s advice is like telling a person in that situation to go BACK to college and get a master's degree in that same major, based on his law of attraction logic that if you "improve yourself even more" with a master's degree, then jobs will suddenly APPEAR, even though you didn't even find any at the bachelor's degree level and there AREN'T any left period.

- Tenacity's advice is to adapt to the new market dynamic by either going back to school for a different major or trying to use that degree to get into a totally different area other than what you studied for.

 

[The Duke]

@BeExcellent

What kind of guy dates a girl and waits 6months to have sex with her?
I can see a few possibilities:
1. The guy is pretty beta at the end of the day, although your description of him says otherwise.
2. He was having sex with somebody else!
3. His penis doesn't work very well!

Perhaps there are more I missed.

Why did you wait 6months? Is your sex drive not that strong? 6months is a long time. I understand that not getting caught up in your emotions is important, but 6months makes me wonder if you aren't lacking some emotion/sex drive? After all, this is something that does make females attractive along with submissiveness? If you made him wait 6months, that is certainly not submissive. Most women want to be with their man, having an "arrangement" like yours is not very feminine.

So how does the financial end of this enter into the equation? You stated that you still support your husband financially, so I would assume this guy you are dating makes more and that is attractive to you. You also stated a doctor and former athlete hit on you and you blew them off. I'd assume this guy you are dating makes more than them as well.

Much of what you have stated revolves around looks and money. You seem very career oriented which is great to a point, but I have yet to meet a career driven woman that makes a good choice for a guy. They act too much like men. The majority of men want a woman that supports him, not drives the ship. I know of wives that often travel with their high-powered CEO husbands on business trips overseas. You don't sound like you would be that type? You are pretty content in running your own show by the sounds of it.

If you and this 1% guy you are seeing ever got serious and lived together/got married/etc., which one is going to be the chief and which one the indian? 2 Chief's will never work. And you sound like you want to be a chief.

Donald Trump's wife would be a good example of a woman that plays a supporting role to her rich/powerful 1% husband. She could possibly be a unicorn.

The majority of guys out there don't care how much a woman makes! All that is important in regards to money is that she manages her money properly. Its women that put a lot of stock in how much a man makes and what he does for a living! And you just happened to find a guy that has more than you, which you are attracted to and place a lot of value on.

I'm not being nasty, just calling you out a bit asking a few hard questions. You are certainly a cool-confident one so I'm sure you can take it all in stride.

 

[The Duke]

Man let me tell you something lol, I see a pattern with a number of chicks that once they start pushing 30 or get over 30, you can notice attitude changes within them.

It's complete and utter bullshyt lol. The chick has made this flip because she knows she's hitting that age wall and is trying to change her ways to attract a "good man".

I had a sister that moved to the big city in her 20's. She was an HB7, blonde, pretty face, friendly, flirtatious, and confident. She liked nice cars, nice apartments, nice clothes, and like to go out all the time but didn't have a job to pay for that lifestyle. What she did have was a ton of orbiters/nice guys that would help finance it.
One guy gave her a $1000 one time, there was no sex ever involved....She just needed money and was willing to take it. This guy was always trying to date her and she wouldn't allow it. He was allocated to friend status. She'd lie to him, flake on him, play all sorts of games. Whenever she needed a free meal or some money she called him up and he took care of her.

There were also many others that she used for financial purposes. Some she had sechs with, most she didn't.

The only guys she dated were bad boys. Most had been to jail once or twice, usually for fighting or drugs.

She had a bad attitude, a real biatch, and was always using people and never returned the favor. I didn't even care to speak with her.

That all changed when she was 28, the looks started declining, and she got knocked up by a ghetto monkey. Her baby daddy was at the $trip club during the birth of their daughter!!!!!

She struggled for a few years, but she is now well-adjusted making good money/good career.

Sometimes the tempation is too great and it has a way of corrupting even the good ones. Now days she wants a good guy, no more bad boys for her.