how to respond "are you a player?"

[white_hype]

i was djing this hb 7.5 last night and it was going really well, i was saying some funny sh1t and she was always cracking up and asked me a lot of questions (i got her talking about sex and stuff, it was awesome)

then she says:
"are you like a player or something" and smiles at me

i just laughed and said no and quickly changed the subject

my response: (hahah) no, hey have you ever blah blah blah

and she kept talking etc and i numbered closed easily

 

[Ser_i]

depends on the vibe I get from the girl and how well I know her


if I don't know anything about her, I ask her why do you think that ? let her keep talking, and debate her. ask if she gets turned on by a "player" type of person. just don't say you are.

if I know her partialy, first look suprised, then a bit dissapointed and ask why she thinks like that cause I don't like it.

if I know the girl well, I just mess around and point out I ain't a Player I'm a don juan, A player uses women, a Don Juan provides pleasure for a true women.

meh shouldn't realy matter how you respond, I think it's nice to have a girl think about you in such a way, but you run the risk of those more serious types getting scared out.

 

[Silquee Smoove]

It's simple semantics.

When she says "Are you a player?" ask her for what her definition of player means.

Nowadays even though words have definite meanings, the people who use them come up with user-specific definitions of what a word means.

Even though you and I know what a player is - her definition might be different than yours.

Keep your definition of player as "one who sleeps and is promiscuous with many women" to "one who simply talks to women very friendly".

Simple as that, besides most women are sort of idiots anyway (with the exception of my mother).

 

[kairos]

some advice courtesy of david d's philosophy - don't act like a wussy if a girl asks if you are a player - just accept it...she'll get a lot more turned on if you are honest...so possible lines, again from david d. are

"well....I play soccer!"

or

"you're just trying to hide the fact that you are a player"....both from david d....so think ****y funny!

 

[Walden]

I'm more like the coach, or an owner...