psycocommy
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Ok, here's the set-up:
I'm currently living in Japan, with only a month or so before I leave. Last week my friends and I met some girls and hung out with them for a while - I wasn't too interested though, because I basically assumed they were out of my league.
Last Friday we went out again and to my surprise, I noticed one of them showing some interest - a few hours later I'm in bed with her, while her friend is sleeping on the couch.
Everything was fine until she left the next day, at which point I thought that since I only have a short time left (and she knows it), I should invite her out again the same day. Anyway, I basically over did it, probably freaked her out and things ended in a "sorry I'm busy this week, but let's hang out sometime" message.
Normally I'd just drop it, but I actually liked her more than I expected and with so little time left here, don't want to give up yet. Any suggestions at this point? How long should I wait before I contact her again or should I just drop it unless she makes the first move? It's just annoying because things were going better than expected until I blew my cool...
I'm currently living in Japan, with only a month or so before I leave. Last week my friends and I met some girls and hung out with them for a while - I wasn't too interested though, because I basically assumed they were out of my league.
Last Friday we went out again and to my surprise, I noticed one of them showing some interest - a few hours later I'm in bed with her, while her friend is sleeping on the couch.
Everything was fine until she left the next day, at which point I thought that since I only have a short time left (and she knows it), I should invite her out again the same day. Anyway, I basically over did it, probably freaked her out and things ended in a "sorry I'm busy this week, but let's hang out sometime" message.
Normally I'd just drop it, but I actually liked her more than I expected and with so little time left here, don't want to give up yet. Any suggestions at this point? How long should I wait before I contact her again or should I just drop it unless she makes the first move? It's just annoying because things were going better than expected until I blew my cool...