How to react towards mixed signals?

[paymon]

Me and this girl met three weeks ago, we hit it off by hanging out three times in the first week. Each time we made out and got physical in my bed for two hours. She tells me she rarely does this, and I do believe her because I know her history from other people. I have also heard she doesn't believe in relationships, maybe because she has been severely hurt in the past? Neither of us have initiated any attempt to become exclusive, but her IL was high with a lot of SMS and contact

Since then she bailed on an outing claiming "too much homework after cooking class" and I told her that I don't normally tolerate flakes. Anyways I ignored her for another day until she contacted me online and we chatted a bit. Then today she tells me tomorrow is a "possibility" for us to hang out.

I know this girl is NOT that busy, it is just an act. I also know there aren't any high quality males other than me in her life. I'm just going to ignore her for a week most likely, except I sit next to her in a class that meets 2x a week, but other than that I will ignore. Any suggestions/input?

 

[Fortunate_Juan]

Hit on more girls. You don't have to do it in front of her. But genuinely be interested in a few girls at once. Then when she flakes on you, you may be able to get another girl on the fly, or when she tries to organize for another day you will already be busy.

 

[Rastaman]

Staying away from her for a while should help calm the ship. Your mistake is u were "too available" to her. Rampant circulation decreases the value of anything (Economics 101). Reduce the amount of contact with her and next time don't see chicks a 100 times per week when you initially meet them, get other stuff going in your life.
Chicks don't like clingy, needy guys. Good luck!

 

[nonchalant]

Yeah, general rule is call them once a week at the very beginning, no more - and no less, and see them once a week at the most - gotta keep the line from going slack after all. If they wanna hang out, cool, if not, no worries.