I've been
texting with a girl for a bit and am currently still on vacation, but am flying back in a few days and would like to set up the first date with her, coffee or a drink. She isn't too chatty in DM's so I'm wondering how should I increase her IL so that I don't straight out ask her for her availability as I'm sure she'd flake if I ask now. I know I can get her to meet up but first I wanna get her IL up a bit, which is hard with her over text as she's not a texter (and I'm a very nervous caller).
Honestly. Set up a date with them and cancel it and offer a good reason and apologize then change it to another day. If she agrees you will automatically stand out to her. You still got to perform well on the date though ie be attractive.
Note....you will lose some woman doing this as well as soon as you cancel. But if you want to go dark and establish power from the very beginning cancelling the first date is always good in my experience.
Also find out something that she is insecure about and covertly exploit it. If she has a nice ass and legs but small breasts, mention an ex who had amazing breasts. Invent one if you have to.
Let her see you checking out other women that have features that she doesnt.
Note. The hotter the woman and more overtly sexual she is the more these tactics work to your favor.
