How to preceed after initial eastablishment

[kingofnewbie]

Hey you know, there is the first stage where you use eye contact, humor, kino to get to know a girl and she is enjoying you, smile at you a lot, started spending time with you and all ... but i noticed that that does not mean she will becomes your girlfriend rightaway.. right? how do you proceed after initiaating youself with the girl after awhile if the relationship seems to be going no where? just keep being playful? and make sure every second you spend with her is as fun as possible? If I keep doing it, is it going to lead to becomign bf gf? or is it best to ask her straight out if she want the relationship to continue?
thanks

 

[piri]

Just keep using kino.
Lots of it.
And make her talk and enjoy your conversation.
Try getting confortable at touching her legs.
Then when you see that she's really enjoying her time with you...

...touch her hair. Just put her hair behing her ears while doing EYE CONTACT!
If she does not break the eye contact while you're touching her hair that's because she wants to be kissed.
Just go for it (but you must be quick to start your move (not too quick thought) cuz if you keep eye contact for too long she'll break it.
Works all the time.

If she breaks eye contact right away then you need to warm her up a little more (it doesn't mean she doesn't like you).
Talk with her with eye contact, be C&F, use lots of kino (touching), ...
A great way to warm her up is to touch specific parts of her body. Like her lower lip. Just say:
"Hey, you have something here."
And then gently touch her lip very softly and smooth (eye contact is good here too) like if you were getting something off her lip.
After a while do the hair thing again.

Try to find 2 or 3 more parts of her body where you can warm her up (like touching her leg) (go to the quick tips on the DJ site. I know there's a new tip in there that tells you how to get confortable with it).

Anyway, you shouldn't try to memorize all this stuff. After all DJing is all about freestyle. You just need some tips and some basics.

hope that helps

 

[kingofnewbie]

thanks i guess if you keep doing it long enough she will just fall in love with you right?