How to play this situation, girl met and kissed at club

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So yesterday I went to a club and met this girl, asked her to dance and then spent the night dancing and drinking/kissing/touching in on the sofa in the relax room, I chosed the position for the kissing all the time withour her saying no except for a very slvtty one but no big deal anyway.

Easily got her phone number and got in touch with her exchanging many texts, asked her to meet again but she somehow told me that she is not sure cause she is not used to meet again the guys she meet in clubs and most of all she is not looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend situation (her words).

I got her on facebook as well since I easily found her on a group which we both belong as she told me first and any time I wrote her she replied and it was always me the one who had to leave first.

I dont know how to play it, does she mean what she said or is some kind of test to check If im looking for easy sex like most of the guys from clubs (feminine metality as guys in club are a different stock)?

What do you suggest to do? Im considering waiting some days before contacting her again since the weekend is anyway far.
 

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You met a girl last night....and in less than 24 hours, you've exchanged many texts, talked to her on Facebook, and asked her to meet up again?

No wonder she thinks you're trying to be her boyfriend.

Next time you contact her, just ask her for drinks. If she agrees, then great. If she doesn't, then you know she isn't interested.

But stop goddamn texting so much. And Facebook too? It's embarrassing.
 

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Yeah, I think you should wait before you contact her again because you so heavily made out with her already.

I'd say she has the power the way the situation is now.

All you can do is ask her on a date and see if she shows up.

You shouldn't have to explain why you want to see her. It's in the sexual chemistry. Either she wants to hang out with you or she doesn't.

You give her a chance to come to your place and continue the sexual chemistry, and it's her choice.

So I would just arrange a damn meeting and NC her till she comes over.
 
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