how to play it. Perfect 10 girl

[Adr3nalin]

ok so i met this girl after i hadn't seen her for the last 2 years. We were kinda friends in high school drama class and i used to be kind of AFC around her. She had a boyfriend anyway, so i didn't totally work the suave angle, i was just cool about whatever. Now things are different. I met her just last wednesday while me and some buddies were walking by a Nail Shop and she turned around to look at us, and my buddies were like "hey! There's a hot chick in that shop." So i turned around and was like, "Hey! that's Sarah!" and started walking towards her.

She was so happy to see me, and she was smiling the whole time. So we talked for about five minutes and caught up and ****. But as soon as i asked her for her number she kind of had this reaction where she turned to her left (kind of defensive) and then said "don't you already have it?"
me: "yeah but i lost it."
her: "ok, here ya go."
me: "anyway, gotta go bye bye"

in so many words...

so i called her up that night just so i could CATCH her reaction to the whole situation, i didn't care bout that whole talk to her after 5 days routine. so i called her up and she was pretty damn excited to hear from me, i'm not sure if she has a boyfriend but at this moment i don't care. What my question is, is...Should i after i do the whole making fun of her, making statements and asking questions routines...should i be like
"I know you get asked out a lot and i understand that...But do you want to rock climbing or come over one time?"

Or

"So when do you want to go rock climbing?"

Don't forget about her reaction when i asked her for her phone number, because it seems like she gets hit on a lot...that's why...

 

[tamales]

Others will give you better advice but 1.) how did the convo go when you called that night. Personally, I think it was too soon. I would have waited a few days. Not five.. she could be pissed but at least 3. I know that many of you DJ's like to wait a week or two but for me when a man does that especially, at the beginning....I am just no longer all that interested. I am like whatever. Honest.. Now when men pull this on me after I am already hooked and we've been together.. Sigh..then I am a mess

Anyways, I don't like the first thing you said.. What was up with "one time" sounds too jerky and insecure...too planned. The second was okay.. but only if you can pull it off and she is the type of girl you can joke with. A lot of really hot chicks don't like that? Dunno...

but does if have to be rock climbing after not seeing her for two years? How about a cup of coffee or a drink. No dinner! I am not that girly but for a first date.. I would say, lunch, drinks, pool... keep it simple. I mean you want to spend like an hour or two at the most.. just to feel her out.. No pun intended..

But if so, then... I would wait a few days and then call and act calm and say" I am planning to go rock climbing on X date at X time and thought you might want the company and to come along."

Maybe that was too much.. I say, pick something else to do. Keep it simple. Wait to call her again ( 3 or so days) and ask her out. If she says, no then be like okay, perhaps another time. Bye. DOn't act mad or anything. If she likes you, she'll call or say yes to whateer you propose. But rock climbing on a first date.. hell, I wouldn't want to do that until I knew someone a little better.

Maybe you guys already do.. THen again, if I was really into you and you knew how to rock climb then you could catch me when I fell.. Ever see the movie with Heather Graham and that dude who was a mt. climber. Speak softly or something... He was HOT HOT HOT!!!

 

[TheManiac]

id definetly say the second one man, it sounds way more confident, like youre not afraid what her answer will be, and you shouldnt be, cause right now you dont know if she has a boyfriend or anything, so its mainly just hanging out as friends more than anything else, and sides if she thinks of it as a date then thats cool too cause youre interested in taking her out on a date if its possible at this time to do so. plus the other one is so long and drawn out you sound like your stalling and just very AFC, like your worshipping her or something, im sure this isnt the case, but you dont wanna come off to her as the AFC you were in high school, so the second one sounds alot better

 

[Adr3nalin]

ok this is the thing, we connect together like no one i have ever met. I saw her sister and bro one time at blockbuster and i was like "do you have a sister named 'sarah'"? and of course it was her sister and bro..about a year or so ago..

then this other time I was going for a run and i was taking a rest walk past her pool and she pulled out with her car as i was passing by and was like..."Vince, is that you?" This was the first time out to school that we met. this was 2 years ago...

We have a **** load in common so if i'd ask her after we were comfortable with each other...

u know what...thanks guys...that's perfect...

"i was going to play pool at so and so date...did u want to come?"

that's pefect!..thanks...