I notice something in general about this site.
Many of us are looking for one liners or the advice on what to say to women. Why? because we doubt our own abilitites and therefore go ahead to seek toehrs approval and advice. We belittle ourselves like that. Also the mere fact that we need so much advice on what to say and what to do indicates that We are trying to Impress Her Our focus is still on teh girl not on us enjoying ourselves and letting her enjoy it with us.
Women have a BS detector and once they see that they will see yu as insecure and place yu as an average chump.
So hre it is.
The way to overcome yourself is to accept yourself. Accept that you are an AFC we were all beginners at something
Dont think of how to impress her but see it as a leraning experience. Enjoy yourself.
The best thing to do is to find a sport or physical hobby.
This does well with facing insecurities and fears. Lets say u do karate. Your mind will make lame excuses to why you cant succeed *too skinny, weak, tooo fat etcetera
ver a while your body will face pain and prove your mind wrong You will then begin to doubt your own fears.
Then pick up this approach to any dilemma or porblem you face. Trust ME you will seee Mad results.
Thats why most ppl who do some form of sport or physical activity are usually confident.
Fears
We all have them. Mine was my inner dialogue adn insecurities. I began to learn to face my fears (still am)
My aunt died in my house I live in, so it is a bit haunted, or a wee bit creepy. So I decided to learn to appreciate the silence I would learn to stay byself in the house in order to overcome my particular fear. I did jus that its still creepy but I simply accepted it as it is. This is jus one aspect of the Negative Inner Dialogue
Now with women its a bit different, its more embarassment I think that we are worried about.
But can you think pf any hobby that u have ever had?
Its drawing for me. I remember when I fisrt started I reaaally didnt care what ppl thought I was jus so immersed in it and learning and understanding the art. As a result Ive been told that Im quiet the artist by many because I spent so much years to the art which I still have so much more to learn and understand.
What if when I was in kindergarden I got discouraged when I saw some kid do a better stick man than me?
I hope you guys see what am saying jus basically stop generating so much of your energy in your thinking and spend more of it in living...
Dont give other ppl your own power over yourself.. Dont let them validate you. Thats like you standing on the side of the word selling you own balls!
Find something which makes you unique and let that be the first step to you learning to appreciate yourself.
See this game as an art which of us has a UNIQUE STYLE to bring. When you slip up laugh at yourself but Do not stop.. keep your stride my man see it as an art form you are learning...
We are all students in life.... So please guys get over yourselves.
Peace
Many of us are looking for one liners or the advice on what to say to women. Why? because we doubt our own abilitites and therefore go ahead to seek toehrs approval and advice. We belittle ourselves like that. Also the mere fact that we need so much advice on what to say and what to do indicates that We are trying to Impress Her Our focus is still on teh girl not on us enjoying ourselves and letting her enjoy it with us.
Women have a BS detector and once they see that they will see yu as insecure and place yu as an average chump.
So hre it is.
The way to overcome yourself is to accept yourself. Accept that you are an AFC we were all beginners at something
Dont think of how to impress her but see it as a leraning experience. Enjoy yourself.
The best thing to do is to find a sport or physical hobby.
This does well with facing insecurities and fears. Lets say u do karate. Your mind will make lame excuses to why you cant succeed *too skinny, weak, tooo fat etcetera
ver a while your body will face pain and prove your mind wrong You will then begin to doubt your own fears.
Then pick up this approach to any dilemma or porblem you face. Trust ME you will seee Mad results.
Thats why most ppl who do some form of sport or physical activity are usually confident.
Fears
We all have them. Mine was my inner dialogue adn insecurities. I began to learn to face my fears (still am)
My aunt died in my house I live in, so it is a bit haunted, or a wee bit creepy. So I decided to learn to appreciate the silence I would learn to stay byself in the house in order to overcome my particular fear. I did jus that its still creepy but I simply accepted it as it is. This is jus one aspect of the Negative Inner Dialogue
Now with women its a bit different, its more embarassment I think that we are worried about.
But can you think pf any hobby that u have ever had?
Its drawing for me. I remember when I fisrt started I reaaally didnt care what ppl thought I was jus so immersed in it and learning and understanding the art. As a result Ive been told that Im quiet the artist by many because I spent so much years to the art which I still have so much more to learn and understand.
What if when I was in kindergarden I got discouraged when I saw some kid do a better stick man than me?
I hope you guys see what am saying jus basically stop generating so much of your energy in your thinking and spend more of it in living...
Dont give other ppl your own power over yourself.. Dont let them validate you. Thats like you standing on the side of the word selling you own balls!
Find something which makes you unique and let that be the first step to you learning to appreciate yourself.
See this game as an art which of us has a UNIQUE STYLE to bring. When you slip up laugh at yourself but Do not stop.. keep your stride my man see it as an art form you are learning...
We are all students in life.... So please guys get over yourselves.
Peace