How to make the most of your social life and have lots of sex in your 20s.

[aspiringbloomer]

So long story short, I missed out on the whole college experience and finished college as a virgin. Growing up sheltered, having parents that micro-managed my life even after I was 18, transferring schools (went the community college route), and not discovering the importance of things like rushing a fraternity in college screwed me over. This makes me very very depressed as you can tell by my post history and I think it's time I stopped being a p*ssy and did something about my awful situation.

Here are my goals for the rest of my 20s, I am 23 and this is what I want to accomplish:

1. Make friends with cool guys, not nerds and geeks but alpha male types.

2. Have sex with a lot of girls that are above average or hot.

This is what is holding me back from accomplishing my goals:

1. I am no longer in college where I was constantly surrounded by girls that were at least decent looking.

2. I no longer have the social opportunities I had in college to make male friends.

Here is the good news:

1. I managed to get my god awful parents out of my life, finally independent and free.

2. I did make some male friends in college.

3. I feel that I am very comfortable talking to random women and do not suffer from things such as approach anxiety.

I am done whining and I want to take some advice and head towards a positive direction.

 

[narcissist]

you discriminate against the friends you make based on their level of alpha? that is whack as sh*t.

You wont be friends with "nerds" or "geeks" or rather people that aspire to be intelligent or find joy in interesting complex things? also whack as sh*t

and you only have two goals for the rest of your 20's

which are to fvck girls and befriend alphas...

seems like you have a lot of growing up to do.


My advice, is don't make women your priority. Also befriend people who are interested in geeky things like science, philosophy, evolution, space, etc. Because intellectual pursuits are some of the most fulfilling life experiences.

you can be a nerd and still get a sh*t load of women..... its all about the confidence

check out this video for evidence. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L6iBvDDiHn8

 

[foreverAFC]

this is the indian race troll back again under a different name, always obsessing about college and fraternities and the white women he missed out on because he was forced to stay inside and study by his parents during those years etc....nothing you tell him will make him get over it

btw most guys in the frats were date rapists or drug dealers when i was in college, and the sororities were full of ugly chicks, the few hot ones were never around at the parties and all had serious bfs

 

[aspiringbloomer]

lol nerds and geeks that don't get laid answer my threads

and screw being friends with intelligent guys that have nerdy hobbies, they don't get laid.

sex and social life, that is the most important part of a man's existence.

 

[aspiringbloomer]

hmm

if I was forced to stay inside and study during my prime years (which I actually was) then I would be pretty ****ing pissed and want to do something about it. Isn't that why this site exists? To help men better their lives in that regard and take some action to where they can get laid and not be the former nerds they were? Or has it gone downhill so much that it cannot even give advice for a guy when he is serious about improvement.

 

[Evzone]

Download "Blueprint Decoded", also read the DJ Bible here cover to cover.

 

[way2smart]

hmm

if I was forced to stay inside and study during my prime years (which I actually was) then I would be pretty ****ing pissed and want to do something about it. Isn't that why this site exists? To help men better their lives in that regard and take some action to where they can get laid and not be the former nerds they were? Or has it gone downhill so much that it cannot even give advice for a guy when he is serious about improvement.

You keep using words such as "forced" , "made", "pressured" and you seem to blame your parents a lot.
This is the lamest thing a guy can do, never ever blame your parents for anything. They deserve your utmost respect.

My parents were also controlling, because they cared about me and if it wasn't for them, I would have been a thug or in jail instead of being a Phd student with several job offers already.

Even though my parents were controlling I never ever blamed them for anything. In fact I managed to sneak out at night and f**ck different girls for different days of the week in high school.

Only losers blame their parents. They gave you everything they had to make you the person you are today. Don't ever disrespect them.

The way your life turned out, was all your own fault and only YOU can fix it.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Let's be honest here, and address the elephant in the room. College is not like the American Pie sequels, Road Trip, Animal House, or the countless other films that show college as a Neverland of sorts full of beer, beautiful women, and everyone is getting into comedic mischief involving sex.

Like foreverAFC said the frat guys are shady characters, and the sororities aren't full of beautiful women. I know people who went to expensive far away universities with those expectations, and were left disappointed. I also know girls who were in sororities, and let me tell you they're typically big headed, wannabe feminist/liberal, up-tight, and aren't that attractive.

I've only had the community college experience. While there are an abundance of women, the majority of them aren't worth the trouble. You have pretty much three types, ones who behave like total wh0res, secret slvts, and attention wh0res who string along the same orbiters from high school but are looking for new ones. VERY few of the females haven't been like that.

There's large amounts of attractive women everywhere. The female population outnumbers men, so there's plenty out there. Just go out and meet some. You'd honestly meet a better quality of woman somewhere else.

This obsession needs to stop. You're in your 20s, and have plenty of life ahead of you. Do you really want to look back at now, and remember this? How you obsessed over not fvcking some tuna boat wh0res in college, and therefore didn't have a meaningful college life because it didn't meet the standards of a teen comedy? How you think college is full of sex with good women, just because the guy on Road Trip had sex with that hot blonde at the beginning of the film.

I'll be sure to post this on any other accounts that post the same question.