How to mack in a club without dancing?

[BigDave]

so im wondering if you need to dance in a club. cos most of the stuff ive seen in centred around dancing, and i dont like dancing! i just wanna get off with the chick i dont wanna dance with her.
anyway whats the strategy as far as this goes? i think that the small chat and then email/number, then walk off is a good idea, but anyone got any techniques they use to avoid the dance floor?

 

[carbani]

Please - don't b***** us. You don't like dancing? Or you can't and you're to lazy to learn?

If you could dance then even if you wouldn't like it, you would accept the loss of those 5 minutes of your life per girl, and dance with her.

So - first, admit what your problem really is, then - learn how to dance, and then do it.

Regards,
Carbani

 

[Knicknack]

carbani is right. i used to be exactly like you. i thought dancing was horrible and i'd only make a fool of myself. well, a nice girl showed me the proper way to grind once, and it's been downhill ever since then. now i can't get enough of the dance floor.

my advice to you is just screw your fears and learn how. you'll eventually love it.

 

[squirrels]

Watch other dudes who chicks appear to be into. Then imitate. (just make sure the chicks are into them...the last thing you want to do is imitate the wrong person)

Start out slow...you don't need to be N'Sync to impress the ladies. Just move your hips back and forth, mainly, and watch your center of gravity.

When you're dancing with a girl, just kind of match her rhythm...once you're comfortable, you can start leading, but most women, if you have the balls to just dance with them, will just go all out and you can just follow her and enjoy the ride.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

If dance clubs intimidate you, don't go. Not all DJs have the ability to acclimate themselves in different environments and forcing yourself to try to only leads to you looking like a AFC. Stick to arenas where you are master of your domain or learn to acclimate yourself.

 

[Player_Supreme]

I've seen a white dude...6'4 over 250 out dance everybody in a club before....even the brotha's. there is no excuse for not learning how to dance...it's only cowardess and shyness that is holding you back from this important life lesson.

If you wanna stand back like a pimp and mack just do that...just get the convo going and do the take away...that is where you take her outside or to another bar, coffee house to continue your convo. That way you don't have to worry about dancing.

 

[bugsquish]

The only way to get better at dancing is to dance. And dance. And dance and dance and DANCE! If you see a guy who is doing the most impressive moves on the dancefloor the chances are he's been doing it for years.

But on the other hand, he looks like a showoff

As long as you are moving in time with the tunes I guarantee that 30% of the guys in there are dancing worse than you. And that HB is more likely to make out with someone who dances average than someone who stands at the edge of the floor saying "I can't dance".

Having said that, there are also chicks who don't dance or aren't dancing. After EC/smile, just wait for a moment where she's alone and move in for the kill! Like candy from a baby. But then, if she wants to drag you onto the dancefloor (some chicks do that) then you're back to edge of the floor saying "I can't dance".

Dancing is a tool as important as any tip on this site, if not more.

 

[syemour]

I seriously don't think that you can mack without being on the dancefloor unless your in Rocky Pointe Mexico. I've never seen it.

 

[die4me]

Dancing is the sh!t. Turn the best dance music you got on and practice in front of a mirror. Watch other people dance. Bring a girl FRIEND and both of you dance in the club. When you're heated up, start macking. GO DANCE!

 

[pootwo]

Well, i'm gonna go with the crowd on this one..

LEARN TO DANCE. In my opinion dancing is as important as any DJ skill.
I suggest you look at Justin Timberlake's "like i love you" video.

Tape it or download it. To me, this is the pinicle of dancing. It doesn't get any better than this, & the song is great as well!
watch this vid & try out some of the moves. If you can dance even 1/20th as good as JT then you'll be the daddy of the dancefloor.

 

[Walden]

Man, am I outta touch.

I like dancing (at Punk or Hardcore shows) but I don't think it's necessary at a club.

However it is useful cos if yr up dancing with a chick you get all that kino going on , and you know that you're with a girl whose extroverted enough to get up and dance.This are the girls that pay.