how to let her down easy?????

golf299

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on new years i made out with a girl. before that, we were just friends (there may have been some interest on her part). while i was making out with her i was thinking to myself "this is good experience." so, there was no real interest on my part.

now, she has mad one-itis for me. she's told a mutual friend how "into me" she is and everything like that.

im trying to nip this in the bud, so i invited her to lunch today to tell her its not gonna happen. what's the easiest way to let her down easy? i hate doing this!

i was thinking of something along the lines of "hb7, i dont want to lead you on so i need you to know that what happened on new years is something that just happened on new years. i dont know how you feel about it, but thats where im coming from."

thanks guys!
 

golf299

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c'mon guys, this lunch is in about an hour...
 

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Your approach sounds good and honest to me. But I assume you want to retain her
as a friend? Then tell her so.
 

LikRetsam

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Let her down easy... lol. Won't happen sorry. It doesn't work that way.

Tell her you saw that as just a hook up and would like to leave it at that. You're not looking for an exclusive relationship with her but if she wants a "physical friendship" that's fine.

good luck!
 
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