nickeldime
Don Juan
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Hey guys, judging from my post count you guys may think i'm a Noob..so whatever..i was talkin to a girl a close friend of mine how to tell whether a chick is playin a guy or not..so this is what she said
now, girls are freakish creatures. you see, they love to feel good about themselves they love to recieve compliments and whats more, they love to know that someone likes them. so most girls would embrace relationships as firends with guys although they dont like them
liek a girl my joke with you and appear to get close to you, but they have no intention to actually being with the guy. because when they know that they are seen as close with a guy, it makes them feel good.
meetin gup with a guy or callin them alot, talking with them or flirting with them does not hint attractiion at all. tha's the saddest part, beccause many girls will commence in that sort of behavior with people who are even unattractive
because they simply like to know that they are like.. an object of affection right?
well.
thats' basically it.
these sort of girls are the type which guys fall for, cuz they think they lik ethem.. but when the guy asks them out, they say no
and i's totally uncalled for, and the guy wonder why? like if they treated them so well and gave them so many signs.. why reject? and simply, the girl nevr had interest in them.. it just made them feel good to have a good guy riend that they knew were slowly falling for them
many times when the girl feels that the guy is falling too hrd to about to ask them out, they will avoid them or break off the relationship because as fun as luring a guy in is, it is harder to reject someone or to make things akward later on.
sometimes girls like to reject guys.. and those are the bad ones..
well girls who will most likely lead a guy on will: talk to many guys, and give them all the same message.
and they will compliment the guy, but only in the way that they will be expecting compliments back. They would call the guy to meet up, and usually it will be one on one, because having alot of people will just desetroy the purpose of making the guy like you
and they will be fake around the guy, extra sweet, extra nice. if they have a boyfriend they will never talk of them, and the easiest way of knowing if a girl is interested in playing or getting to you
is if she akss if you have a gf.. or asks of your gf. you say no, and she'll start whining about how you SHOULD have one... cuz ur so ... good at ghit and taht.. blah blah. if you already DO... she'll somehow find a way to make you talk about the problems you have in the relationship and empathaize..
oh yes i totally undersatnd how you feel.. having a flirtatious girlfirend always ruins thing.. " blah blah blha.. until you think that She is the perfect girl instead.
but you must be weary of how many boys the girl may be giving the same message.. or is it just one or two. if it's jsut one or two then the girl maybe lost and can't figure out who she really likes.
tell me what u guys think of what she said.
thanks!
now, girls are freakish creatures. you see, they love to feel good about themselves they love to recieve compliments and whats more, they love to know that someone likes them. so most girls would embrace relationships as firends with guys although they dont like them
liek a girl my joke with you and appear to get close to you, but they have no intention to actually being with the guy. because when they know that they are seen as close with a guy, it makes them feel good.
meetin gup with a guy or callin them alot, talking with them or flirting with them does not hint attractiion at all. tha's the saddest part, beccause many girls will commence in that sort of behavior with people who are even unattractive
because they simply like to know that they are like.. an object of affection right?
well.
thats' basically it.
these sort of girls are the type which guys fall for, cuz they think they lik ethem.. but when the guy asks them out, they say no
and i's totally uncalled for, and the guy wonder why? like if they treated them so well and gave them so many signs.. why reject? and simply, the girl nevr had interest in them.. it just made them feel good to have a good guy riend that they knew were slowly falling for them
many times when the girl feels that the guy is falling too hrd to about to ask them out, they will avoid them or break off the relationship because as fun as luring a guy in is, it is harder to reject someone or to make things akward later on.
sometimes girls like to reject guys.. and those are the bad ones..
well girls who will most likely lead a guy on will: talk to many guys, and give them all the same message.
and they will compliment the guy, but only in the way that they will be expecting compliments back. They would call the guy to meet up, and usually it will be one on one, because having alot of people will just desetroy the purpose of making the guy like you
and they will be fake around the guy, extra sweet, extra nice. if they have a boyfriend they will never talk of them, and the easiest way of knowing if a girl is interested in playing or getting to you
is if she akss if you have a gf.. or asks of your gf. you say no, and she'll start whining about how you SHOULD have one... cuz ur so ... good at ghit and taht.. blah blah. if you already DO... she'll somehow find a way to make you talk about the problems you have in the relationship and empathaize..
oh yes i totally undersatnd how you feel.. having a flirtatious girlfirend always ruins thing.. " blah blah blha.. until you think that She is the perfect girl instead.
but you must be weary of how many boys the girl may be giving the same message.. or is it just one or two. if it's jsut one or two then the girl maybe lost and can't figure out who she really likes.
tell me what u guys think of what she said.
thanks!
