How to knock the pedastal from under girls?

[NotAgain]

No excuses, I know I blame myself as I was always the one initiating everything with girls from friends to those I'm keen on. Since being on this site, I've treated girls I've met differently and it's such a vast difference. They are the ones who initiate now and it's always give and take and not a 1 way street.

But back to my question, so how do I knock the pedastal from under the girls I already know? I've had enough of being the one initiating everything and be it the girls who are just friends to the girls I'm keen on...

Funny thing is once we've caught up, these girls initiate everything from kino to what we are doing. I've just had enough of being the person who has to get the ball rolling.

 

[JonJaper]

You are the one that puts them on the pedestal. It's all in your head.

So, if you want to take them off it, look at them in a different way. See them as humans with flaws, rather than goddesses.

Secondly, treat them differently. Stop being available for them 24/7 etc.

If you think of them differently and treat them differently, then the pedestal will vanish.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

You are the one that puts them on the pedestal. It's all in your head.

So, if you want to take them off it, look at them in a different way. See them as humans with flaws, rather than goddesses.

Secondly, treat them differently. Stop being available for them 24/7 etc.

If you think of them differently and treat them differently, then the pedestal will vanish.

Have you ever slept with a female that wasn't a prostitute?

 

[Gray The Prince]

Have you ever slept with a female that wasn't a prostitute?

Sigged!

 

[JonJaper]

Have you ever slept with a female that wasn't a prostitute?

LOL not yet...I'm self-improving first.

Why is that relevant to this topic about pedestals? Or are you just trying to start a flamewar that isn't gonna happen haha.

 

[corrector]

LOL not yet...I'm self-improving first.

Why is that relevant? Or are you trying to start a flamewar that isn't gonna happen haha.

Japer was going to say "your mother" but held his peace.

 

[JonJaper]

Japer was going to say "your mother" but held his peace.

I wasn't gonna say that because he asked about a woman who isn't a prostitute LOL j/k.

See PrettyBoyAJ, I can take the low road too.

 

[perseverance]

"How to knock the pedastal from under girls?"

You do that by placing yourself on the pedestal instead.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Because I just recently read your thread in your signature. Was wondering how the progress was coming along.

To answer the OP question: Don't put one on a pedestal in the first place. You should always be looking for a better girl.

 

[JonJaper]

Because I just recently read your thread in your signature. Was wondering how the progress was coming along.

To answer the OP question: Don't put one on a pedestal in the first place. You should always be looking for a better girl.

LOL ok I thought you were just trolling.

I'm still working on my inner game and hitting the gym, focusing on other areas of my life (studies etc) instead of women, because I know that if I improve other areas of my life, the women will come naturally.

It's only been a month and a 1/2 since my trip to Amsterdam, so if I turned around and said that since then, I've read all the DJBible, book of Pook etc, got muscular and ripped, done hundreds of approaches, number closed, f-closed, changed my inner game/mindset, become a whole new person and a DJ already... that would obviously be BS.

 

[Black.Magic]

Have you ever slept with a female that wasn't a prostitute?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHH!!!:wave:

WHERE THE F$CK DID THAT ONE COME FROM???

HAHAHAHAHA

 

[bigneil]

Have you ever slept with a female that wasn't a prostitute?

Has any man?

 

[AlexDP]

Has any man?

Yes. Now you go and deal with your issues, you big baby.

 

[r0cky]

As long as you're labeling some girls as "hot girls" you will treat them differently. Look at every girl the same way until it becomes part of who you are, and only then will you treat the girls you already know the same as every other person.

 

[bigneil]

Yes. Now you go and deal with your issues, you big baby.

AlexDP, I'm sorry that it's so rare for you to have sex with attractive women that you harbor long term resentment for those who do (my last date being the 6th most attractive of my life, IMO), letting it spill over into Off Topic issues like this. Why don't you grow up and get over it? I seriously think your BPD chick did long term damage.

PS - I was quoting Matthew Fitzgerald in Sexploytation regarding the average American woman being a wh0re.