This is just a quick little tidbit about 'state' and 'frame' and how a little experiment I did today went so maybe some of you can take something away from it. My problem has always been with smiling and projecting a high energy frame, so today I just set out to smile at everyone that looked at me and generally keep only happy thoughts in my head just be a happy guy today...
The thing I learned is that keeping state is hard as ballz. I found myself actually getting tired and losing energy and motivation and negative thoughts creeping in, just to keep a good energetic frame for smiling at people...
How do some of you recover if you're in good state and projecting a strong frame and then your first approach gets blown to pieces by some unyielding ice queen. It's SUCh an easy state-breaker, how do you recover from that, it really does take the energy out of you and kinda sets the mood for the whole day don't you think ??
I remember in a club once I approached a hotty and she shut me down pretty early and it ruined my night, eventho i kept approaching my state was ruined, my confidence took a shot and it definitely affected me in a bad way. Anyone else experience this type of thing ? How do you get around it ??
-Cod3r
The thing I learned is that keeping state is hard as ballz. I found myself actually getting tired and losing energy and motivation and negative thoughts creeping in, just to keep a good energetic frame for smiling at people...
How do some of you recover if you're in good state and projecting a strong frame and then your first approach gets blown to pieces by some unyielding ice queen. It's SUCh an easy state-breaker, how do you recover from that, it really does take the energy out of you and kinda sets the mood for the whole day don't you think ??
I remember in a club once I approached a hotty and she shut me down pretty early and it ruined my night, eventho i kept approaching my state was ruined, my confidence took a shot and it definitely affected me in a bad way. Anyone else experience this type of thing ? How do you get around it ??
-Cod3r