hey there... i was hoping you guys could help me out on this situation, i've read the bible and it's helped me tremendously but anyways heres my prob:
About two months ago I was living on my own i hooked up with this girl for what i thought was a ONS, but since then we have got together pretty much every week to have sex. Since then, i've moved back home and its been a few weeks since we've done anytning. Weve only done it once since ive moved back home, i'm not sure becuase we don't have a place anymore or not. I wanna keep doin this girl (suprise surprise) and here's the kicker, she had never even once called me, it's all be me initiating the "meetings". I also email and bust out the C+F and she says she loves this, but never replies.I know this goes against DJ'sim, but i wansn't too sure how to handle a fvuck buddy situation and it seemed to be working. And since the last time we've done it, she has flaked out on me 2 times and says its just not the same anymore. So I have this girl on IMS and usuaslly talk to her every 2nd day or so and I havent called her in a week. (normally we talk every 3-4 days for 10-15 mins.) Her friends also really like nme, and some of them even hit on me.
The thing is that I want to keep this going, becasue its awesome unattached action, but shes losing interest, possibly becasue she wants commitment, which i definatley don't want. She also always tries to make me jealous (i'm not sure if shes trying to get me to commit?) by telling me about other guys she'd like to have sex with, but i handle that ****e like a true DJ and i can see her gettting pissed that it doenst bother me. Can anyone gimme any help? Should I only call her when I want sex and actually have a place to do it? ( sometimes i housesit)
Thanks
About two months ago I was living on my own i hooked up with this girl for what i thought was a ONS, but since then we have got together pretty much every week to have sex. Since then, i've moved back home and its been a few weeks since we've done anytning. Weve only done it once since ive moved back home, i'm not sure becuase we don't have a place anymore or not. I wanna keep doin this girl (suprise surprise) and here's the kicker, she had never even once called me, it's all be me initiating the "meetings". I also email and bust out the C+F and she says she loves this, but never replies.I know this goes against DJ'sim, but i wansn't too sure how to handle a fvuck buddy situation and it seemed to be working. And since the last time we've done it, she has flaked out on me 2 times and says its just not the same anymore. So I have this girl on IMS and usuaslly talk to her every 2nd day or so and I havent called her in a week. (normally we talk every 3-4 days for 10-15 mins.) Her friends also really like nme, and some of them even hit on me.
The thing is that I want to keep this going, becasue its awesome unattached action, but shes losing interest, possibly becasue she wants commitment, which i definatley don't want. She also always tries to make me jealous (i'm not sure if shes trying to get me to commit?) by telling me about other guys she'd like to have sex with, but i handle that ****e like a true DJ and i can see her gettting pissed that it doenst bother me. Can anyone gimme any help? Should I only call her when I want sex and actually have a place to do it? ( sometimes i housesit)
Thanks
