how to get more out of it........

[wh01987]

I have this problem. My gf only wants to hug we have been going out for 3 days. I have kissed her before but its too fast or somthing. How would I go about trying to get her to want to do more.

Should I just give it a couple of weeks?

 

[oakraiderz2]

That would piss me off. Ive kissed girls when we werent even goin out like a bunch of other people have, but thats just bs...IMO. A few weeks would piss me off, id want more than a kiss after a few weeks.

 

[wh01987]

Yeah its annoying as hell I want more then hugs and holding hands!

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by wh01987
Yeah its annoying as hell I want more then hugs and holding hands!

Try for it again. If it doesnt work just start kissing her neck and ear. That should make her want some.

 

[wh01987]

ok il give it a shot

 

[kevbo]

i feel ya, cause till today (after a month of dating) our kisses were pretty much just like that. however, i kept with it, and now she'll be even more comfortable with me than before. persistence buddy.

oh! i almost forgot one more thing: LOTS of kino. that'll really build up her comfort level with you.

 

[wh01987]

oh ok thanks

 

[Microphone Fiend]

I heard somewhere that you get in tons of situations where she wants to be kissed (Ie: the silent moment after you finish play fighting and she is real close to you) and you don't kiss her. Then this builds up her want to be kissed because she is thinking "why isn't he trying to kiss me here?" so when you do lay it on her she will be happy. The build up is half the fun, if you kissed the first time you met her you wouldn't have milestones like this which makes life so much better

 

[wh01987]

yeah then maybe if you wait longer shel wanna makeout longer

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Are you her first boyfriend? Because she might actually just be very inexperienced even in kissing and thinks she's not good at it so she's soooo shy about it and therefore doesn't do it???? Is this possible?

 

[wh01987]

her sister told me shes had 3 bfs and im the second guy shes ever kissed ......

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Originally posted by wh01987
her sister told me shes had 3 bfs and im the second guy shes ever kissed ......

Wow. She had a boyfriend that she NEVER kissed? She's either REALLY REALLY prude or really really shy/insecure. I'm guessing it's the second thing. If you are only the second guy she's ever kissed, she probably thinks she has no idea how to kiss good and is paranoid about it. You say you've kissed her before but it was "too fast"? Does she seem like she is an inexperienced kisser? If so, the next time you do get a little kiss or something, build her confidence by telling her how much you like the way she kisses (you can lie, its ok) or even try to guide her a little. I have a feeling she will open up more and relax more with time.

 

[wh01987]

oh ok thanks, yeah i think il do that tell her she kisses really good or somthing..


Yeah i dont thinks shes very expieranced heh..