How to get action the lazy man's way

[whiskerbiskit]

i'd like to share with you older kids a surefire way to get twenty-somethings easily. and by surefire i mean consistently nail movie star grade women without having to break out of your meek shell. too good to be true? not really.

the only caveat here is that you need a bit of time and money. to not drag this intro out anymore the easiest way to get all the 10's you want is that you will need to take a vacation and head to a third world country for a week or two. the budget for this poon vacation typically runs about two to three grand including plain tix. but it's oh so worth it!

pick any destination country where there is a lot of poverty and when you get there the gender roles will have magically turned around and girls will come to YOU and make every effort to pick you up. it is desirable, but not essential, that you pick a country whose language is the same as yours. some countries are "dead" to outsiders and you won't get any action (namely predominantly islamic ones and).

the basic recipe is this:

1) get you a passport
2) research a target country. it should be above all else a country that is desperately poor and, secondly, one where your language is spoken to some degree.
3) go there and stay at a hotel in their capital, perhaps a package tour.
4) make yourself visible and appear friendly

that's it. people of both sexes will approach you if they sense you're approachable. don't turn away the dudes because they can be priceless wingmen and obviously know the lay of the land a lot better than you. a great place to hang out is the beach or whatever entertainment infrastructure is built up around a local college. the beauty of all is that you don't really have to do anything/ just be yourself - but do try to be agreeable at least and try inasmuch as possible to have a bit of decency where it comes to interpersonal skills.

now the dont's:

1) do NOT take much in the way of cash. leave all jewelry behind. you're going there to screw, not become a target.
2) do not leave touristy areas... tourists are prime targets for scams of all sorts. in fact, keep control of your destiny 100% of the time. if a girl wants to be with you YOU take her where you want. be friendly but always inflexible because to not do so invites the temptation to fall victim of a scam.
3) until you become comfortable with the area go on the prowl during the daytime. any girl you have an interest in will almost 100% of the time actively seek to be with you and chat. invite her to a cheap lunch. do not try to impress her, just TALK. it's wonderful!
4) you're shagging hot chicks because they think you are a ticket out and they pin all hope on you falling in love with them to come to their rescue. play that game insofar as your heart can stand it but never ever ever admit to having money. and by that i mean keep in mind that a day's pay at minimum wage in the states is often two week's pay over there. in fact, play up the bohemian "world-traveler-but-otherwise-broke" angle for all it's worth.

if you go through with this you will gain a lot of confidence by the time you come back. nothing prepares you for going after 8's back home after you've had half a dozen 10's abroad in a week or two - it will do WONDERS for your mojo and you did it the lazy man's way.

learn some spanish and/or french. the world will be your oyster.

wb

 

[lookyoung]

Very interesting thread. Can you tell us where you went? What was your best vacation experience regarding banging girls? Did you bang any hookers? I hear that brazil is a great spot, but very dangerous at the same time. I am very skeptical of going to another country besides europe or mexico or a commmonwealth such as PR. These other countries have way too much corruption.

 

[STR8UP]

If I had the time I would do a three week tour of eastern Europe. Hungary, Romania, Poland, etc.

Been to Prague, awesome women but too touristy and westernized for what you are talking about. The other time in eastern Europe I visited Republic of Georgia. Now THAT was an entirely different story.

Very poor country, and in general I didn't care for the look of the women, but even the less attractive ones carried themselves like WOMEN unlike the chubby ass t-shirt and sweat pants wearing American chick. AND by the end of my stay I had two best friends fighting over me. I didn't want to come home.

Even though there are quite a few American there, if you are from the US you basically have rockstar status. When you walk down the street the girls working in the cafe's and stores will literally stop in their tracks and check you out as you walk by.

My ex g/f was born in the Phillipines. She told me she would never take me there because the chicks would be all over me. Hmmm.......

 

[MacAvoy]

Holy freak ... 2 excellent posts in 1 night ... great idea ... I've got a few friends who totally would be into this and would pay a little extra to make it happen ... can you say free trip

 

[whiskerbiskit]

as to where i've been - hell, you name it. all over europe, s. america, the caribbean... even africa. but i'm not a good example to most americans because i speak french, german and spanish.

yes, i've mongered a bit (mongered = jargon for paying for sex) but that's not necessary. and picking up a prostitute is not going to help your game, which is the point of this project. think of that two grand vacation as an investment in making yourself a dj. two grand is nothing if you will get the confidence to pick up girls when you return home. not to mention the experience of visiting a foreign country - wouldn't you agree? for most in fact it's not the cost of the trip so much as getting a couple weeks off work.

if you can speak decent spanish the easiest country in the world to score would be cuba. how easy? imagine, if you can for a minute, being brad pitt let loose at a teenybopper convention and this gives you sort of an idea what it's like to be an american in this country. you will *actively* have to break eye contact to tone it down a bit. the attention actually becomes irritating after a while but walking around with the feeling of knowing you can have sex with any, and i mean really ANY, woman that you see walking around gives you a feeling of, i don't know, immortality or godness or something. it's surreal.

but even if you don't speak any spanish most foreign hotties will trip over themselves to try to "practice" their english with you anyway. the only bad thing, if that's the right word, is that your choices will be limited to college-age chicks as older third-worlders tend to know little in the way of foreign languages.

the beauty of my system (which is not my system of course but well-known among the sex tourism industry) is that it's so easy and natural. you learn by doing and you don't have to worry about looks, rejection, pick up lines, ugly chicks or anything else. hot girls fighting for your attention - could you ask for anything more? why do you think s. america has so many expat yankees? do you REALLY think it has to do with the weather??

wb

 

[Hitman10000]

Low Quality American guys going over to THailand or some Second/Third World Country = King (but still a loser in America.)

My friend's parents went over to Thailand, he told me that his mom was freaking out at all these old fat balding white dudes hanging around the THai girl prostitutes and the transvestites too.

 

[whiskerbiskit]

i agree - thailand is a bad destination. yes, you can get laid but when you come back you will be every bit the AFC you were before. why? because i bet you can't pick up a thai girl outside of the red light district. why not save all the money and just call an escort service?

guys, the self-improvement part only comes when you are getting normal, non-prostitute women. it's too many subtle factors involved for me to go into here but it should be sort of self-evident. you will learn a lot when the tables are turned around and you get to be the equivalent of the hot girl being chased after. you develop technique, confidence and self insight with real girls.

for the purpose of this exercise forget hookers.

wb

 

[donjuanapprentice01]

I've given up trying to "date" normal women, and it has got me nowhere fast. Thankfully, I make a decent living working in a Law Office and on my internet biz that I can afford to hire an escort every now and then, which I do. Takes the rejection and dissapointment out of the equation.

 

[Hitman10000]

I've given up trying to "date" normal women, and it has got me nowhere fast. Thankfully, I make a decent living working in a Law Office and on my internet biz that I can afford to hire an escort every now and then, which I do. Takes the rejection and dissapointment out of the equation.

Do you value women so much for 15-30min of booty that you're willing to pay anywhere from UG-crackhead $100 to a professional $300 an hour. I think spending $100-300 on a gym membership, new clothes, and something that will help you be productive is worth a lot more in the long run than 15-30 minutes of f*ck-N-suck.

 

[squirrels]

Yay Thai hookers! Yay AIDS!

 

[Nighthawk]

Replace 'lazy' with 'desperate.'

 

[Bonhomme]

the only caveat here is that you need a bit of time and money

Now, how many people in the US these days have both?

 

[bigjohnson]

"All women are whor3s, except mom, and if you get dad drunk enough he'll argue about that too"

 

[DJDamage]

guys, the self-improvement part only comes when you are getting normal, non-prostitute women. it's too many subtle factors involved for me to go into here but it should be sort of self-evident. you will learn a lot when the tables are turned around and you get to be the equivalent of the hot girl being chased after. you develop technique, confidence and self insight with real girls. for the purpose of this exercise forget hookers.

Not that I am arguing against the merit of the easiness it is to get laid in other country but I fail to see where the self improvement and game comes in.

This is a simple economics game but in a different country and essentially same result. In the United States if you have lots of money and you go to a club in Miami and you are flaunting it, you will easily pick up 9's for the night. When you go travel to a poor country such as Cuba where people barley can afford the bare minimum, you will automtically be viewed like a rich man in the states (even though you make a modest income) because the mere fact you were able to afford a plane ticket to get here and stay for a week is more then what the average family makes in a year.

I know a guy in my work that flies every year to Cuba just to get laid and always raving about it. But I also know that he doesn't have any game and he can't pick up even a 6 for his life in Canada. So for 360 days a year he is a AFC and for 5 days he feels like a DJ, is it all worth it in the end??

Personally it comes with the territory and when you come back from vacation after having sex with beautiful women you realise that nothing has changed. You are still you and not working on your game and being lazy is not fulfilling in the long term. You should be able to pick up no matter where you are and your destination and life should be based on what you want to do or go rather then coming second for a pvssy. This game is not easy and it ain't suppose to be easy that is what makes it so unperdictably fun and rewarding in the end.

 

[squirrels]

well, while your taking your frustration on weights, and punching bags
i'll be nailing this and this

You do that. I've been with women of that caliber for virtually free. (Well, the cost of dinner) There's so many better things that money can be spent on.

But hey, if you need to pay for it, go for it. I'll be the first to say that if I suddenly came into several million, I'd be spending a week or three at the Bunny Ranch to celebrate.

 

[bigjohnson]

....if I suddenly came into several million, I'd be spending a week or three at the Bunny Ranch to celebrate.

And that's the real answer. Some people's time is worth more than others. Best hooker quote - "They don't pay me to show up, they pay me to go away."

 

[bigjohnson]

Personally it comes with the territory and when you come back from vacation after having sex with beautiful women you realise that nothing has changed.

You know this because you tried it a few times? Or from watching one co-worker? I know one guy who spent 5 months in a developing country and came back fit, tan and confident. A whole new man.

Depends on the person and what they do while away. I bet your buddy bangs hookers.

 

[DJDamage]

I know one guy who spent 5 months in a developing country and came back fit, tan and confident. A whole new man.

I wouldn't consider 5 months a vacation. He obviously changed being in a country for almost half a year that was part of his life. You can't really change drastically if you go for only 1 week.

 

[DJDamage]

I know one guy who spent 5 months in a developing country and came back fit, tan and confident. A whole new man.

I wouldn't consider 5 months a vacation. He obviously changed being in a country for almost half a year that was part of his life. You can't really change drastically if you go for only 1 week.

 

[bigjohnson]

I wouldn't consider 5 months a vacation.

You say tomato, I say tomato as it goes. It was temporary time off work in a pleasant place. Call it whatever makes you happiest.