Met a girl off POF tonight. Not that interested in dating her to be honest, we didn't have a connection though it wasn't a bad night and she seems like a cool person. Face is meh, but she does have a nice body. All things considered, this definitely seems like someone I would love to fvck but not date.
I was the first person she met off the site, she said she was talking to some other dude who invited her over to house for the first meetup because his car wasn't working blah blah (excuse obviously, he just wanted to hookup). She said that creeped her out because she hadn't even met him yet, and added "if he was just looking for a hookup then just tell me".
So that got me thinking, should I straight up tell her like "hey you wanna hookup?" like she said she 'wanted' the guy to be up front and open about it or should I just do what the other did and invite her over for drinks? I do have the benefit of actually meeting her in person, she has me on FB etc. so the creepy stranger off the internet factor is removed. Also I am getting my new place in a few weeks so I can guise a visit as "checking out my new place" potentially rather than "come over for a hookup?" How do you approach this kind of scenario? Up front or just invite them over and a hookup is somewhat implied?
I was the first person she met off the site, she said she was talking to some other dude who invited her over to house for the first meetup because his car wasn't working blah blah (excuse obviously, he just wanted to hookup). She said that creeped her out because she hadn't even met him yet, and added "if he was just looking for a hookup then just tell me".
So that got me thinking, should I straight up tell her like "hey you wanna hookup?" like she said she 'wanted' the guy to be up front and open about it or should I just do what the other did and invite her over for drinks? I do have the benefit of actually meeting her in person, she has me on FB etc. so the creepy stranger off the internet factor is removed. Also I am getting my new place in a few weeks so I can guise a visit as "checking out my new place" potentially rather than "come over for a hookup?" How do you approach this kind of scenario? Up front or just invite them over and a hookup is somewhat implied?
