How to get a girl to fall in love?

[JCKey618]

I've done it once or twice before without even noticing/trying. What kind of things do you do to get a girl to fall in love? I'm good at poetry. Would writing poems help? I'm hesistant to write a poem for a girl because the last time I did (2 years ago) I got rejected, but maybe it'll be different this time since I am already hooked up with the girl...?

I have noticed that sometimes the man saying the l-word first helps the woman to realize that she loves you and sometimes it makes them think they love you even if they truly don't.

 

[Saine]

Re: Re: How to get a girl to fall in love?

Originally posted by rocket_ship
WTF! That is BAD! Don't do that!

Also, I have to say, poetry is a bit of a pansy arse thing to do. Give it a miss chump. Girls like jerks, not poets.

Bad baaaaaaaaaaad advice. Weren't you just asking for help rocket_ship? Please don't give advice like this if you're going to ask for similar help.

My friend JCKey618, you sound like another imposter but I'll give it a shot at helping.

Could you be more specific? Because there is no formula to get a girl, it's all flexible, meaning every girl and every situation is different.

You're going to have to go out and find the girl you like. If you're having any trouble, come back to us. THAT is where we help you, not "here's the formula".

To end this- NOPE, there are more girls who like jerks than there are girls who like nice guys. There wasn't any reference to poets as poetry is a hobby and not a type of a guy.
You're the stupid chump if you think all girls like chumps like jerk and nobody likes the nice guys.

It's the man she likes. Not jerk or nice.

 

[Saine]

Re: Re: How to get a girl to fall in love?

Originally posted by rocket_ship

Also, I have to say, poetry is a bit of a pansy arse thing to do.

Poetry is not a "pansy arse thing to do."

 

[Saine]

Again, poetry is not a type of a guy, it's a hobby. I know a few jerks who like poetry.

This also tell me one thing, you're a very narrow person. You barely go out, you live your life at home in a room. You probably don't travel to your kitchen as much as you do to your bedroom and bathroom.

 

[Saine]

Re: Re: Re: Re: How to get a girl to fall in love?

Originally posted by rocket_ship
I read in the bible that jerks are what girls want.

You didn't read the Bible carefully if you really read it. So stop lying.

 

[bud_2005]

rocket_ship,

whats wrong with making them think they love you when they truly don't?

 

[drixsa]

fellas, fellas lets relax a little

lets try and stay focused on the real task at hand

JC-

you want to MAKE this girl fall in love with you...?

why, would u want to make them, if they do good for them if they dont, their loss

u shouldnt just start writing poetry b/c u want her to be pleased and for her to see someone that you really are not

personally i have always been the kind of guy that has felt that actions speak louder than words

besides you have been dating her for what a week? And you want love so soon? enjoy the romance of it

i think i told u this b4 but you need to keep some of the mistery in the relationship

let each layer come off slowly so that you can enjoy it

and you already have the answer for how to make em fall in love with you, you said it in the first sentance.

you didnt pay attension, you didnt even realize and they fell in love with you

And why is that kids? Because you werent trying, you were just being YOU and they liked you for that

I suggest you (and all the other ppl that posted above as well) to do a search for the Master Don Juan : Anti-Dump

not enough of his posts are in the bible, and sadly many were deleted but the advice he gives in his posts are rock solid in terms of mindset, you being the prize, woman and how to treat them.

also a little side note for saine and Random Loser,

its probably best if you limit your advice to what you have practiced and used in real life not just what the bible says.

remember that rules are there to teach a mindset and an understanding

some posts are more trying to make a point then really suggest how to go about things.

Flowers for example:

it is said that you should never buy flowers early on?

and that is because you are not trying to buy the relationship. if you are a guy who really knows his flowers , and found some very beautiful ones that you know that she would appreciate then you should and can give them to her somewhere down the road

but flowers are a bit lame for the first couple of dates

besides many girls these days dont even like flowers

 

[kilgoretrout]

Re: Re: Re: How to get a girl to fall in love?

Could you be more specific? Because there is no formula to get a girl, it's all flexible, meaning every girl and every situation is different.

You're going to have to go out and find the girl you like. If you're having any trouble, come back to us. THAT is where we help you, not "here's the formula".
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I agree with that completely and entirly.

 

[slickdon]

allright guys...lets take a step back here.

rocket ship...your looking too deep in to the word jerk. the general synopsys of the word to us means...dont be an ass and dont kiss ass.

now, to help your origonal post all i can say is this. {and its already been said} there is NO set formula . If you want to get to her heart just go back to the basics. Do things out of the ordinary. Has she ever been on a picnic? Make that happen! Its cheap and usally reliable!
Has she ever went to the dollar movie theater and saw the worst movie ever, then started throwing pop corn? Man just have fun with it! Dont be so ready to fall in love when there is so much time and fun to be had!

Thanks! Also, lets please stop the nagging everyone...its not good for the karma of the board

SlickDon

 

[misunderstood??]

Poems shouldn't be an issue whatsoever right now, after 2 weeks of knowing someone is not a good time to write poems, there's way too good of a chance that you'll scare the poor girl away(probably where that rejection you were talking about came from). Personally I wouldn't really recommend writing poetry, but everyone has their different styles and if it's something you want to do then do it but please wait alot longer than 2 weeks to do it.

Also on love.. Please do not say 'I love you' to any girl until she has said it first. You may not think it's that big of a deal, but trust me, girls take that VERY seriously and you can scare many a girl by dropping the L-Bomb first. You have no idea when she's ready to hear until she tells you it first, because before then odds are good she'll just get creeped out.

 

[Rad]

Well you can use your poetry skills..hook up with a DJ and you can be the next MC! Girls will flock to your rhymes, and you'll be getting some in no time

 

[Capi Crimini]

lol. To be a good rapper you focus on your music and you don't really have time for girls. Don't use something to get girls use something to meet girls. For example.

I knew two guys (now in there mid-twenty's) who though playing guitar would get the girls to flock to them. They focused on playing guitar so much they didn't have time for girls. Now there kick-ass guitarists though. lol.

Umm... Like everyone said above no set formula. My reply has no real set relevence excpet writing poems is good to show a soft side. But wait till your deeper into a relationship. Don't write her a poem she'll ask for one. For example I'm an Emcee and my G/F asked me to put a song about her on my LP. Well not asked sorta implied that I should. U get the picture. Poetrys not bad. Infact it could work wonders if you mixed it with SS techniques. Get her wet for you while your reading it to her. .

Follow da basics and you should be fine.