how to get a girl-to be ur freinds with benefits , nsa

[joe45]

ok my question is how do u get a girl be it a girl -aquiantances, classmate in college, girl u met in library, girl u met from off the net, co worker...etc to be a friends with benefits, or no strings attach fun, casual sex girl.
i chattin with this girl off a dating web site and i asked if she was into f** buddies ,and she didn;t answer witha reply and 1 day later she tells me shes not intersted in a man w**
my question is how do u make a girl be it anywhere to be ur nsa, friends with benefits. thats what i want ,but i don;t now how abouts to go and get it. i got friends who are girls, but we just chit chat about school, life, shoppin, our lifes and what not.
seems like a lot of girls i so called hang out are prudes-or maybe i am doin something wrong. how can i get em horny , how can i get em interested and intothe bed room.
do i have to wine and dine em, from what i read in other posts and forums, all the did was hang out , chit chat and then back to his/her place and do it.

what can i do to get a girl to be my friends with benefits , i just want casual fun -nothins serious

 

[djSlvt]

Unless you find a nympho that likes something about you can't do much. www.adultfriendfinder.com for nymphos. IMO waste of time.


The process is like this:

You work and improve yourself -> you realize what DJing is all about -> you find a girl and she can be anything you want her to be or else you find another one.


PUA is not about doing some thing and a girl responds in some way. That's what most newbies think it is, a simple technique. There is nothing you can do, PUA is a state of mind achieved through practice of different theories.


When you know the ansewer to your question, you've achieved that state of mind.

 

[Boston DJ]

I posted about this same topic last weekend. I recently f*cked a coworker and wanted to keep it on a strictly f*ck buddy level. It really comes down to the girl and if she is open about that type of shyt or not. This is how I handled it...

I went into work on Monday and pretended it was business as usual, no stopping by her office, no special attention. She e-mailed asking about the rest of my weekend and I mentioned I had met up with another girl I had been "talking with". She asked if I was a player I said no I'm just enjoying being single and meeting new people. She responded with "me too" and she asked me if she could make me dinner at her place some night this week. I guess it comes down to finding a girl looking for the same thing. I'd just say that if you're upfront and tell them how it's going to be from the beginning it makes shyt a lot clearer and she will know what to expect. Good Luck

 

[rakishness]

So you just want sex....without any strings attached???? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. No such thing.

Get a hooker.

 

[Themanthatcan]

Just don't date her, really. And don't hang out with her/ call her 3 times a week.

 

[Serialized3]

Are you kidding? College girls want friends with benefits more than anyone out there! No-strings-attached sex without a heavy relationship is what these crazy young girls are all about.

Just hang out with the ones that look s!utty. They usually are.

 

[Serialized3]

To clarify the above:

Just hang out with them as friends and don't let there be any romantic pressure. No dates, no romantic conversations, none of that bullshi!t. Just be their friend, and be sexually attractive (that's the caveat), and they'll be begging you for sex.

 

[Big-J]

Search is your Friend...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=43174&highlight=Escaping+Friendzone

Not an EXACT match but the context is pretty much the same, break it down, digest it.