How to find Naturals??

[Thomas94305]

Hey guys..

We've all seen advice to find a guy who is naturally good with women, hang around that person, and learn.

We also know that almost all men are AFCs. My own skills.. I'm a rAFC. I get regular approach anxiety, I manage to approach somewhat regularly, but I still get situations where I just don't. My convo skills are improving, but still need work. AND.. I'm better at this than most men I've seen. That's not a compliment to me, it's a dis to the rest of the male society.

Anyhow.. how do you go about finding naturals??

 

[AckeDman]

Ive been friends with a couple of guys that were naturals. I was 13 and i think he was 16. We went to a burger king and he just started to mac on the girl on the register even thou there was a line. I was schocked and even thou i actually party despised him as a person i really looked up to him like he had a god given talent (the talent of no shame).

Anyways.... i just wanna tell ya about a friend of mine that really confuses me. He is in a rockband and we go to the same college course... what really confuses me about him thou is that he manages to keep his cool on stage with his band but when we are standing up infront of class to do argumenting and such he is shaking and looks like he just wants to be anywhere else.

So the point of this is maybe some people are comfortable during some confidence-testing experiences while really uncomfortable at others.

 

[Thomas94305]

T'anks AckeDman.. you're on a slightly different topic about the confidence.. but what I've heard is that performers are often shy off stage.. The late Johnny Carson was a great example of this. He had a warm on stage persona.. but sucked socially. The explanation is that on stage is well rehearsed, and so known and controlled.. real life is not as controlled or known.

 

[Gayboy3000]

Ive been friends with a couple of guys that were naturals. I was 13 and i think he was 16. We went to a burger king and he just started to mac on the girl on the register even thou there was a line. I was schocked and even thou i actually party despised him as a person i really looked up to him like he had a god given talent (the talent of no shame).

Anyways.... i just wanna tell ya about a friend of mine that really confuses me. He is in a rockband and we go to the same college course... what really confuses me about him thou is that he manages to keep his cool on stage with his band but when we are standing up infront of class to do argumenting and such he is shaking and looks like he just wants to be anywhere else.

So the point of this is maybe some people are comfortable during some confidence-testing experiences while really uncomfortable at others.

give me head big boy!!!

 

[Poll]

Next time you go to a club, go up to the hottest girls there, grab their breast, the guy punch you and knock you out cold is the natural.

 

[sexxyback]

... so I hear someone is looking for a natural?!! What can I do for you?

 

[SharinganUser]

You just have to let yourself be natural.

 

[Thomas94305]

So.. your answers are "we don't know"..

 

[KoalaKing]

Next time you go to a club, go up to the hottest girls there, grab their breast, the guy punch you and knock you out cold is the natural.

You are wrong, the guys who are naturals are usually p!ss weak when it comes to punching other guys, they know how to talk, what to say to the hottest babes, and, always talk big, but when it comes to an actual punch up they back off like pathetic weak little kittens, they don't have the roaring out of control anger needed to match it with the so very angry depressed and totally fvcked off with his life type of guy whose life is going that bad that he can't get a hot babe so he in frustration grabs one by the breasts, a guy who does this is becomming very very fvcked off about everything and is ready to explode, a natural just doesn't have that same anger and has to back away. :yes:

 

[LionOne]

Start a martial art hobby. Kick boxing / thaiboxing. Then hangout with those guys. Finding a natural is the best thing you can do for your game. This is the way, ignore those other posts.

 

[Poll]

You are wrong, the guys who are naturals are usually p!ss weak when it comes to punching other guys, they know how to talk, what to say to the hottest babes, and, always talk big, but when it comes to an actual punch up they back off like pathetic weak little kittens, they don't have the roaring out of control anger needed to match it with the so very angry depressed and totally fvcked off with his life type of guy whose life is going that bad that he can't get a hot babe so he in frustration grabs one by the breasts, a guy who does this is becomming very very fvcked off about everything and is ready to explode, a natural just doesn't have that same anger and has to back away. :yes:

Sounds to me, you have never been to the hood or any of the hardcore clubs with them thugs with fine chicks. Go ahead and nab one of them girls' breast and see if the naturals will run. Let me know how it goes down.

 

[Lust]

You are wrong, the guys who are naturals are usually p!ss weak when it comes to punching other guys, they know how to talk, what to say to the hottest babes, and, always talk big, but when it comes to an actual punch up they back off like pathetic weak little kittens, they don't have the roaring out of control anger needed to match it with the so very angry depressed and totally fvcked off with his life type of guy whose life is going that bad that he can't get a hot babe so he in frustration grabs one by the breasts, a guy who does this is becomming very very fvcked off about everything and is ready to explode, a natural just doesn't have that same anger and has to back away. :yes:

A lot of DJs these days are piss weak, I am not just going to learn the art of DJ, I'm going to do a lot of other self improvement courses like Self Defence and such along the way, to me, it's not just about picking up, that's just one aspect of the bigger project, self actualization.

Becoming everything I am capable of.

 

[Ace of Flames]

Before I clicked this thread, I thought it would be about boobs.






I was disappointed...

 

[Ripper]

Before I clicked this thread, I thought it would be about boobs.






I was disappointed...

It may not be about boobs but there are plenty of tits around...

 

[SnakeCharmer]

There is no such thing as a Natural anymore. There are however a lot of guys who can pull chicks when the women are drunk out of their skulls, or who happen to be good looking guys.

You want to find a natural, you may want to become one, that is the simple approach.

On a side note, I don't understand why anyone would want to find a man who could pull chicks. Yes, you could imitate his mannerisms to a tee, and then you are going to be standing there looking like yesterdays roast beef.

Women thrive on things they haven't experienced before, not on hearing the same stuff the last four guys tried.

Seduction is finding a technique that works for you, not stealing the techniques of those around you.

 

[KoalaKing]

Sounds to me, you have never been to the hood or any of the hardcore clubs with them thugs with fine chicks. Go ahead and nab one of them girls' breast and see if the naturals will run. Let me know how it goes down.

They must be idiots if they have hot babes with them and fight, I only ever attacked other guys when I was angry because I didn't have a hot babe with me, as soon as I got one my life changed, I wasn't angry anymore, I didn't want to bash other guys heads in, and I studied for a Degree in Business and became a decent citizen, what would be keeping these guys in a violent frame of mind I wonder.

 

[Draykers]

Well, it all depends on upbringing I am sure. My parents were divorced, I was a middle child growing up in a house with my mom and two sisters. I had a lot of penned up aggression because I did not have my dad to paddle my ass when I got out of hand, but I did also learn that women are people too and yes, they also have feelings. Later on, when I got older, I left mom's house and moved in with dad. So by that time i had learned the finer points of being a lover, but not a fighter. What my dad and I later learned was that I was so angry about my past living experience that I could channel that agression and be a fighter just as well as a lover. I did all the martial arts training, high-school wrestling, even joined the Marine Corps after graduating (I'm out now).

I guess what I am trying to say, is that you CAN be a natural and STILL be able to fight. I have been in quite a few knock-down drag-out brawls in the streets until the cops had to come and arrest everyone in order to break it up, but it certainly was not over any woman on my part. The fights were about being a man and standing up for your beliefs. Just a tip for you who are looking to become naturlas: the women absolutley hate fighting, so hooking up on a night after a big brawl is 25 75 (not in your favor) because there are still some that like it--very little though. On a night when you're just out picking up women and you possess the skills, then you will hook up about 90% of the time . . . if you play it right.

Plant those seeds, harvest later.

Until next time.