How to find an appropriate f*ck buddy for me?

[your shyness]

Hello all,

To begin with I'm 23 years old women who is seriously considering finding a f*ck buddy online. Actually, I set my mind in 99%. I have a few questions to all guys here who date, have different arrangements, all casual. So please, contribute as much as you can And no offensive or rude comments please. There's really no need for them.

Ok, so here it goes. I'm inexperienced, and is it a turn on or big turn off for you guys? In my profile I want to write that I haven't got much experience with sex and want a guy who will be rather confident in bed and direct me, give instructions, etc. Is it a good idea, or wait till messaging privately with someone?

How 'hot' do you have to be to find a decent person?

Should I give an everyday photo with cloths on, or a sexy one in lingerie ? Should I show my face on it, or cover it in photoshop?

When it comes to describing likes and dislikes I actually don't look appealing on the basis of that lol I don't like blow jobs, and I'm not willing to give one because of STIs (unless in a condom but I heard it tastes disgusting). I tried anal once or twice and I hated it. Even when a guy puts a finger there it turns me off almost instantly. And I'm not sure what I like yet. Too few occasions to really explore that area hahhaha. Any advice on how to be honest but not to come across as I want to only get off?

I can't wait to hear your opinions and experiences

your shyness

 

[switch]

ok i have good new and bad news...good news first! :cheer:

there is a VERY good candidate for you on this forum!you want to do to 2 things first though...
1.search for a member called goundra or twentee
2.PM him and pretend to be from the Philippines

bad news is that goundra/twentee lives smack damn in the middle of nowhere...in some swamp or wasteland, where everyone is out to get him...


good luck :yes:

on a serious note, stop trolling, how dafuq can u be "inexperienced" if you've had anal before? yeah right, i bet my right ball ,you are full of it.

 

[your shyness]

ok i have good new and bad news...good news first! :cheer:

there is a VERY good candidate for you on this forum!you want to do to 2 things first though...
1.search for a member called goundra or twentee
2.PM him and pretend to be from the Philippines

bad news is that goundra/twentee lives smack damn in the middle of nowhere...in some swamp or wasteland, where everyone is out to get him...


good luck :yes:

on a serious note, stop trolling, how dafuq can u be "inexperienced" if you've had anal before? yeah right, i bet my right ball ,you are full of it.

WOW, what a sarcastic reply. And didn't I mention NO RUDE/OFFENSIVE comments?

1) I didn't started this thread to find a f*ck buddy here. I just needed some advice from people who did have that kind of arrangements before.

2) Actually, I'm not a virgin. I said I have little experience, not null experience.

3) I posted a similar thread on different forum. Guys were actually very helpful and nice albeit someone advised me here is a more appropriate place for my question. And one would imagine that forum about dating, etc. would be more open then previous place. Irony.

To those who are not cyber a**holes, I'm very interested in your views and experiences, so please contribute please

 

[foreverAFC]

Hi, im a 29 year old depressed pothead nihilist, i live at home and i like internet porn, ufos, and anthony michael hall movies from the 80s, wanna hang out ?

 

[BeDJ]

Dibs.

 

[Mike32ct]

Do it yourself projects are usually rated by difficulty:

1/2 wrench project -- Very easy

1 wrench project --easy

2 wrench project -- somewhat challenging

3 wrench project -- very challenging

4 wrench project -- forget it. Call a pro.

Anyway, a 23 yo female looking for a F-buddy is a ZERO wrench project lol. It can't possibly get easier than that.

Seriously, you are over-thinking this. I don't care what your experience is or what you look like. You can find a dude hot enough to b@ng on the reg.

How you go about it isn't critical. You don't need complicated "game" like a guy would. Men looking for sex are enormously forgiving. Just get your profile set up and get to it.

The difficulty is all in your head. You have no idea how easy you have it.

Plus, I think that you're looking at this from a female rather than a male perspective. An inexperienced guy is a turn off to most women. But a lot of men are turned on by an inexperienced female. Men do all the work in bed anyway.

The only time it's a problem is if you actually were a virgin. Then guys looking for casual sex might run because they don't want you to get attached. But as a non-virgin, you have nothing to worry about.

 

[R.C]

People here wanna get good with women but by some of the replies ,I swear , it's like you guys HATE THEIR FCVKING GUTS.


Anyway:

Inexperience:

Personally ,it's a turn on for me. Why ? I have no clue. It's like showing a friend a funny video that he didn't see yet. I'm just fcvking enthusiastic about it.

It doesn't really come down to inexperience/experience , but to willingness / unwillingness. It's ok if you're 'new to this' , it's not ok if you half-as$ it. No one wants to feel like they're dragging you around. You gotta have fun.



How hot do you have to be ?



You're putting yourself out for sex.What do you think ? That's common sense. As hot as you possibly can imagine.

What do you mean by 'decent' person ? Good looking or not-a-jacka$s-prick ? Whatever the answer , be hot. Lingerie.As far as your face goes , I'd obviously prefer to see it. Covering it will just make me think you're a 50 year old gay guy looking for an easy rape.



*******s:

Ok,I know you said you're innexperience but come on...a ******* with a condom on ? First off , what's the point of giving a ******* if you're only gonna chug on latex ? You'd honestly give him a better time if you gave him a ******* over his boxers , if that makes any sense. Just picture yourself getting oral over a plastic bag. Why would you even want that ?

Don't start with the 'I dont like giving bjs'. You do. It's sexy and you know it. Or maybe you just had disgusting exes.Regardless, don't go around with a stuck-up unwillingness to try new stuff. Like I said before , unwillingness is a deal-breaker.Be open to it.


Although I tried to answer your questions , I do think you're overstressing over this. It should be fun , so think what fun is to you , and go from there.

 

[Naozumie]

I'm happy I joined this site. I get information on how to become a better person, and now we have woman offering themselves as f*ck buddies. Can I now get my complimentary bugatti as well?

 

[R.C]

Why ? Not like you can drive it :crackup:

 

[your shyness]

People here wanna get good with women but by some of the replies ,I swear , it's like you guys HATE THEIR FCVKING GUTS.


Anyway:

Inexperience:

Personally ,it's a turn on for me. Why ? I have no clue. It's like showing a friend a funny video that he didn't see yet. I'm just fcvking enthusiastic about it.

It doesn't really come down to inexperience/experience , but to willingness / unwillingness. It's ok if you're 'new to this' , it's not ok if you half-as$ it. No one wants to feel like they're dragging you around. You gotta have fun.



How hot do you have to be ?



You're putting yourself out for sex.What do you think ? That's common sense. As hot as you possibly can imagine.

What do you mean by 'decent' person ? Good looking or not-a-jacka$s-prick ? Whatever the answer , be hot. Lingerie.As far as your face goes , I'd obviously prefer to see it. Covering it will just make me think you're a 50 year old gay guy looking for an easy rape.



*******s:

Ok,I know you said you're innexperience but come on...a ******* with a condom on ? First off , what's the point of giving a ******* if you're only gonna chug on latex ? You'd honestly give him a better time if you gave him a ******* over his boxers , if that makes any sense. Just picture yourself getting oral over a plastic bag. Why would you even want that ?

Don't start with the 'I dont like giving bjs'. You do. It's sexy and you know it. Or maybe you just had disgusting exes.Regardless, don't go around with a stuck-up unwillingness to try new stuff. Like I said before , unwillingness is a deal-breaker.Be open to it.


Although I tried to answer your questions , I do think you're overstressing over this. It should be fun , so think what fun is to you , and go from there.

Good to know that little experience can be a turn on hahaha And by 'decent' I meant not a prick/douchebag/******* to have a good sex with
So how do you protect yourself from STI then? And I mean it, I need to know. With previous guys I slept a few times with I didn't do anything that put me at risk. That included no BJ. One was completely fine with it, never pressurised or anything. We just didn't have oral sex. I tried once but was so bored that stopped quickly. The other guy would always pressurised. At some point I wanted to agree to just at the end bite his d*ck so hard he would have a lesson for future. And yes, I really hate it. I get tremendously bored, hence gradually turned off if I have to do it for some time. What about handjob instead?

Thank you R.C. and Mike32ct. You were the only people who answered.

 

[your shyness]

I don't know why my previous post is not here.
R.C., Mike32ct, Amante Silvestre thanks for your answers.

@ Amante You're very helpful. Safe sex is important to me so tips about that in f*ck buddy arrangements are very welcome. re anal, really? I asked some girlfriends around and some enjoy it. hehe i'm one of those women who don't scream by p*ssy eating. I have rather unusual part of my body that can give intense feeling if one knows about it.

@ R.C. Really BJ is not a turn on for me. MAybe i don't dislike it, but I dont find it exciting neither, rather boring and not the thing I'd start with usually.

@Naozumie You would rather have to focus on becoming a person who can read adequately. Women don't like dumb guys who can't read with understanding.

 

[bugsy]

why don't you pick one of the afc/nice guys around you? they are willing to be your **** buddy, just be straight forward with it!

oh btw you must be willing to do anything....that will turn most men on...

 

[KISSME44]

Inexperience is a turn on, particularly for older guys. However, I wouldn't post that in your ad only because it will attract a lot of scumbag types. You inbox is going to be flooded as it is, there's no need to add anything like this to increase the wrong type of men. Instead, aim for an older guy in your ad. Decide on an age range you'd be comfortable with and post it as a requirement without explaining why until your talking privately. I would say late 20s the youngest, 30s even better.

Most guys relax their standards on looks when it comes to a f-buddy situation, again, particularly the older guys. So long as you keep yourself clean (shave everything), tight (no loose,sloppy clothes) and cute/pretty as can be, you'll be fine.

Post an everday pic, but one that shows some cleavage or curves. A sexy/slutty pic will only attract more pervs and a-holes. Showing your face is just a matter of personal preference. If you're cool with it then do it. If not, then don't.

*******s: flavored condoms are available as one option. Asking the guy to get a clean bill of health from his doc is another (which shouldn't be a problem if the reward for doing so is a f-buddy and *******s).

Anal: no woman actually likes it, and one or two times doing it is the wrong time to decide never again because it becomes less uncomfotable the more you do it. If you really don't want to do it, then fine, but I wouldn't slam the door shut and decare it to the world based on your first experience with it.

Bottom line, keep your ad simple and clean. Think about what you really want to be instructed in. If you want to be very good in bed, that's going to require making the man happy. If the idea is to mainly please you, then you should be the one instructing instead.

Either way, I would advise that once you narrow down your candidates and select a guy, start off by having him eating your p*ssy. If you're not cumming hard and pushing him away because you can't tolerate the sensation within 5 minutes, he isn't as experienced as he claims to be. You'll just be bending over for a guy who is only there to get HIS rocks off.

Anal: no woman likes it??? Think again...

 

[Bokanovsky]

People here wanna get good with women but by some of the replies ,I swear , it's like you guys HATE THEIR FCVKING GUTS.

By reading your reply, it's obvious that you are a very naive young man who can't spot an obvious troll.

 

[your shyness]

why don't you pick one of the afc/nice guys around you? they are willing to be your **** buddy, just be straight forward with it!

oh btw you must be willing to do anything....that will turn most men on...

What's afc?
I can't be straightforward with that, I don't have enough courage for that. I prefer to find online for that reason and because I was kind of 'seeing' a guy with quite unclear situations and parted on bad terms because of that. I want to avoid that in a future.

 

[your shyness]

By reading your reply, it's obvious that you are a very naive young man who can't spot an obvious troll.

Neither do you! Cyber bully. I don't get why people who don't want help have a desire to post just to call someone a troll? Attention seeking? Do you need some kind of validation of own superiority and expertise over others? Have class and keep your assumptions to yourself if you cannot prove them. :kick:

 

[Zion]

By reading your reply, it's obvious that you are a very naive young man who can't spot an obvious troll.

I don't think it's a troll. What would be the purpose ? She seems legit.

Anyway , you got some advice already , but as RC pointed out what it all comes down to is being willing to do stuff. And most importantly , having fun with it.

Most guys will feel more secure around an inexperienced woman cuz they don't get performance anxiety.Few things willshatter a guys ego more than being told he sucks in bed.

 

[Ronaldo7]

What a complete idiot.