callmej said:
I have a recent failure with a woman that I was really into and she was too for couple of month, I was very beta with her and she always responded positively, but now I am thinking maybe it's because of that, that's why she lost interest and starting acting distant and flaking, maybe she liked me being beta at first and then got bored of it, maybe it's because I didn't make her feel a range of emotions...
The question is, how do you engage different emotions ? What do you guys normally say or do ?
Thanks in advance.
Good question. Well a couple things women like are drama & violence. Think about that. I sometimes find myself thinking I know what I need to be to attract women i.e I could be violent.
We know that the boxer who rides a motorbike & causes scenes with his masculine friends whilst getting drunk is gonna trigger a couple of the emotions women like to feel
drama & violence Food for thought callmej. You could change yourself into this guy, but I personally haven't chosen that path. I work long hours, im paying a mortgage & work in security so I cannot get into trouble with the police
so i think the badboy lifestyle is not for me. I am always working on my game, reading, coming on here, approaching women etc etc trying to be the best I can be.
The most important thing is
what do you want? A relationship? Different women all the time? That's the most important thing. Remember that.