My fellow DJs, as you saved me before, I hope that you can save me this difficult time.
I am really in love with a woman. She is beautiful, charming, challenge, unpredictable and strong. She used to be treating like a queen by the other guys and when we met she was in very high pedestal. She was expecting from me to take her crabby behavior. Fortunately, I am DJ-Bible in practice naturally which makes me funny, charming, challenge, unpredictable, picky and unbelievably strong. In other words, I practice DJ teachings religiously. THANKS AGAIN.
This is what happened between us.
We are in a same college and we both felled in love mutually. We know each other about two years and we fought two times. The first night we went out, she talked about her boyfriend and asked me to go her out again. I said ok, but I didn’t show up the date. Moreover, I cancelled 3 other dates because I was showing her that I am not wasting my precious time with a girl who has a boyfriend.
Next semester, she came back to me and we dated again. She asked me to take same classes together and I accepted. We registered three classes together and before the semester starts, I tried to kiss her and she refused. Therefore, I dropped all the classes without telling her. She shocked and she asked me what happened. I told her that I am still in the classes (whatever). And we ignored each other and just said “hi.”
Next semester, we see each other again. She came to me and talked to me. We dated and she doesn’t want to kiss again. Our challenges and games lead us to break up again. However, the last break up which was my idea, I decided to move on with my life and keep dating the other girls. We don’t call each other about 2 months. I missed her allot but, believe me, I didn’t call her nor did I contact with her.
Her sister called me a month after we broke up and asked me to go out with them and I accepted. I told her to let me know when they have time. Her sister didn’t call me back and I didn’t call them.
After, 3 and half months later, which is totally 5 months and half, her sister called me and arranged us to talk to each other. We did talk on the phone several times. She told me that she has been through so much depression because she lost her school, her job and she owns 3000 dollars her credit card company.
Now, I am seeing two other women whom I share everything with. I am intimate with them. But I as I told you, I am too way picky. Both women that I am dating now are, somehow, not enough for me. In other words, I don’t have any feelings for them. But this other girl, I am really in love with her. Not because of her challenge, I think. But because she got everything am looking for a women.
The only problem that we fight is: I didn’t give her assurance of that I want to be with her. In other words, I didn’t ask her to “be together” or whatsoever. And I believe that is what she wants to hear from me in order to be sure of me.
The irony is that I talked to other women about “getting together” after I realized that they are into me. But this girl that I am in love with, something holds me back to not to talk about anything like “getting together” with her.
Question: Now, since she asked me to take same classes with her upcoming summer semester and even the fall semester. I am thinking to talk to her about “let us get together” because I want to end this sh1t the games. I want her to make her mind. Either “get to gather” or leave each other alone.
DJs, why is she comes back to me every time after I treated her so bad?...is it love? I didn’t even tell the whole story of how I treat her emotionally bad.
What do you thing DJs? What should I do? Any suggestions?
THANK YOU IN ADVANCE
I am really in love with a woman. She is beautiful, charming, challenge, unpredictable and strong. She used to be treating like a queen by the other guys and when we met she was in very high pedestal. She was expecting from me to take her crabby behavior. Fortunately, I am DJ-Bible in practice naturally which makes me funny, charming, challenge, unpredictable, picky and unbelievably strong. In other words, I practice DJ teachings religiously. THANKS AGAIN.
This is what happened between us.
We are in a same college and we both felled in love mutually. We know each other about two years and we fought two times. The first night we went out, she talked about her boyfriend and asked me to go her out again. I said ok, but I didn’t show up the date. Moreover, I cancelled 3 other dates because I was showing her that I am not wasting my precious time with a girl who has a boyfriend.
Next semester, she came back to me and we dated again. She asked me to take same classes together and I accepted. We registered three classes together and before the semester starts, I tried to kiss her and she refused. Therefore, I dropped all the classes without telling her. She shocked and she asked me what happened. I told her that I am still in the classes (whatever). And we ignored each other and just said “hi.”
Next semester, we see each other again. She came to me and talked to me. We dated and she doesn’t want to kiss again. Our challenges and games lead us to break up again. However, the last break up which was my idea, I decided to move on with my life and keep dating the other girls. We don’t call each other about 2 months. I missed her allot but, believe me, I didn’t call her nor did I contact with her.
Her sister called me a month after we broke up and asked me to go out with them and I accepted. I told her to let me know when they have time. Her sister didn’t call me back and I didn’t call them.
After, 3 and half months later, which is totally 5 months and half, her sister called me and arranged us to talk to each other. We did talk on the phone several times. She told me that she has been through so much depression because she lost her school, her job and she owns 3000 dollars her credit card company.
Now, I am seeing two other women whom I share everything with. I am intimate with them. But I as I told you, I am too way picky. Both women that I am dating now are, somehow, not enough for me. In other words, I don’t have any feelings for them. But this other girl, I am really in love with her. Not because of her challenge, I think. But because she got everything am looking for a women.
The only problem that we fight is: I didn’t give her assurance of that I want to be with her. In other words, I didn’t ask her to “be together” or whatsoever. And I believe that is what she wants to hear from me in order to be sure of me.
The irony is that I talked to other women about “getting together” after I realized that they are into me. But this girl that I am in love with, something holds me back to not to talk about anything like “getting together” with her.
Question: Now, since she asked me to take same classes with her upcoming summer semester and even the fall semester. I am thinking to talk to her about “let us get together” because I want to end this sh1t the games. I want her to make her mind. Either “get to gather” or leave each other alone.
DJs, why is she comes back to me every time after I treated her so bad?...is it love? I didn’t even tell the whole story of how I treat her emotionally bad.
What do you thing DJs? What should I do? Any suggestions?
THANK YOU IN ADVANCE
