I have two questions:
ONE: My friend is a total AFC. COMPLETELY. Just believe me on this one. I’ve been studying seduction for years and this is a very accurate definition of my friend John.
Have you guys noticed how it is nearly impossible to talk sense to a guy who has no clue about this DJ stuff, or women in general? A guy who is too stubborn to change their mind? A guy who is so completely wrapped up in the MYTHS of how things “should be” with women that they are unable to see a different perspective or change their behavior at all? How do you guys talk sense to a guy who is completely clueless and close-minded? I really want to help my friend out.
TWO: I happen to be around my friend John a lot and he gives off the WORST AFC vibes. However, John happens to know A LOT of hot girls. They, of course, think he is a GREAT friend, but he never gets laid, EVER, and is COMPLETELY frustrated.
My problem is, when I meet these hot girls he knows, and they find out I’m John’s friend, they seem to just TURN OFF on me–like it’s some sort of disease to be associated with my friend. They IMMEDIATELY act like I’m just another AFC as well, just like my friend, and I almost cease to exist. It’s that bad. THIS IS REAL, I SWEAR. There is no avoiding this situation because I’m not about to act like I don’t know my friend, just to get a woman.
Do you guys have any advice on how to most effectively deal with this type of situation?
ONE: My friend is a total AFC. COMPLETELY. Just believe me on this one. I’ve been studying seduction for years and this is a very accurate definition of my friend John.
Have you guys noticed how it is nearly impossible to talk sense to a guy who has no clue about this DJ stuff, or women in general? A guy who is too stubborn to change their mind? A guy who is so completely wrapped up in the MYTHS of how things “should be” with women that they are unable to see a different perspective or change their behavior at all? How do you guys talk sense to a guy who is completely clueless and close-minded? I really want to help my friend out.
TWO: I happen to be around my friend John a lot and he gives off the WORST AFC vibes. However, John happens to know A LOT of hot girls. They, of course, think he is a GREAT friend, but he never gets laid, EVER, and is COMPLETELY frustrated.
My problem is, when I meet these hot girls he knows, and they find out I’m John’s friend, they seem to just TURN OFF on me–like it’s some sort of disease to be associated with my friend. They IMMEDIATELY act like I’m just another AFC as well, just like my friend, and I almost cease to exist. It’s that bad. THIS IS REAL, I SWEAR. There is no avoiding this situation because I’m not about to act like I don’t know my friend, just to get a woman.
Do you guys have any advice on how to most effectively deal with this type of situation?