Sometime overanalysing lead us to see the wrong side, and then think only about the negative... be happy of the positive thing you did, "try to not be too much influenced by the rest" else it will reflect in your attitude torward her from now on and you will be automaticelly NEXT'ed and that is by yourself!!!
Also, people often say to not focus on only one chick, even if we can't help it... focus on other stuff, and other chicks ;-) Also lower down your "expectation"... you somehow "forced her" to make a choice that it will be monday X time while it was the first time you talked to her, agressivity is good but sometime it does not work... especially if she is the kind to be gentle and have strong attachement to the people around her, she mights just be of the kind that is hard to approach, but once you are in her circle, you are in for real, know what I am saying? I even have very good friend who are like that and I had the same thought at first while first beginning a friendship with those people (after all, all relation are similar) and I am (mostly was) like that too... so I know you should not feel bad for those kind of reaction, even thought if she agrees for something, I won't respect her for letting me leave.
So now, either you act like an AFC, or either you enjoy your relation with her... meaning don't try to waste too much time thinking of the strategy, etc. but just live it, when it is time to live it. Do not ask her to just chill out... maybe after class, ask her to go eat and to bring her friend, that it will be quite cool if you can meet more... and say it clearly... I do not want to be a little dog, but I was dead serious when I wanted to meet you, I felt you had the same feeling, I hope I was not wrong... but mix that with a sense of humour beside go too deep about your "feeling"... make it honnest, but make it sound fun and make her say, OK NICE JOB yankee, you deserve to know more.
I think of funky stuff, like make a deal with her, to be able to ask her one question at less each week and she is forced to answer, and the same for you... but that is just something crazy I thought right now... ;-)
And someone who said thing about keeping a mystery... it ****ing works... sometime less you show, more it works... and more the girls and anyone else, is interested in that ****ing mysterious guy ;-)
Also, people often say to not focus on only one chick, even if we can't help it... focus on other stuff, and other chicks ;-) Also lower down your "expectation"... you somehow "forced her" to make a choice that it will be monday X time while it was the first time you talked to her, agressivity is good but sometime it does not work... especially if she is the kind to be gentle and have strong attachement to the people around her, she mights just be of the kind that is hard to approach, but once you are in her circle, you are in for real, know what I am saying? I even have very good friend who are like that and I had the same thought at first while first beginning a friendship with those people (after all, all relation are similar) and I am (mostly was) like that too... so I know you should not feel bad for those kind of reaction, even thought if she agrees for something, I won't respect her for letting me leave.
So now, either you act like an AFC, or either you enjoy your relation with her... meaning don't try to waste too much time thinking of the strategy, etc. but just live it, when it is time to live it. Do not ask her to just chill out... maybe after class, ask her to go eat and to bring her friend, that it will be quite cool if you can meet more... and say it clearly... I do not want to be a little dog, but I was dead serious when I wanted to meet you, I felt you had the same feeling, I hope I was not wrong... but mix that with a sense of humour beside go too deep about your "feeling"... make it honnest, but make it sound fun and make her say, OK NICE JOB yankee, you deserve to know more.
I think of funky stuff, like make a deal with her, to be able to ask her one question at less each week and she is forced to answer, and the same for you... but that is just something crazy I thought right now... ;-)
And someone who said thing about keeping a mystery... it ****ing works... sometime less you show, more it works... and more the girls and anyone else, is interested in that ****ing mysterious guy ;-)