How to deal with her?

[yankees13]

I recently started liking this girl in my Travel Law class, I THINK she may like me too but im not sure, she seems pretty much shy maybe even more than me.

I guess she pretty much knows i like her because last week i saw her and another friend walking out from building, and i was chillin with my boy, so i was just checking her out and i guess she noticed it. Then she was little farther i pointed her out to my boy, and unfortunately at the same time i was pointing at her, she turned around and saw me doing that , so i still kept looking and she turned around again couple more times, and did some funny little dance to her friend.

Some of you might say sit next to her in class but thats not really possible,no seats available and we pretty much stay in same seats throughout semester. The only time we sat next to each other was during a test like last month, she sat next to me, looked at me once, and i looked at her and then to my suprise she asked me "If studied? I responded no i fell asleep studying blah blah etc etc":..

So i dont really know what to do.. Any suggestions? It seems like she is into her own world not in a bad way but she minds her own business chills just with the 1 friend i saw her with..Helps guys any suggestion will help..

 

[yankees13]

Also, this girl aint really a 10, ordinary person would grade her i guess like a 7/7.5.. But im really feeling her, there are some people you just fall for no matter what your friends think of her

 

[stevek1977]

try talking to her, it works wonders.

 

[yankees13]

Oh really? I should of thought of that earlier before i posted, it aint that easy stevek, but maybe you can offer some suggestions how to start

 

[Porky]

You: Hey, I'm yankees.
Her: I'm HB7.5.

Oh my god! A CONVERSATION!

 

[yankees13]

No seriously, can some of you post something better than that

 

[Jet Jockey]

OK OK, you asked, so you shall recieve....


Ok first She likes you dude! That little dance was her, letting her friend know you finally noticed her! Either that, or her panties were crawling up her crotch. LOL

Sooo you need to turn up the heat here or kiss it goodbye!

Catch her after class. Tell her "I could always use more resources to study .. and you seem cool, can i have your number"? (remember the girl is shy...) here, let me give you mine..produce paper and pen and write yours down..hand it to her. Women for some reason, feel OBLIGATED to give you there number if you give them yours. I have proved this time and time and time again.Ok, so you say thanks, smile maybe make a little small talk. About whatever is current events..etc.

wait 2 or 3 days, and call her. have a question pertaining to class. Say, I think I missed out on these notes for some reason. let her fill you in, blah blah blah, then switch things on her. tell her, you had plans for this weekend, but they sorta fell thru.. and i have noticed you in class.. You seem cool...wanna do something?

She'll no doubt say, let me get back to you or whatever. Say well, let me know by (name a day 2 or 3 days ahead of the time you'll meet. ) Tell her to give you a call. Most likely she will. If she is interested in you at all, she will. When she does, say, well i thought you'd callbefore now, a friend of mine wanted to do something but it was still in the air... ( she'll either close the deal or not) If she says some BS like i don't know i gotta brush my goldfishes teeth this weekend, then you simply say, thats kewl (her interest level ain't high enough yet) My friend and i will probably go out anyways. If she says ok, sure what would you like to do..have a plan!

What you need to do is see if she is just shy, or playing with ya. From the sounds of it, she is waiting on you to make the first move and she is going to accept. Funny dance? You bet! hope this helps.

 

[Big Pappy]

gauging interest level

Here's my opinion, nothing more.

That girl doing the little dance, she was putting on a show for you. She was probably wondering why you've been clocking her all semester and haven't done squat.

We each have our own personalities. She will be no different.
Seems to me that every other guy in class will talk about something you have in common -- you've got the same professor and the same class. You can follow this line or come up with something new.

She has a friend, right? If it's a guy, talk to him first about the class. There may be an opportunity there. Otherwise, I'd just walk up to her and say hi. The way you tell it, every time you're looking at her, she's looking at you.

Some might tell you about a 3 second rule. In some settings, maybe. In others, moving that fast reeks of desperation. With each girl it'll be different.

Studying with chicks you dig, in my opinion, can only be recommended in very, very tough classes. The baptism of fire that you two will go through will provide a bond between you. I had a study buddy who got pretty horny after a couple of celebratory margaritas! I swear, sometimes I don't even see these chicks coming! Now, after every tough test, we go get plastered and sometimes booty, sometimes not. Just kind of depends on how close to the end of her cycle she is, I guess. (Or maybe her sobriety level)

I recommend being a bit bold and just talking to her and learning her name. Tell her that you might miss a class next week and get her number. If she is agreeable after you get the notes, offer to buy her a beer at your local pizzaria.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I don't agree with Jet Jockey at all!!

Your interested in bangin' this chick not studying with her!! Your a man, don't mask your intentions behind some lame excuse like studying.

Since you said the seating arrangement is more or less hard to change, catch her after class. Its probably better this way anyway, sitting by eachother every class would make things get boring real quick if you start hanging out with her outside of class!!

Here's what I'd say:

Waiting after class

Me: Excuse me, I noticed you today and really wanted to meet you. (smile)
Her: Oh (blush blush) that's so sweet.

That should get your foot in the door for a casual conversation. Gauge her interest level in you and see where it goes. Its not absolutely necessary to number close her right there. Actually I'd probably recommend just talkin' with her and then seeing how she reacts to you in the following few class sessions. If she makes an effort to talk to you or even say "hi" then go in for the kill.




PIMP

 

[CaptainObvious#1]

Originally posted by yankees13
No seriously, can some of you post something better than that

I'm afraid that's as good as it gets. You see, if we sit here holding your hand through every encounter you have with a woman you will be no better then when you started.
As it has been stated so many times on this board, GROW A PAIR!

 

[yankees13]

Thanks pimp, pappy and jocky, thats the kind of advice i was looking for

 

[CaptainObvious#1]

All they did was tell you to go talk to her. Is it really THAT hard to figure out what to say?
Did you even read the bible?
There's a link at the top of the page if you have yet to read it.

I bet you're mother still dresses you in the morning too

 

[yankees13]

No see Cap, they did something more than just tell me to go talk to her, they gave me their thoughts on whats going on, it doesnt mean they are right, but at least they provided their insight on what they think

 

[yankees13]

Well just an update.

Today my friend informed that he talked to her for me, well not literraly telling her i like her, but he told me they saw each other on the train, and he basicallly told her "i think my boy likes you, i think he gonna talk to you" I was kind of pissed at him because i didnt want any help but then i realized he just told her his opinion its not like he said my boy likes you and wants to get with you, so i cant complain.... But now i know why she was looking at me the whole week.

But anyways today i made my move, and it worked, this is how it went.

Saw her and her friend coming out, and i jumped like a tiger on them lol. Introduced myself it was funny though because i had both hands in my jacket pockets and right arm holding my notebook because it was really cold. So i took my left hand out and she came with her right hand so our handshake seemed okward. So i told her make up your mind which hand do you wanna shake She laughed.. I told her ive had my eye on her the whole semester and i wanted to get to know her. She then giggled and said you are lying, then i was like why would i lie its true. Then i was like how bout we chill Monday after class, she said what time? I said after class when we get out at 2, 2 second break and she smiled and said yea ok, or yes sure i dont remember. Then i was like Ok then i see you Monday, and then she introduced me to her friend, and asked me what was your name again. I responsed i just told you like a minute ago and you already dont remember damn. She smiled, and said im sorry ( i dont blame her for not remembering my name i dont remember my own friends name sometimes).. And thats it.

Overall i was very confident, maybe because my friends were outside with me. I dont know why, but i have much easier time hittin on girls when i have friends around me hanging out with me. Why i dont know.. I think i did good, but maybe i was too of smart ass, but i guess not since she laughed, and giggled. Opinions please what i did wrong? If anything?

 

[yankees13]

UPDATE

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[PuertoRican_Lover]

good approach - she liked your smart-ass attitude thats y she giggled - as long as u dont overuse it - get her number when u see her - maybe u should thank your friend for making it easier for u - hold off on that thanks though - she might b a psycho ho or worst yet just a "friend"!

 

[vdk]

hmm..one thing I wouldve done there is not to tell her your name until the date!! it's called MYSTERY!!! If she asks for your name just smile, turn around and walk away.

Then during the date you can play this 'game' where she tries to understand you but she cant cause you wont let her. It will drive her nuts.

 

[yankees13]

Aight thanks, thats a good idea. If she doesnt remember my name on Monday im gonna play games with her, get her more loose and comfortable. What a coincidence PuertoRicanlover responsed and she is Puerto Rican . But anyways my goals on Monday are to get her more comfortable with me which i dont think will be heard because i can tell we clicked right away. Hopefully pull of some Kino, and a kiss.

 

[yankees13]

What did go wrong?!

Feel kind of pissed, but on other hand do not care.. I kind of got played i think, unless something changes.. Went to class she was late she came in like 25 min later. So i waited till class ends, and she just bounces without saying a word i was like WTF we agreed Monday after class. So i didnt chase her i went to talk to my boy who im working on a project outside the class we had to confirm somethings.

So i walk out thinking she is outside waiting for me, but she wasnt so i walk to another building, where her and her friend always chill. I walk up to her and i say what happened you forgot, we supposed to chill, and you just left like that. She said im sorry i had to run to get my friend we are gonna go eat (Both of them always go eat after class). So im thinking in my head well if you cared you wanted to keep your promise you would say do you wanna come with us. So i tell her when we gonna chill then? She says I dont want to tell you a specific time, day and then not go, i will let you know when though... I know what that meant.

So guys what happened besides the obvious. Why did it happen? If you read previous post it seemed she was interested, i mean when my friend told her "i think he will talk to u soon, she giggled and didnt seem to have any objections, and she said im cute" If she wasnt interested AT ALL she would of probably told him well he can talk to me but i gotta man or some other excuse.

I was also thinking maybe she meant what she said. She didnt want to ditch her friend (they are best friends they are always together) to chill with me, and she simply will get back to me when her friend is absent or whatever. But kind of rude to agree with me for Monday at 2, and then tell me this... I know im overanalyzing things but i was %100 sure we would hang out, because i senses good vibe between us, and she had no problems to agree on things... Opinion guys please.. Thanks

 

[yankees13]

Anyone? With any thoughts on this