Ok so here's the deal. My girlfriend of 8 or 9 months has guy friends. Not a huge deal, but sometimes she flirts with them infront of me. Now I have DJ'ed this relationship right, always took the lead, took control, and, as she has mentioned lately, am the only one who isn't too intimidated by her to tell her "no", and so I really have no worry that she would lose interest or cheat. Also, she knows that I could have another girl if I wanted and would beg me to stay if I told her I was going to leave.
I am just wondering how to act when she flirts with guys right infront of me. These guys are all my friends. She has even said "I love you" to one or two of these guys in front of me. The worst is one of my friends, who used to be my best friend a year or two ago, and is now her best guy friend. They talk all the time about feelings or watever (this guys kinda an emotional beta), and text each other more than she and I do (my fault I'm not really a texter and she has accepted this).
The way I have dealt with this for our relationship so far is not let it effect me and told her that she can be friends with whoever she wants. Its just lately her relationships with my guy friends especially my old best friend has started to get under my skin. Do I confront her or keep up the unnefected attitude?
I am just wondering how to act when she flirts with guys right infront of me. These guys are all my friends. She has even said "I love you" to one or two of these guys in front of me. The worst is one of my friends, who used to be my best friend a year or two ago, and is now her best guy friend. They talk all the time about feelings or watever (this guys kinda an emotional beta), and text each other more than she and I do (my fault I'm not really a texter and she has accepted this).
The way I have dealt with this for our relationship so far is not let it effect me and told her that she can be friends with whoever she wants. Its just lately her relationships with my guy friends especially my old best friend has started to get under my skin. Do I confront her or keep up the unnefected attitude?