Hi Alphas,
New here, wanted a quick insight into how to deal with getting back with an ex who broke up with me after she found out I had drunkenly kissed another girl on a night out 2 months ago.
Bit of background:
-Dated this girl for a year
-Last year I dropped a lot of weight, obtained masculine body shape & started attracting a lot more women than what I was used to. (Queue my ego boost)
-Got revenge sex with an ex that broke my heart when I was a chubby
-Was dating this girl at the time, she found out. We made up with promise of change. (She knew I stayed the night never found out about actual seckz)
-Went on a night out with the guys about 4 months later, they were pier pressuring me into drinking more & doing more shots by saying "awww you're under the thumb now, you used to be such a party animal!" etc.
-Ended up making out with hotbabe in club, was that drunk I cannot remember. Gf walked in same club & spotted us sitting together. Didn't see kiss.
-Patched **** up with gf next day sober, asked if I had kissed her I said no.
-3 days later, I speak to one of my guy friends he tells me I did kiss her, I don't tell my gf.
-2 Months later, best friend of hot club babe who wasn't there that night goes out of her way to message my gf to say I had kissed her friend that night. Gf doesn't believe her.
-1 week later same girl (dunno why this ***** has it out for me so much lol) tells the same **** to my gfs best friend on a night out. Gf confronts me about it claiming to have proof from girl I kissed saying it happened. (Never actually shown to me so I call bs)
-The response I give is "well I was told I was getting close with her but I was so absurdly drunk that night I cannot remember anything." (This is the line I used when we patched **** up originally & I specifically told her I would stop getting that drunk for the time being which I have & I also said to her I cannot be trusted when that wasted.)
End result is she is done with the relationship & doesn't want anything to do with me.
Some of you might ask why I want her back after doing these things, truthfully I do have feelings for her & want to give the relationship a proper go I just needed to get out of my childish drunken ways & it took me a while.
Passed 2 months you could describe my behaviour as beta ***** boy, no lies about that purely from feeling guilty from said night & wanting to prove that my nights out were not taking priority.
Advice plz ?
New here, wanted a quick insight into how to deal with getting back with an ex who broke up with me after she found out I had drunkenly kissed another girl on a night out 2 months ago.
Bit of background:
-Dated this girl for a year
-Last year I dropped a lot of weight, obtained masculine body shape & started attracting a lot more women than what I was used to. (Queue my ego boost)
-Got revenge sex with an ex that broke my heart when I was a chubby
-Was dating this girl at the time, she found out. We made up with promise of change. (She knew I stayed the night never found out about actual seckz)
-Went on a night out with the guys about 4 months later, they were pier pressuring me into drinking more & doing more shots by saying "awww you're under the thumb now, you used to be such a party animal!" etc.
-Ended up making out with hotbabe in club, was that drunk I cannot remember. Gf walked in same club & spotted us sitting together. Didn't see kiss.
-Patched **** up with gf next day sober, asked if I had kissed her I said no.
-3 days later, I speak to one of my guy friends he tells me I did kiss her, I don't tell my gf.
-2 Months later, best friend of hot club babe who wasn't there that night goes out of her way to message my gf to say I had kissed her friend that night. Gf doesn't believe her.
-1 week later same girl (dunno why this ***** has it out for me so much lol) tells the same **** to my gfs best friend on a night out. Gf confronts me about it claiming to have proof from girl I kissed saying it happened. (Never actually shown to me so I call bs)
-The response I give is "well I was told I was getting close with her but I was so absurdly drunk that night I cannot remember anything." (This is the line I used when we patched **** up originally & I specifically told her I would stop getting that drunk for the time being which I have & I also said to her I cannot be trusted when that wasted.)
End result is she is done with the relationship & doesn't want anything to do with me.
Some of you might ask why I want her back after doing these things, truthfully I do have feelings for her & want to give the relationship a proper go I just needed to get out of my childish drunken ways & it took me a while.
Passed 2 months you could describe my behaviour as beta ***** boy, no lies about that purely from feeling guilty from said night & wanting to prove that my nights out were not taking priority.
Advice plz ?
