How to close a deal in 1 minute?

[Chamber36]

Alright so i work in this bar/club, at the wardrobe. Which means i get about 1 minute to talk to nearly every girl in the club.

Now i see about 3 girls that make my mouth water every saturday night.

I'm a very sociable guy, it's just that i'm too nice. Told this 1 girl today she wasnt blond enough, or i woulda hung up her jacket sooner, hurt me on the inside.... but i could tell she was craving for attention already.

If i see a HB9, most i can get out of me is a: "where are you from?" in the meantime i'll be wondering how i'm gonna get her number... I can never come up with anything.So i just wish them a good night. Remember all i get is about 30 seconds, 1 minute max.(I work very quickly)

I'm very much driven by my urges. I'd like to just ask a girl for her number cuz we both know we want each other, but i figure i'd need an excuse to call her, therefore i dont randomly ask for numbers.

I think im an incredibly hansome guy btw. i've got it all imho. 6 foot 2, long wavey hair, broad shoulders from kickboxing, perfect teeth. I cannot get any poon.




It just crossed my mind i have to somehow attract those girls when they hang up the jacket, so that they come back and talk to me before the club closes. Best would be if i close the deal in 30-60 seconds though.

Any Ideas???

 

[SharinganUser]

Get your bartending licsence.

 

[Chamber36]

they should be asking me for my number.
alot of girls act nice cuz they want me to help them quickly, that's why its hard for me to distinguish who to be nice to.

i've gotten numbers before btw so this is not a hopeless cause.

I was thinking i'd just try and talk as much as i could but also be judgemental about where they're from, even if they're HB9+. I'll just use stereotypes. I'm also not gonna pay much attention to women who are subpar anymore.

Last night i tried to do alot of eye contact, most of the HB's were digging it, some were not.

 

[Galactus]

Start flavoring your conversation with sexual innuendo. I don't mean "Hey, nice tits", more like "Damn Baby, you're rockin' that dress" or "Sweetheart, you gotta come back here later so I can make my move. 30 seconds ain't enough time" or whatever. Make sure she knows you desire her, but not as if you can't do without her. Be light, relaxed and aloof.

Do you help them on and off with their coats? Use that as an opportunity for kino.

Be bold, but not so bold you lose your job.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Get physical. Fast. And be bold. That's all there is to closing the deal fast.

 

[Blackmm]

Why are they only giving you 60 seconds? If they are feeling you, you won't have that time restraint on you.

 

[DanelMadr]

Go to the closest library and borrow a book called "Plastic surgery for Advanced surgeons" or something like that. And keep reading it while you are suppose to guard the coats. Let's make sure they can see the cover of your book.

Explanation:
If you are a pvssy you can look like greek god and still get nothing. Basically working in wardrobe is like being a b1tch, unless you are a medical student.
Get a decent job and stop relying on your good looks....with no other effort in balls departement you will catch on it only the weak, old,ugly
and fat.

 

[Chamber36]

Why are they only giving you 60 seconds? If they are feeling you, you won't have that time restraint on you.

I get an hour to hang up 200+ coats, maybe half an hour walking around the club clearing glasses, than i have to hand out 200 coats again. And in the mean time i wanna score some girls. that's what up.

I'm gonna do wat Galactus said tho. Done it before, just only 90%. I gotta give it 100%.

Go to the closest library and borrow a book called "Plastic surgery for Advanced surgeons" or something like that. And keep reading it while you are suppose to guard the coats. Let's make sure they can see the cover of your book.

Explanation:
If you are a pvssy you can look like greek god and still get nothing. Basically working in wardrobe is like being a b1tch, unless you are a medical student.
Get a decent job and stop relying on your good looks....with no other effort in balls departement you will catch on it only the weak, old,ugly
and fat.

dawg u dont know anything about me. I know i need balls, i got balls. I'm just looking for some tactics. Besides; what would u consider a decent job, Cleaner?

I'll let u guys know on sunday how things went.

 

[Nikoli]

I work in nightclubs now and then too so I feel yah about the tight time window(although a couple of minutes seems a bit extreme). I dj so sometimes I only have a couple minutes between the tracks to chat up a girl before I have to get back to the decks. The key when timing is tight like this is to build social value as quick as you can as this in my opinion is something that can instantly trigger attraction and help you build rapport quickly.

The key here is to focus on yourself and what talents you bring to the table. Do you have any hobbies or interests that your persuing outside the clookroom? Use these to hook in the girl if you do. Are you in a band or do anything artistic? For me it's my music and my passion for that. If you can chat her up about what you're up to you can hook a girl in very quickly to your frame.

Once you've found this then make up a business card for yourself with your email, number, and a website if your getting pretty advanced. Then it's easy to slip the girl a card and tell her to be in touch. This works well cause it weeds out the ones who are are flakey and have boyfriends and ensures those ones who have any real interest in you will make contact. It also gives them a couple different ways to be in touch with you. Plus the next morning when she can't remember half the night and who she may have given her number to, she'll find your card and you'll be on her mind as very different from the guys she can barely remember and the strange numbers on her phone.

Find your passion, work on your social value, get a card made, and then start tartgeting those ones your interested in. Not sure a girls gonna be too attracted to the guy working the coat check room, but a guy working the coat check while he works on his passions and inspirations is a very different stroy.


Good luck my friend.

N.




another great example in the nightclub scene is a promoter. Since you already work in a club this should be pretty easy for you. Try your hand and putting an event together on aa

 

[Chamber36]

I kickbox and jiu jitsu. But i dont wanna brag about it all the time. I've lived all over the world, and i plan to travel the world. I even have real estate in several countries. But what's the point to bragging about that before i even get to know a girl? I wanna keep the mystery alive.

And i'm pretty sure the girls objectify me, and i'm more attractive to them than the dudes who are going out and getting drunk, not only because im fcuking sexy, but because i have the power to decide who leaves the club first, or who has to stand in line for half an hour.

I gotta be real strict, calm and collected, cuz people get drunk, sniff coke, start getting aggressive and all sorts of stuff happens.

sometimes the girls are even like Mr.!! Mr!!! Can u help me PLEASE!!!!
I think it really turns them on when i'm pissed off at drunk guys.

 

[Credos]

Maybe try: "Hi, I'm Chamber36, I would like to get to know you better but I gotta work atm, gimme your number and we can hang out sometime *smiles-maintains eyecontact* "

 

[DanelMadr]

I get an hour to hang up 200+ coats, maybe half an hour walking around the club clearing glasses, than i have to hand out 200 coats again. And in the mean time i wanna score some girls. that's what up.

I'm gonna do wat Galactus said tho. Done it before, just only 90%. I gotta give it 100%.



dawg u dont know anything about me. I know i need balls, i got balls. I'm just looking for some tactics. Besides; what would u consider a decent job, Cleaner?

I'll let u guys know on sunday how things went.

No offence, mate. I just wanted to let you know that you have to be supercharming if you work as "nobody". Again, no offence. I'm not telling you, you suck but lots of people might think that and especially club girls who are hooked up on social status bs.

Just ask any girl you´fancy : "How was your night?" "No catch, tonight? Zou must be out of your form, lady." Just to make a chance to get her involved in conversation. Keep it sexy and funny...light flirting. And you will see her response.

Just start the conversation and Proceed as anywhere else. You will have more than 60 secondes if you snatch her interest. Actually it should be easier than on a street or shop.

 

[Nikoli]

What i'm talking about is not bragging but using your interests as the HOOK in the interaction. This HOOK does two things: Firstly, it helps creat instant attraction which is what you're looking for. Secondly, it gives them a reason to be in contact with you and continue the interaction.

You say you're into kickboxing and jiu jitsu. That's huge! Do you have regular fights/matches that are open to the public. If so maybe make up a flyer with the dates, location, and your contact details. Then you can get these hunnies coming to see you fight and if she does show up you know there's huge interest on her part. Also women are getting into self defense in a huge way so have you thought about maybe doing a weekly class or inviting them out to get into it? If your advanced enough you could be giving weekly lessons and just imagine the girsl that would start coming through your door!

The key here is to use your lifestyle and craft a way for women to be a part of it. Then instead of "picking up" girls you're actively involving them in your life. This differentiates you from every other chump and majorly increases your odds. It's a different approach but I think if you employ it right you'll see your success rate skyrocket.

N.

 

[squirrels]

Let me ask you something...how long do these "conversations" last?

I've never seen a coat-check at a bar or nightclub where girls are hanging out talking to the coat-check guy.

 

[Chamber36]

No offence, mate. I just wanted to let you know that you have to be supercharming if you work as "nobody". Again, no offence. I'm not telling you, you suck but lots of people might think that and especially club girls who are hooked up on social status bs.

Just ask any girl you´fancy : "How was your night?" "No catch, tonight? Zou must be out of your form, lady." Just to make a chance to get her involved in conversation. Keep it sexy and funny...light flirting. And you will see her response.

Just start the conversation and Proceed as anywhere else. You will have more than 60 secondes if you snatch her interest. Actually it should be easier than on a street or shop.

Nah, i work in one of the most respected clubs in the area. And I make alot of money. Dont have to wear uniform if i dont want to. I can drink and smoke during working hours. I talk to girls also while im smokin cigarettes.

But i like your idea, although it's only applicable to girls leaving hte club early.

I think it's a matter of mental preparation, and keeping my options open. There are plenty of roads that lead to Rome. I'll ask them if they wanna go out with me, since they didnt catch a man on the dancefloor/at the bar. If they say yea, THEN we'll exchange a number!

The biggest thing for me is that i'll have to give up my fear of coming off desperate. I'll have to take risks!

That doesnt mean i wanna do mma matches in the ring tho. I only do that for self defense.

And why is it so hard to imagine girls talking to the coat-check guy? If there was a hot girl hanging up coats wouldnt u go talk to her?? Some girls even say they will come back later and talk to me, they just usually forget. For a man it'll be easier to approach the coat check person though, because the approach is already an IOI(i'm talking about when the jackets are hung up already).

Also: i'm thinking some of them might come up with excuses, that they wanna put their mp3 player in their jacket, or take out some change or some bull****, to come talk to me. - Something I wouldnt come up with.

I wanna know the psychological role i should be playing. Since they're physically approaching the counter, I have the power to decide if i wish to engage in conversation, because the ward drobe is my domain.

So i suppose i should just flirt with them upon entry of the club, and initial interaction, when i hang up the jackets. I could convince them to come back and talk to me, albeit subconciously. I have all night to see who i like. Some of htem might bite and stick around and talk for a few minutes. I'll just have to be friendly, lean towards them on the counter, and obligingly invite them to drink on another occasion.

 

[DanelMadr]

Also: i'm thinking some of them might come up with excuses, that they wanna put their mp3 player in their jacket, or take out some change or some bull****, to come talk to me. - Something I wouldnt come up with.

I wanna know the psychological role i should be playing. Since they're physically approaching the counter, I have the power to decide if i wish to engage in conversation, because the ward drobe is my domain.

So i suppose i should just flirt with them upon entry of the club, and initial interaction, when i hang up the jackets. I could convince them to come back and talk to me, albeit subconciously. I have all night to see who i like. Some of htem might bite and stick around and talk for a few minutes. I'll just have to be friendly, lean towards them on the counter, and obligingly invite them to drink on another occasion.

S T O P right here. You are O V E R T H I N K I N G. Just say hi, flirt a bit, see their reaction. If you want to avoid rejection by analysing, preparing and overthinking, well, you are f@cked. It is only your fear of rejection or whatever speaking. Grab your balls and don't be afraid to receive some hard punches. If you want to compete in a ring, you should get used to the punches. There is no magic combo which let's you win without getting hit. Got it?

You will get publicly rejected, even laughed at, you will see some fingers or just embarassingly ignored. Especially with club b1tches. I have seen some really good looking guys, very charismatic getting shot down so badly, that I was feeling embarrased myself only seeing that. There is no avoiding that. You get through it stronger or you crumble. What are you made of?
Get rid of the little boy/ego inside.

 

[Alle_Gory]

If i see a HB9, most i can get out of me is a: "where are you from?" in the meantime i'll be wondering how i'm gonna get her number... I can never come up with anything.So i just wish them a good night. Remember all i get is about 30 seconds, 1 minute max.(I work very quickly)

Her: "Where you from?"

You: smart ass response, funny.

Her: *giggle*

You: "That's cute, I don't have time now but we can talk later, gimme your digits."


With the volume of women you have coming in, you should be scoring plenty of numbers which you can work on later.


etc.

Your problem isn't that you don't have the right excuse, your problem is that you NEED an excuse. If you can't come up with something smart or smooth to say, then go the direct route. But either way go for what you want, don't chicken out.

 

[saber]

dude. its a almost hopeless situation unless the girl hits on you.

No offense but no girl wants to come home to the guy who takes peoples coats at the door. If you try and hit on them you may become the sex starved/creepy coat guy.

Not saying you aren't a great catch because you sound like a good guy but its a bad circumstance. Hand write about 20 pieces of paper with your facebook contact info. Stuff them into their pockets and see if they add you later.

 

[Chamber36]

thx

hahaha

this is all pretty funny. Thought about it long enough. I decided work is where i should be concentrating on my work. If i happen to see a girl who falls in love with me at first sight, i'll see if i can do something with that. Besides that i'm gonna concentrate on enjoying myself at work instead of worrying about girls.

I'll still report back tomorrow though.

 

[Chamber36]

not doing anything is way ****tier than acting like a douche/perv