How to be a player in a LTR.

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Any guys in high school or in college I'll advise to not be in any serious LTR.

Because if you really care about that person and something goes wrong it more than likely effect your school work.

Now that is over let's get into what really works.


I for one am a college student I am in my second year. During the end of year I was in a LTR. I had gave my all and so did she, But it ended on a sour note. So during the whole process my grades dropped I quit trying to flirt with girls. The whole mystic of me had went away.


1. If you have a cell phone most of all girls check your incoming and outgoing calls. They also check your phone book to see how many girls are in their. I for one never get caught up in this situation. Because I change the names of girls I am messing around with. Say if a girls name is Gina I would put Gary in my phone book. So I remeber it's Gina and my gf won't think it's a girl.

2. Space where you take girls it is very important. I am seeing a girl who has alot of friends so therefore when I am with other girls I have to find other places. If you know you are messing with a girl who is from the westside of town never ever go other places around their. Because odds are you will run into somebody that knows the two of you are together and she will find out.

3. If your gf does find out you were with another girl and she confronts you. NEVER LIE any cheating act you may do always, always have a lie in waiting.

Your girl- Alexxx somebody we know seen you with some other girl at the movies.

You- For real who was it?

Girl- So you were at the movies with another girl.

You- Yeah I went to see a movie with this friend from school or old friend. Say something like I told her so much about you I think the two of you should meet. I think you guys could become real good friends because you have similar personalities. Doing that is calling her bluff which will put her mind at ease.

After that tell her that you care alot about but you have female friends and you cannot dis own them it's not right.

4. Learn how to be the best liar in the world. To me it's not so much I lie now I call it acting. Practice lieing to yourself in the mirrior do it in your head.

Once you get it your money. I am such a good liar when I really need to cover my tail I lie so good I began to believe my own lies.

You have to have the delivery, the eye contact, the tone. Everything has to be perfect and seem real.

Whenever one of my gf's approach me about am I cheating b/s. I take their hand and look into their eyes and say you are the only one I am seeing and you are the only one I want to see. It hurts me when you accuse me of cheating and I have been loyal to you during the whole relationship.

I have a have a rep as a playboy so some girls are cautious before the hookup with me. They say stuff like you look like the type who plays girls or your too nice looking not to have a girl. Or I heard about you. I look them in the eye and say a few weeks ago I got out of a LTR and it was kind of hard for me. Because I loved that person very much and I am sick of staying in the house thinking about her.

In these lying situations you have to be able to think fast be quick and witty.

When girls ask you are you seeing anybody? Don't just say no. Say something like- No I am not but I am thinking about maybe getting into a long term relationship because I really miss spending time with just one special person.

4. You have to remain a mystery to pretty much everybody around you. You must not tell any of your love life to people you may have doubts they could leak something out or let something slip out.

I personally am into being in MLTR because it is keeps everything fun a exciting and it and you are not depending on just one girl. I you are in just a LTR and say your girl goes out of town or she is busy and you want some puzzy.

If you have women in your car you must check everytime they get out of your car. Because women I mess with they love to mark their terriotry. They will leave hair thingys, glasses, anything that if another girl would see another girl would know that you already had a girl in the car.

Also when you switch from chick to chick always have some colonge with you. Because women check and can sense sh!t. If I don't have colonge I use AXE or Old spice it does the trick.

Always talk about intrest or hobbies you have. They will come in handy. The reason the will come in handy say you have a date with chick A but chick be wants to be with you. I either say I have school work or I am wroking doing my hobby. Having a LIFE is always an excuse.

Always do the little things in your relationships flowers, cads, stuffed animals. Those things mean alot to women. It show that you are thinking about them. You always act like your in love with them.

I also pull this trick off. I'll act like I have something to do then I will fake call somebody and cancel. Right in front of the girl I'll say something like forget that we need some quality time together. Doing that she will love you for that and puts alot of things at ease if she is having any doubts about you.

You will be fvcked but if you have three or four ltr you are always money.

The way I can have three to four LTR going at one time is they are all at diffrent levels.

One girl is my main girl the one I really care about the most I know her family she knows mine. She knows all of my friends I know all of hers. I need money she gives it she needs it I give it. It's serious and I make sure she knows how much I care for her. We don't really go out that much it's more like we are a married couple.

The second LTR is I know her family she knows mine. She knows a couple of my friends I know most of hers. We do more blockbuster nights and going to far places to eat or go to the movies. My excuse is I don't like alot of people so I like going where it is less traffic where it is more quite.

The third LTR she doesn't know but a few people from my family and I know a few people from hers. She doesn't know any of my friends I don't know but a couple of hers. We mostly go to the movies or stay at her house.

The fourth LTR she knows none of my family or friends. I know some of her friends and family but I try to just keep it sexual and give her just enough attention not to think about my loyality and commitment.

My LTR are all in diffrent stages where they should be it would not work if we were all on the same stages. I spend alot more time with one than I do with the rest.

It has taught me alot living this lifestyle. I have girls I care about, I make good grades. I always have puzzy I can get at anytime. I never have to worry about finding a girl to do something with I am always booked. I still can flirt with as many girls as I please. I think it is fun to have to be alert because I love the challenge and the rush.

This can be a very simple process all you have to do is follow the steps I have given. A key thing in this is TIME MANGEMENT. You must always make good use of your time. If I am not a school or work I am with girls or my buddies. I have a full life and a full load. But I always try to stay busy and get rest whenever possible. Any free time I am at school I don't try to pickup women I am doing school work.

When I do try to get women I make it a daily routine. When I am going to class ,going home, running errands, shopping. I make good use of my time. Like today is mothers day I told all of my girls I am spending the day with my mom. Which I will part of the day but the other half will be school work and getting sleeping.
 

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Why do you even bother with an LTR if you want to just play chicks? If your in a LTR i always thought you were in it because you liked that ONE girl. Your obviously telling people different. I wouldn't recommend an LTR if you like playing, but hell if you do want to be a player during an LTR, then this is good info.
 

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Originally posted by VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Why do you even bother with an LTR if you want to just play chicks? If your in a LTR i always thought you were in it because you liked that ONE girl. Your obviously telling people different. I wouldn't recommend an LTR if you like playing, but hell if you do want to be a player during an LTR, then this is good info.

I don't know how old your are but I am nineteen. I just got of a LTR where the girl I dated had alot of problems and she was the wrong girl for me. I cared alot for her but she did some things that weren't right. I like having girlfriend's because I always have hot women to do anything with. I have friends who are scrambling all the time looking for women when there girls are busy or they don't have any coming of the bench.

Hell I might even try to get a team (12 women). Up until a short while ago I lead a very boring and dull life. I am ready to live everyday like it's my last.


I have diffrent girls some are preppy white girls some are puerto rican and some are asian. I love to switch up I am young and since I am no longer a AFC I am doing the damn thing.
 

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u said..."never lie, always have a lie in waiting..."

what?!
 

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Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
u said..."never lie, always have a lie in waiting..."

what?!

I said NEVER LIE any cheating act you may do always, always have a lie in waiting.


What I meant is if somebody tells your girlfriend that you were at a movie or dinner with another girl.


Don't say It wasn't me, I wasn't there. Because it will always catch up to you.

Instead say yeah but it was just a friend from shcool or an childhood friend. Don't deny you were at a place with somebody more times than not it won't work.
 

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Originally posted by ultrashogun
Alot of the stuff youve written doesnt make any sense.
Anyway your nothing but a liar and a deceptive, spineless assh0le.

Ms. ultrashogun you have a little mouth on you. Playa don't bag on me because I am not fvcking honest abe to women. Alot of women will lie and cheat on you in a second. I tried that honest one girl sh!t and it doesn't work with all girls.

Until I find mrs. right than I will keep doing what I am doing.

I am very good at my craft and it makes me sick when scrubs like you open your mouth with that morality bullsh!t.
 

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Originally posted by GinuwineXXX
Ms. ultrashogun you have a little mouth on you. Playa don't bag on me because I am not fvcking honest abe to women. Alot of women will lie and cheat on you in a second. I tried that honest one girl sh!t and it doesn't work with all girls.

Until I find mrs. right than I will keep doing what I am doing.

I am very good at my craft and it makes me sick when scrubs like you open your mouth with that morality bullsh!t.
Uh, if you do things correctly, women won't cheat on you. Another thing, the rate you are going, you will blow off Mrs. Right for Mrs. Right Now. Think about it.
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
Uh, if you do things correctly, women won't cheat on you. Another thing, the rate you are going, you will blow off Mrs. Right for Mrs. Right Now. Think about it.

I am 19 I am not looking for mrs. right I am looking for mrs. right now.


One good thing about my LTR is that I know if I am in love I can be faithful. But if I am just trying to have fun which I should do at my age I am gonna do it.
 

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wtf?

ltr = 1 girl. if you're with more than 1 then it's not an ltr; it's called cheating.

and for heaven's sakes RE-READ ur post... half of it made no sense. Use speech marks, commas and periods where they're supposed to be used. i have a headache now from reading that.
 

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How does LTR=1 girl?

LTR = Long term relationship.

A relationship that lasts a long time. This doesn't necessarily have to be with one girl. If I was dating one chick for a year, another for eight months, and another for five months, that would be three LTR's right there.

The whole world does not revolve around finding one girl and making her very happy. If you choose to do so, get married. If someone chooses to date a number of women he is interested in, it's their own choice, and they should do whatever makes THEMSELVES happy. And to be honest, I don't see how having a supply of women to fall back on in case one goes bad could cause you to be unhappy.

Nice post Ginuwine, some good tips. I completely agree with your mindset.
 

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The grammar was horrific, and half of it was illegible. A true disaster of a post, although I do identify with the "player" mindset. It WILL attract women. Being a lovey-dovet Mr. Faithful type won't. But know that the playa mindset will destroy most relationships in the long run, b/c the trust cannot be established.


ginuwine, I like some of your ideas, but you should consider getting your GED b4 you make any more posts. J/k!!! :D :D


Just be more careful with your posts from now on -- a real man is highly intelligent, and also knows how to present or express his ideas with style and brevity. :cool:
 

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Originally posted by Enigmatic
How does LTR=1 girl?

LTR = Long term relationship.

A relationship that lasts a long time. This doesn't necessarily have to be with one girl. If I was dating one chick for a year, another for eight months, and another for five months, that would be three LTR's right there.

I think you misunderstood. What I was trying to say was that a long term relationship involves ONE GIRL AT A TIME. Here is this guy saying he can be in 3 ltrs at once? Hmm...

hope that clears it up.
 

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I'm on Bust.it's side. Why even be in an LTR? Why not just go out and do stuff with chicks, no strings attached. I agree with bust.it about LTR being socially accepted as being with one chick at a time over a long period of time. I'm still pretty young though so this is what i've always thought, not exactly what i've experienced.
 

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Originally posted by bust.it
I think you misunderstood. What I was trying to say was that a long term relationship involves ONE GIRL AT A TIME. Here is this guy saying he can be in 3 ltrs at once? Hmm...

hope that clears it up.
Buster I mean bust.it do a search newbie. MLTR means multiple long term relationships.


Why should I limit myself to just one girl? Because most people do it or it is the right thing to do.

Fvck that and your morals I am gonna be a legend when all of this sh!T is said and done. I am young and I am trying to have fun I don't care if you think it's wrong.

It's like me saying bust.it why would you just want to be in a LTR and not in a MLTR. But I don't because it's your life just like this is mine. I do whatever make ME happy and I don't care if other people don't agree.

VIVAlasVEGASBaby said- Why be in a MLTR and not just date girls?

The reason I have found being in a MLTR better than just dating girls. Is if you just go on dates with girls ever now and again it would be hard to pull off what I do.

What I do is I can call the four girls I am in a relationship with and go to the movies with them. Chill with them and fvck them. It's better than having fvck buddies.

I am just playing by the rules women have set. In my past I have had fvck buddies but after sex a few times they want to be my girl. And I wasn't with that so it ended the wrong way.

If you are just going on dates with girls it would be harder to get puzzy whenever you wanted. Also you are keeping them off of the market so nobody else can hookup with them. So that you know they will be there for you whenever you need them.
 

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When they run into each other, let the fun begin! By the way, you told bust.it to do a newbie search on MLTR...guess what genius? The title of this thread is "How to be a player in a LTR." Notice how it's LTR instead of MLTR. Gee, take the time to clarify things before you insult people, Ginuswine.
 

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Originally posted by GinuwineXXX
Buster I mean bust.it do a search newbie.
Did you think of that one yourself? I'm impressed.

Seriously though, I wish you luck with what you've got yourself into. Like crazykid said, sooner or later they ARE going to find out (hell, it's hard enough cheating with 1 other girl... but 3??) and then what'll happen is you'll lose all of them.

By all means, DATE 4 girls at a time... date 10 or 100 girls at a time: that's what dating is about! However, a large part of a long term relationship is commitment. I'll say it again, COMMITMENT. That means being commited and exclusive (especially with sexual matters) to just one lucky girl.

How would you feel if you discovered one day that one of the girls your with has three other boyfriends?

But yeah, this is your life. Your decision. Good luck with juggling 4 different lives. I'm out.
 

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Why would you even want to do the MLTR thing instead of just dating as many women as you want? It sounds easier to get sex that way than by becoming a trained compulsive liar and wasting all that brainspace trying to remember what to say to which girl, not to mention what you do if they find out about each other. It would be better to be honest and unashamed.

And you didn't register until this month, so who are you to be calling people newbies?
 

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wtf?? your a fool. your going to get caught. all those people are right. why get serious if your going to be fooling around. it will all end badly.
 

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