Buddhistguy
Don Juan
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Hello,
Just wondering if the good people here had any suggestions for being a DJ while living at home at the age of 33?
To give a brief summary of my siituation, for the last ten years, I have been living in my own apartment in the city. This made dating super-easy, as not only was I in the middle of bars, restaurants etc making it easy to meet girls, but I was living next to a major tourist attraction, which made it very easy to bring women back to my place, i.e
After dinner and a few drinks
"Hey, have you ever seen ******* at night? It is all lit up, and really beautiful!"
Thirty minutes later:
"See, I told you it was breathtaking. Hey, my apartment is just round the corner. Do you want to have some drinks there?"
Unfortunately, my father passed away last year and as a result, I decided to move back home for a year to give my mother some emotional support (I am an only child) and to fix up her house so that she can host boarders (so that she will have continued company and an income when I move out).
I have no regrets about my decision as I am glad to be able to help out my mother at this difficult time. However, the one thing I find my self missing is dating, and all of it's, ahem, benefits. She lives way out in the sticks, so there are not many social acitivities to join in on, or places to hang out. I am currently combining work with studying for my masters full-time, so it is hard to meet people - Most of the masters students don't tend to come to campus, and the undergrads are a little too young and silly for me. Meanwhile. there are no prospects at work. I have tried the internet, though I find it pretty hit and miss. I am also finding it hard to work out where to take women home. I find girls are often reluctant to take you back to their palce for the first time, and my mother is very traditional, so she probably would not be ready for me to bring a stream of women home. It has gotten to the point where I have been forced to make use of the back seat of my car with a couple of the girls I met off the internet, which is something I haven't had to do since high school and feels a little tacky. Does anybody have any suggestions?
Just wondering if the good people here had any suggestions for being a DJ while living at home at the age of 33?
To give a brief summary of my siituation, for the last ten years, I have been living in my own apartment in the city. This made dating super-easy, as not only was I in the middle of bars, restaurants etc making it easy to meet girls, but I was living next to a major tourist attraction, which made it very easy to bring women back to my place, i.e
After dinner and a few drinks
"Hey, have you ever seen ******* at night? It is all lit up, and really beautiful!"
Thirty minutes later:
"See, I told you it was breathtaking. Hey, my apartment is just round the corner. Do you want to have some drinks there?"
Unfortunately, my father passed away last year and as a result, I decided to move back home for a year to give my mother some emotional support (I am an only child) and to fix up her house so that she can host boarders (so that she will have continued company and an income when I move out).
I have no regrets about my decision as I am glad to be able to help out my mother at this difficult time. However, the one thing I find my self missing is dating, and all of it's, ahem, benefits. She lives way out in the sticks, so there are not many social acitivities to join in on, or places to hang out. I am currently combining work with studying for my masters full-time, so it is hard to meet people - Most of the masters students don't tend to come to campus, and the undergrads are a little too young and silly for me. Meanwhile. there are no prospects at work. I have tried the internet, though I find it pretty hit and miss. I am also finding it hard to work out where to take women home. I find girls are often reluctant to take you back to their palce for the first time, and my mother is very traditional, so she probably would not be ready for me to bring a stream of women home. It has gotten to the point where I have been forced to make use of the back seat of my car with a couple of the girls I met off the internet, which is something I haven't had to do since high school and feels a little tacky. Does anybody have any suggestions?