squirrels
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 15, 2003
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- Age
- 45
I'm at a point right now in my dating life where I'd like to give a steady relationship with a girl a try...you know, nothing too heavy, but just to have a chance to let things develop with one person, just to get an idea of what it's like.
On the other hand, however, I'm a horndog...I love having sex. I go out to the club and see girls dressed up in hot stuff and I just start mentally drooling.
It seems like the two are mutually exclusive, unless I can find a woman to get steady with who's just so frikkin hot and good in bed that other girls don't matter.
Unfortunately, lots of times the two are mutually exclusive...the sluts don't make good girlfriends.
How do I go about screening for women who are both demons in the sack AND have the essential traits for a STR-MTR? Should I keep doing what I'm doing...trying to lay women and just seeing which ones start to show promise as girlfriend-prospects? Or should I be doing it the other way around? It seems like when I just go after women sexually, they assume that it's all I'm about, so right when I start to get interested in something more, they're already on their way out.
On the other hand, however, I'm a horndog...I love having sex. I go out to the club and see girls dressed up in hot stuff and I just start mentally drooling.
It seems like the two are mutually exclusive, unless I can find a woman to get steady with who's just so frikkin hot and good in bed that other girls don't matter.
Unfortunately, lots of times the two are mutually exclusive...the sluts don't make good girlfriends.
How do I go about screening for women who are both demons in the sack AND have the essential traits for a STR-MTR? Should I keep doing what I'm doing...trying to lay women and just seeing which ones start to show promise as girlfriend-prospects? Or should I be doing it the other way around? It seems like when I just go after women sexually, they assume that it's all I'm about, so right when I start to get interested in something more, they're already on their way out.