How to balance between finding girls and work

ChillDude01

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Iam not rich which means i have to work my asz off and study to get a degree , its all good .... so far iam passing my courses and working 5 days a week , however meeting women is becoming increasingly harder .

I dont have much time to go out , and when i do all i see are couples. At work the youngest woman is like 30 and all are either obese or married ....when i had no job i was doing alright at college and other places but even then despite getting so much attention from women and having time and energy finding decent girls to date or hot ones to bang was still a chore... and now i have basically 1/5 the time i had iam actually struggling to meet girls , i work weekends sometimes even ... i do cardio regularly and watch what i eat plus looking my best and it gives amazing results indeed .... however iam not sure how to go about meeting women be it for sex or relationship when i work 5-6 days a week from 2-12 and go to school .....
 

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Iam not rich which means i have to work my asz off and study to get a degree , its all good .... so far iam passing my courses and working 5 days a week , however meeting women is becoming increasingly harder .
If you're a student, its not rocket science. Go get baeeeeee.

I dont have much time to go out , and when i do all i see are couples. At work the youngest woman is like 30 and all are either obese or married ....when i had no job i was doing alright at college and other places but even then despite getting so much attention from women and having time and energy finding decent girls to date or hot ones to bang was still a chore... and now i have basically 1/5 the time i had iam actually struggling to meet girls , i work weekends sometimes even ... i do cardio regularly and watch what i eat plus looking my best and it gives amazing results indeed .... however iam not sure how to go about meeting women be it for sex or relationship when i work 5-6 days a week from 2-12 and go to school .....
Hit on baeeee everywhere; gym, bar, club, college, Starbucks, online, etc.

Try yoga. Go workout at the park. Do minimum three good approaches per day.

Start a thirty day challenge. Its more important you focus on handling paper, degree, lifestyle but, there's no excuse not to do three approaches per day.
 

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If you're a student, its not rocket science. Go get baeeeeee.



Hit on baeeee everywhere; gym, bar, club, college, Starbucks, online, etc.

Try yoga. Go workout at the park. Do minimum three good approaches per day.

Start a thirty day challenge. Its more important you focus on handling paper, degree, lifestyle but, there's no excuse not to do three approaches per day.
Sounds like a good idea .might try it
 

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Sounds like a good idea .might try it
Think 99.9999% of ones time @ said ambitions.

.1% @ go get baeeeeee!

The thing is, I give 110% @ everything I do. I will do this to the best of my ability or not at all.

If what it is you do doesn't achieve what you want, change your approach.

So many forums, threads, content for getting baeeeeee. How many actually close? How many execute? Execution is everything.

The problem for most is too much smoke. No fire. You have a path in life. The trajectory in which your lifestyle is on, you have faith in, and you march to the beat of your drum.

The paradigm of protector and provider is dated. Its like running a 1980s comp and wondering why you cannot stay in biz.

Flip the script.

Its 2018. Go get baeeeeee but cultivate the ideal lifestyle. As a man, you drop invites @ baeeeeee. Only think, Arnold Schwarzenegger T2 chain gun invites @ everything thin/young/fit/attractive top form SMV (18-23). Leave road kill for broke ass bustas.

Imagine, elon musk quits space x and doesn't teraform Mars because he's chasing his little cherish who will cuck and divorce him later to steal away his resources? That dude is brilliant but still crushing it with 80-100 hr work weeks.

Go get it Playboy but, know you can only serve one master.

Part of that shift in paradigm is optimization of oneself. No higher order then self actualization. That old paradigm was not good enough for women so,they pursued daddy government.

They made their bed.now they got to lie in it.
 

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Think 99.9999% of ones time @ said ambitions.

.1% @ go get baeeeeee!

The thing is, I give 110% @ everything I do. I will do this to the best of my ability or not at all.

If what it is you do doesn't achieve what you want, change your approach.

So many forums, threads, content for getting baeeeeee. How many actually close? How many execute? Execution is everything.

The problem for most is too much smoke. No fire. You have a path in life. The trajectory in which your lifestyle is on, you have faith in, and you march to the beat of your drum.

The paradigm of protector and provider is dated. Its like running a 1980s comp and wondering why you cannot stay in biz.

Flip the script.

Its 2018. Go get baeeeeee but cultivate the ideal lifestyle. As a man, you drop invites @ baeeeeee. Only think, Arnold Schwarzenegger T2 chain gun invites @ everything thin/young/fit/attractive top form SMV (18-23). Leave road kill for broke ass bustas.

Imagine, elon musk quits space x and doesn't teraform Mars because he's chasing his little cherish who will cuck and divorce him later to steal away his resources? That dude is brilliant but still crushing it with 80-100 hr work weeks.

Go get it Playboy but, know you can only serve one master.

Part of that shift in paradigm is optimization of oneself. No higher order then self actualization. That old paradigm was not good enough for women so,they pursued daddy government.

They made their bed.now they got to lie in it.
Women do still find muscline men more attractive and certain traits do indeed attract them, but i do agree in that its kinda outdated, after all 90% of women have jobs, wanna be "independent" date more than one dude at a time and want to act like men, well if they so wish then let them act like men, according to science they are far less satisfied than their mothers and grandmothers , yet dont realize whats going on and keep doing the same mistakes they've been doing for years .

i stopped chasing, i know as a guy i have to approach women first (even though sometimes iam approached or at least they make it super easy to approach) but even i do the initiating i expect her to make an effort as well and if she takes me for granted iam going to tell her or simply move on , I come from a poor background so money is super important atm, i work 5 days a week and i have school, i know that ditching work to get chicks is not right and i wont do it, i will try to get a good job and just try to fit other things into my schedule i guees .
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Women do still find muscline men more attractive and certain traits do indeed attract them, but i do agree in that its kinda outdated, after all 90% of women have jobs, wanna be "independent" date more than one dude at a time and want to act like men, well if they so wish then let them act like men, according to science they are far less satisfied than their mothers and grandmothers , yet dont realize whats going on and keep doing the same mistakes they've been doing for years .
You're missing the point.

Its not about women nor pedaling to the feminine imperative like every other cuck.

Your a man. Act accordingly. I don't give a **** what women responded to.

I lead. She follows or #nextSet!


Far too many men are out trying to be pretty. Lifting is another piss poor attempt at pandering to female entitlement.

Go out into the world and ****in crush it Gary Fee style. Swing the ****in hammer. Slay your dragons. The battle is internal. No doubt,we're in a cultural war.

Encapsulation of oneself as another beta male cuck provider trying to be pretty equated to road kill. Its no diff then women cratered SMV in that delusion of female empowerment. Its baby rabies and the wall that kicks off. Nobody Cares.


Free thinking goes a long way.

You miss the mark. Its irrelevant that females entitlement gets wet for me crushing it in life. Its a by product of lifestyle choices. I give zero ****s for hypergamy nor her egomaniacal junkies good girl shtick.


Focus on being. Its about execution and the rest falls in line.

i stopped chasing, i know as a guy i have to approach women first (even though sometimes iam approached or at least they make it super easy to approach) but even i do the initiating i expect her to make an effort as well and if she takes me for granted iam going to tell her or simply move on , I come from a poor background so money is super important atm, i work 5 days a week and i have school, i know that ditching work to get chicks is not right and i wont do it, i will try to get a good job and just try to fit other things into my schedule i guees .
Think of building a house. Its an absurdity of tasks go together to building a home.

Your task is to break the ice. Its phaggotry guys trying to be pretty, fence sitting. Still has approach anxiety and pisses from the seated position. Even the sound of their piss hitting the porcelain sounds feminine.

I blame low testosterone.


Mate, the chick, the pull, the nutting on her face, and leaving to go get more baeee is plate spinning. Most men crying about some slu, marry a ***** who made them wait while chad stretches out her *******. Some cuck calls her wife. Its comedic relief.


Its the journey. Not the destination.

Your path takes precedence over both women and world. Ironically enough, you still go get baeee. Why? My **** won't suck itself. The diff being, free thinking. Pace. Lead. Purpose. Cultivation of being. Become that man who crushes it. Who gets $$$$$$, smashed baeeee rotten, and repeat.

The path isn't linear. Its cyclical.

Acquire resources, entrepreneurial endeavors, self knowledge, explore consciousness, I smoke DMT. I lift. I get deezed. I generate endorphins and a flow state through routine of hiking, bar stars, lifting, running, sports, etc. I meditate and to yoga. I go get baeee for sport.

Its just routine. Another day at the office.
 
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