How to ask a girl out at my class ?

[Pr0lab]

Hey folks,

That's a pretty easy one, I just looking for better way to phrase it.

Background: we at the same class and we chitchat couple of times.
So my question is which one of these sentence would you choose to invite her to a date:

1. You cute, we should go out sometime have some coffee outside school !

2. Hey I like talking to you, we should get together outside school for coffee ! ( and chitchat)

3. We should get together outside school, to get some coffee together (Dinner?)

4. Hey, Would you like to get together for a coffee this weekend !

5. Hey, lets get together for a coffee this weekend !

I know that the wording is not as important as body language but it still matter not to be perceived as not a confident man.


P.S. What do you guys think Coffee Vs. Dinner ?

Thanks Much !

 

[Captain Harlock]

well certainly don't ask her out for dinner.

 

[intrextrovert]

Yeah, no dinner.

And idk how coffee works around there, if that's cool to do aight. If you want to do the coffee/tea/hot chocolate thang and not sure if she likes coffee or something, just say the cafe you'd go to or whatever.

PS I like 2 best. If you can try to lead that off of something she said that was funny or interesting, cause 2 is phrased like a reward.

 

[Captain]

"I'm going for a coffee after school, you should come with me."

This is much better than directly asking her.

Dinner is a bad first date, as are movies, for that matter.

You need to have her attracted to you first, or she either won't come, or will come with a "let's just be friends" speech prepared if you make a move.

You need to touch her during the date.

 

[Pr0lab]

well certainly don't ask her out for dinner.

I heard that before, but why no dinner?

 

[Pr0lab]

"I'm going for a coffee after school, you should come with me."

This is much better than directly asking her.

Dinner is a bad first date, as are movies, for that matter.

You need to have her attracted to you first, or she either won't come, or will come with a "let's just be friends" speech prepared if you make a move.

You need to touch her during the date.

Agree !
but, I know that it is never going to happened, we finish different times and I am working.

 

[Captain Harlock]

I heard that before, but why no dinner?

Because you're in high school and it's a first date. Asking a girl for dinner on a first date, especially in high school is one of the most AFC things to do. You'd probably end up paying for it all on top of it.

 

[Pr0lab]

Because you're in high school and it's a first date. Asking a girl for dinner on a first date, especially in high school is one of the most AFC things to do. You'd probably end up paying for it all on top of it.

it's a college

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

Just make sure to use at least one exclamation point and you'll be fine.

 

[Darth_Qurashi]

just be like walking out of class, the be like, yo im' cold/thirsty, ima get some hot chocolate, want some? I'll pay. (only say you'll pay as a last resort). luckily for me, when i did it, i had these free hot beverage coupons hehe, so she was like sweet.

just be very casual, like you do it al the time, that way thers no pressure on her, and once u guys are alone then u do watever u wanna do i dono,

 

[wd40]

my thing that i do a lot is to be talking to her and then randomly say "so when are we gunna start hanging out on the weekends?" then she says "well i don't know when are we?" and you say hey howbout on (whatever day you want) we go (whatever type of thing you wanna do). this works really well because it sounds really natural like you didnt really plan it and like its no big deal to you.

 

[Pr0lab]

I like that one, tHANKS

 

[wd40]

no problemo.

 

[Giacobe.KB]

"guess what ur going to do this weekend *grins*,ur hanging out with me!"
or something along that line

 

[Vogel]

As Giacobe says, show her that you have the energy and is different compared to all the other guys, "dominate" her so she really dosn't have a choice.