fragmentor
Senior Don Juan
ok, so here's the deal. I'm 16, this girls 18 (older women: ooh yeah), she cute and probably a 7.5 in my books (fairly high). we go the same school. she's been attracted to me since we first met, she's texted me every day since (that's about 3 weeks everyday), but we never really managed to like talk to each other properly. she invited me to a party next week, to come round hers a few hours before 
so we we had both finished our lessons, nothing to do. she called me and we then met up, went breifly into town for an hour. i was pretty confident, i knew she was attracted to me and she saw me as like the "alpha-male"!
first 5 mins was pretty gud, she was laughing her ass off at all my sly little comment,s couple minutes and couple of not so funny jokes later, boom. awkward. not much talking going on.my mind seemed blank and i just couldnt think of a way to keep it going, so it got more and more tense. i tried to pick it back up but it ended up being like a f***ing investigation from me into her. aaaaaa. i'm pretty sure this lack of being able to keep the whole thing going has pretty much killed her attraction to me, im no longer the "alpha-male" in her eyes anymore. we left and went seperate ways about an hour later.
basically my need of advice from you fine people is this: how do you guys keep the whole thing going? do you end up in a proper conversation or of like just constant neg-hitting? what subjects do you talk about? how did i manage to screw up, was it a confidence issue? what should i have done when it started getting awkward? should i have confronted the situation e.g. say "man this is awkward" (do you guys tend to talk about the current situation rather than just all the bull convo?)? how can i prevent this sort of thing happening with another girl? and most importantly - how do i act when i next see her???
i know that's quite a few questions, but all are valid, and yes, i've read the ****ing bible. just need some tips from u guys perspective.
so we we had both finished our lessons, nothing to do. she called me and we then met up, went breifly into town for an hour. i was pretty confident, i knew she was attracted to me and she saw me as like the "alpha-male"!
first 5 mins was pretty gud, she was laughing her ass off at all my sly little comment,s couple minutes and couple of not so funny jokes later, boom. awkward. not much talking going on.my mind seemed blank and i just couldnt think of a way to keep it going, so it got more and more tense. i tried to pick it back up but it ended up being like a f***ing investigation from me into her. aaaaaa. i'm pretty sure this lack of being able to keep the whole thing going has pretty much killed her attraction to me, im no longer the "alpha-male" in her eyes anymore. we left and went seperate ways about an hour later.
basically my need of advice from you fine people is this: how do you guys keep the whole thing going? do you end up in a proper conversation or of like just constant neg-hitting? what subjects do you talk about? how did i manage to screw up, was it a confidence issue? what should i have done when it started getting awkward? should i have confronted the situation e.g. say "man this is awkward" (do you guys tend to talk about the current situation rather than just all the bull convo?)? how can i prevent this sort of thing happening with another girl? and most importantly - how do i act when i next see her???
i know that's quite a few questions, but all are valid, and yes, i've read the ****ing bible. just need some tips from u guys perspective.
