How the F U C K do you approach a woman on the street!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

[Iguana]

You are walking north and you see a hb8/9/10 walking towards you, what the hell do you tell her without scaring her?!!?!?!?!?!?

Damn!! I didn't approach today to a hb9 walking in my direction because I had NO IDEA of what to tell her!!!

I mean, "hello" is not enough, you must have an escuse in order to STOP her and talk to her.

Damn...she was hot...

What would you do in this situation? Me = clueless.

 

[que_est_suave]

yeah it's a good question... the best way is if you see a chick walking towards you, and you're interested... if she's not looking at you keep looking, if she looks up and you make eye contact... keep the eye contact... i found it works best if you have a slight grin on your face... not like a stalker or a crazed madman or anything, just like... an i-find-you-attractive-you-almost-made-me-blush kinda smile... that usually prolongs the eye contact... she's probably thinking "what is he laughing at?" if they're not attracted to you, and if they ARE attracted, then you might get a 270-stare (where your head TURNS as ure passing) or they may say hi or something...

if you passed without saying something, you're more or less free to turn back and shout 'hi' or something, then cos you know she's interested you can just ask her if she's single - tell her ur in a hurry, ask for her number and go...

its not too hard, just find your own style... depends on what your streets are like too - lol... but remember be lighthearted about it, dont be nervous or put too much into it - keep it light and funky

 

[gav]

it's best if they aren't moving. whenever one of these survey folk tries to stop me, i imagine that's what those girls feel like

 

[nw1512]

Like quest said

Just say to her

"I noticed you walking by and wanted to know are you single"

With a confident tone of voice, relaxed and in control of what your saying.


She'll um and ah, as there not sure how to answer if they have a bf.

If she say's YES, Just say

"Whats your number, i'll ring you"

You dont even have to know her name, find that out when you call her.

 

[-.-]

Originally posted by nw1512


You dont even have to know her name, find that out when you call her.

Lol! I can see it now..

"Hi can i... talk to.. the girl i met at the mall"

Her mom: Excuse me?

"Well, hi.. did we talk in the mall earlier?"

Her mom: Who's on the line?

"May I please speak with your daughter?

Her mom: *Hangs up*

 

[Iguana]

Any more ideas?

 

[gav]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=34241&perpage=20&pagenumber=1

thought i'd share that with you. i'm reading this just now, thinking it's a great idea

check out the last page for the guy's success rates. it's like 40% number close just by saying "hey, are you single? i'm meeting new people. give me your number and i'll call you back" or something like that.

 

[joecollapoppa]

I don't approach women on the street and I don't like to be approached by strangers on the streets. so I don't sweat it too much, HB7's - HB9's walk past me on the streets and I may hold eye contact for a bit but thats it. However, I will talk to girls on trains or buses. or any public transportation or on a line at a store.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by -.-
Lol! I can see it now..

"Hi can i... talk to.. the girl i met at the mall"

Her mom: Excuse me?

"Well, hi.. did we talk in the mall earlier?"

Her mom: Who's on the line?

"May I please speak with your daughter?

Her mom: *Hangs up*

That made me laugh.


Hmm, just think of an awesome neg hit walking by.
(assume she's wearing a mini-skirt)
"Hi there, I really liked your skirt, and wondered what happened to the rest of it?" In a C&F attitude.

(I know, i know, i stole it, but its a really good one)

Or just make up something on the spot.

Of course if you have a place to go it seems kind of weird to turn around and just spark a conversation. Just keep moving with her, don't wanna be an annoying survey guy

 

[joecollapoppa]

This one was invented my cousin G'd up Skull Smasha. Thats his street name. Trip a girl on the streets and help her up. say damn, Where your books at?

Originally the falling book technique and now the falling girl technique. sweet if done correctly.

 

[Omega]

>>Hey, do you know where 4th street is?
>Yes, its blah blah blah.
>>Good, not to far. Where are you headed?
>Blah blah blah
>>Oh really, that's quite a walk!

 

[CapiCrimini]

make a note of the crossroads your on... say your on say your on rabbit st. and 5th ave.

I remembered this because of R3Ns post... go...

>Excuse me do you know where rabbit st. is?
> it's right here...
>ohhh... whoops... I feel stupid... would you happen to know where 5th ave is by any chance...
>....


Feel free to pull the words around any way you like... I used to use that one...If she smiles your in... If she's serious during the whole thing then she's busy or something...

Thats a good intro though... Rarely do people not chucle at that... the key is to not act totally serious or they won't pick up it's a joke... but if you act to jokey then they'll just think your playing them... be a little inbetween...

Just be creative... If you don't have enough courage to do a dead approach figure out why you would need to approach a stranger then warp that into a a way you could use that to get a chicks number... here's some thoughts...

Your Lost...
Your New...
You lost a Pet and are looking for them..
You thought you knew them...

ect.
ect.


good luck...

 

[Omega]

Capi I like that alot actually. I just winged it to myself.

"Hey, do you know where 5th is?"
>>Right there
"Are you serious? Great, it's been a long day "
>>Hehe
"Where are you headed?"

For a pyschopath such as yourself, that was a good one. I'm impressed.

 

[Krassus]

1. Open. There are two main categories to choose from: direct and indirect. You pick the one that suits your game. You can also make i either somewhat serious or really lighthearted and funny, also depending on what you prefer. I like to keep it fresh so i go back and forth between every kind of opener imaginable. An example of an indirect opener would be asking for directions or getting her opinion on whether you look better with shades on or off, shirt tucked in or not, etc. Add some humor to the directions opener and make it direct opener. For example, tell her that you really have to pee and ask for directions to the nearest fire hydrant. It's a direct opener because she knows what you're up to and doesn't mind at all because you're comfortable enough with it to laugh at it. A slightly more direct, yet lighthearted opener would be "OMG you're so cute, i wanna get to know you!" Of course, you have to pull it off with a sarcastic attitude or you'll come off as being desparate. A serious direct opener is something along the lines of "hey, lemme ask you something.. are you single?"

Hope that helps. I'll post some steps on what to say after later.

 

[CapiCrimini]

"OMG you're so cute, i wanna get to know you!"

an easy way to do this is when she says..

thanks or whatever you go....

> oh...oh my god... I'm so sorry... I was talking to her [point to girl behind her]... I'm sorry...your-your... okay I guess
> [she should look ackward and sad, or really embaressed]
> Jesus, I'm just playing, [smile really big give her a friendly shove to the shoulder], I didn't mean for you to take it hard, let me make it up to you I'll buy you a drink some time. Give me your number....


Point and score... simple as that...

Mattering on how you want to play that you can also change it around to make it to all your own different attitude... thats mine... I like to keep them on the edge so they never know whats happening... the above happens in just a few senconds and thier handing over thier number before they even realize it...Don't let them think... let them feel...

anyway... there is hundreds of different openrers don't sound canned... and find your own way... most of all Have fun.

1. Open. There are two main categories to choose from: direct and indirect. You pick the one that suits your game. You can also make i either somewhat serious or really lighthearted and funny, also depending on what you prefer. I like to keep it fresh so i go back and forth between every kind of opener imaginable. An example of an indirect opener would be asking for directions or getting her opinion on whether you look better with shades on or off, shirt tucked in or not, etc. Add some humor to the directions opener and make it direct opener. For example, tell her that you really have to pee and ask for directions to the nearest fire hydrant. It's a direct opener because she knows what you're up to and doesn't mind at all because you're comfortable enough with it to laugh at it. A slightly more direct, yet lighthearted opener would be "OMG you're so cute, i wanna get to know you!" Of course, you have to pull it off with a sarcastic attitude or you'll come off as being desparate. A serious direct opener is something along the lines of "hey, lemme ask you something.. are you single?"

not to offend... but this sounded really canned and hashed... I'm not trying to make a personal hit... but that's just how it sounded to me... like your just repeating what you heard... Not saying that you are... just some constructive crit.

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by CapiCrimini
an easy way to do this is when she says..

thanks or whatever you go....

> oh...oh my god... I'm so sorry... I was talking to her [point to girl behind her]... I'm sorry...your-your... okay I guess
> [she should look ackward and sad, or really embaressed]
> Jesus, I'm just playing, [smile really big give her a friendly shove to the shoulder], I didn't mean for you to take it hard, let me make it up to you I'll buy you a drink some time. Give me your number....

Point and score... simple as that...

Mattering on how you want to play that you can also change it around to make it to all your own different attitude... thats mine... I like to keep them on the edge so they never know whats happening... the above happens in just a few senconds and thier handing over thier number before they even realize it...Don't let them think... let them feel...

anyway... there is hundreds of different openrers don't sound canned... and find your own way... most of all Have fun.

not to offend... but this sounded really canned and hashed... I'm not trying to make a personal hit... but that's just how it sounded to me... like your just repeating what you heard... Not saying that you are... just some constructive crit.

Haha, that's a killer way to open a girl. Just bounce her around like that! You're right though, the stuff i wrote up is standard FastSeduction material that's great for someone who's just getting started. Like i said, i go back and forth. Here's a bit i wrote on FF about opening earlier today:

Oh please, you can open with anything! Get out of your head! I opened a girl by talking to a purse on a shelf next to her a few days ago. I often give girls nicknames on the fly and open them with that. "Hey Pinky!" if she's wearing a pink top or "Sup Blondie?" If a girl has pigtails, i often open with something like "OMG, i am SO tempted to pull those right now!" The other day at a bookstore, "soo, what's this useless junk you're looking at anyway?" Waitress at a coffee shop "OMG you look SO mean!" Girl also wearing white jeans "you stole my pants!" Two-set walking away, "RUNN RUNN RUNN!" I have SMILE IF YOU MASTURBATE as my cell phone's background and i open girls by just showing that to them all the time! Ahh man, just have fun with it, that's all that matters! I agree completely with TD said: when you're feelin it, anything works! Because you SOUND like you BELIEVE she'll LOVE what you just said! And it works, girls completely eat this stuff up, no matter how ridiculous it is! I'm gonna try "woof woof" tonight just to prove my point. And i know exactly how it'll play out too. I'll either get a laugh or a WTF look, in which case i'll just shrug and go 'i just felt like saying something ridiculous' with a huge grin and she'll start cracking up.

 

[CapiCrimini]

I agree completely with TD said: when you're feelin it, anything works! Because you SOUND like you BELIEVE she'll LOVE what you just said!

Great point right thier... I posted once that people don't know your ugly until you tell them... and people don't... when you say... oh I look horrible today... they log that into thier head...

Thats the true reason you should be positive... because when your positive people around you take you as positive and fun rather then dark and gloomy...

Humans by nature are trustyworthy beings. If something sounds beliveable they belive it. Thats how cults work.. they take the beliveable and slowly add on other slightly beliveable things. Until what you belive isn't beliveable to others... and the truth is Unbeliveable and must be false...

So not only what you say but how you act determine if she'll belive you and how she will react...

Hope that made sense... but what it means is... You TELL people how they should feel and react to you... You TELL people how they should feel and react to you...


Hope that helped Iguana
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[CapiCrimini]

oh and Iggy or whatever your called... please refrain from saying F U C K in capital letters and excessive !!!!'s and ????'s ... really... If your frustrated yelling and doing stuff like that won't get you respect and more importantly people will be less likely to help you...

A smile can be ackward... but it doesn't hurt.

 

[Iguana]

Thanks a lot!!


PS/ I tried to edit the thread name but I didn't let me... Maybe a moderator can do me the favor

 

[Ricky]

Best way I know is to ask where she got something she's wearing. Try to keep it above the beltline, unless you mention her shoes.